You are too weak when you are despised and looked down upon.
You are like a grass on the roadside, and everyone wants to step on it, because you don’t have to pay any price to step on it. Humans are the most complex creatures in this world. They like to fight and bully the weak and follow the strong.
If you are not strong enough, you will face many troubles, and it is easier to see praise, down on others, contempt and contempt in interpersonal communication.
It is very uncomfortable to be despised and looked down upon by people. Humans are group animals, living among the masses, getting along with people is communication. What should we do if there is contempt and contempt in these communications? Should we rise up and resist or pretend to be strong? Do you pretend to ignore or work hard quietly?
No matter which way it is, as long as you can make progress, it is a good way. If you are despised and looked down upon, just do this.
Never do not have glass heart
As a person, he should avoid glass heart the most.
Why do you face setbacks in the same way? Some people work hard to deal with them, some people can only cry, and some people choose to escape. It is because everyone has different stress resistance index, different tolerance and different mentality.
People with good mentality have a strong stress resistance index and good tolerance. People with a glass-hearted heart can overwhelm them no matter how small they are.
In interpersonal communication, it is common and inevitable to hold on to the top and down. If you encounter it, don’t be vitiligo, because you are too vitiligo, you will be trapped in it and can’t get out. You will fall into self-doubt and self-giving mentality because of others’ contempt and despise.
As a person, you can't be strong, but you can't live in the eyes of others and in the words of others. Slur and look down on you is not a big problem. When you ignore it, it will not affect you. When you face it, it is just something that inspires you to move forward, not something that loses your face.
Face is earned by yourself, not given by others. When you have face enough, you will take the initiative to detour and despise or look down on it.
is strong inside, and works hard secretly
people's hearts are actually full of grievances, and being able to hold a boat on the belly is also tears turning into rivers.
As a person, you must be strong and confident. If you are strong inside, anything is a trivial matter, and no one's contempt or despise is enough to worry.
: The best attitude towards life for a person is to face everything with a normal mind. Others hold on to each other, they are calm but not proud, and others despise each other, they are indifferent but not inferior.
In addition to being strong inside, you also have to work quietly in secret to change the status quo.
As long as today is a little better than yesterday, it is progress. As long as you persist, it will be different every day.
If you don’t work hard, you will be in vain for life.
Treat it normally and is not affected
powerful people, but smile indifferently in the face of others' ridicule.
A strong person will never take it seriously when facing the contempt and despise of others.
This is not an ostrich mentality, nor is it a turtle shy head. Instead, these things are small things, just treat them normally.
People have strengths and weaknesses. A temporary weakness does not mean a lifetime of weaknesses, and a temporary strength does not mean a lifetime of strengths. Therefore, people who see through it will ignore the contempt and look down on others, because time will make all contempt and look down on you a joke.
Summary: It doesn’t matter if
is despised or looked down upon by others, but the important thing is that you don’t know how to work hard, don’t know how to rise up and chase after you and change the status quo. Not only that, you are also greedy and desperate, immersed in the harm of others and cannot extricate yourself. It is the real sadness that you can only live in the contempt and despise of others in your life.
