Some people say that the medicine that cannot be bought in the world is the "repent medicine", and the road that cannot be done is the "returning".
Everyone has times when they regret it. Some people are addicted to regret, keep turning back and stopping; some people are brave enough to get rid of regret and live a successful life.
Such a huge difference is that some people can face the problem, know how to turn things around, and know that everything should look forward.
always keeps on the past, which not only cannot solve the problem, but also increases worries.
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dare not face
Writer Carnegie in " Weaknesses of Human Nature " said: "Happiness does not depend on the external environment, it is determined by our mentality."
Since the environment and facts cannot be changed, change your attitude and thinking.
I once read a story.
Mary is a novice salesman. She was very uncomfortable at the beginning of work. She sold a sewing machine to the fishmonger. Before she could speak halfway, she was driven away by the fishmonger impatiently. The person watching the fun next to
thought Mary would not come here to promote it again.
Unexpectedly, the next day, Mary sorted out her mood, came here again, and even joked with the people who drove her away.
Just like that, Mary never gave up easily, but faced the problem and solved it. She moved forward bravely without hesitation, constantly won the recognition of consumers, and became the sales champion for many years.
The book "Autumn" says: "There is no thing that cannot be overcome, only the mood that cannot be overcome."
people, you must know how to clean yourself in time. "Yesterday" is gone, why not let it leave safely? "Today" is right in front of you. As long as you grasp it well, you can create miracles.
hit drama "Battle of the Rose", Zhong Youwei cheated on his marriage. On the way to sign the divorce agreement, he unfortunately suffered a car accident and fell into a coma, facing the situation of becoming a vegetative person in the second half of his life.
Wife Jiang Lan was silent. She remembered the mutual appreciation of the two when they started their business, and the support they had been together for 25 years. She couldn't bear to face the misfortune alone, so she chose to forgive.
She took on the heavy responsibility of taking care of Zhong Youwei and established a foundation to help others in the name of Zhong Youwei.
Jiang Lan, while choosing to let go, she is also saying goodbye to the misfortunes of the past. Taking care of her husband who is not capable of taking care of herself, although it is very hard, her heart is open-minded.
Since the unhappiness has arrived, self-pity is useless and will add a lot of trouble.
It is better to face the ups and downs in life calmly and bravely pursue the beauty of tomorrow.
person, only if you have the ability to face problems can you "look at the sight of things in the long run". Perhaps, surprises are only in an instant.
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Don’t know how to read the article
celebrity in the technology industry Wang An Dr. Wang once recalled something when he was a child:
html When he was 16 years old, he was playing outside and found a bird’s nest landing on the ground, with a little sparrow lying next to it.
Wang An raised pity for the little sparrow, wanting to take it home to feed it, but he was worried that his mother would not allow it. So he put the bird's nest at the door of his house and entered the room to discuss with his mother.
After obtaining my mother's consent, Wang An ran back to the door happily, but there was no trace of the little sparrow. Only an empty bird's nest was left on the ground, and a cat licking his mouth happily.
Wang An was very upset. It was his hesitation that gave the cat an opportunity to take advantage of.
Therefore, Wang An was reluctant to contact small animals for a long time.
Later, under the comfort of his parents, he figured it out, stayed in the past, couldn't solve any problems, and learning lessons was what he should do.
Since then, Wang An no longer has any worries or hesitation when encountering problems. He will do it immediately after he has thought about it. With decades of hard work, he has created extraordinary achievements in the field of science and technology and won a lot of flowers and applause.
The author of " Leave the Leave the Leave the " Yamashita Eiko once said: "Understand yourself, let go of your past self, and you can realize your potential."
When encountering unsatisfactory things, should you look back, feel regretful, or strode forward and be firm and persistent, and the ending you choose will be.
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Don't move forward
Shakespeare in "Storm " said: "Look forward, don't look back, as long as you have the courage to face it, you will find that the haze at this moment is just a short rainy season. Looking forward, there is still a bright sky that will not make people feel confused."
Life is to look forward, cross the dangerous peaks, to see different scenery, and to reach the other side of victory earlier.
Former South African President Mandela , was imprisoned for 30 years and suffered humiliation.
Later, he was released from prison and became president. In a speech, he specially invited three prison guards who had to tortured him in every way and bowed to them to thank them.
Mandela said: "When I walked out of the cell and walked through the prison gate to freedom, I already knew that if I could not leave my grief and resentment behind me, then I was still in prison."
Looking forward is kindness to others and tolerance to myself.
Mandela completely bid farewell to the humiliation of the past, opened a new life, and led the people of South Africa to create new glory.
History cannot be rewritten, only those who know how to look forward will be favored by life. The page that was turned over in early spring will be unhappy, and in autumn, you will get the answer.
Some people may think that persistence will make us stronger. In fact, "let go" is also the background color for us to seek rebirth.
Going through the old days and starting a new life is to say goodbye to the past and become one step closer to a bright future.
Murakami Haruki said: "Don't worry about the present, nor do you have to worry about the future. There is no useless experience in life, so we keep walking, and it will definitely be bright."
When you no longer spin in place, you will find that in the distance, the beam of light passing through the clouds is warmly shining on you. As long as you look forward bravely, you will find new vitality.
Be willing to face everything, be able to turn things around, and look forward, you can tap into your infinite potential and live a prosperous life.
Author profile: Jin Qingluo, I wish to wash away all the bad luck, and I will still be a teenager when I return.
