号/The rain is clear and fragrant lotus (Henan rain is small lotus)
号 is a frost flower , beautiful but cool, exuding beautiful poetry. It makes people feel pity when they look at it.
Qingxiao is a chrysanthemum, ordinary and stubborn, not afraid of the cold of wind and frost. As soon as people get close, they feel calm.
In the clear autumn wind, pick up a fallen leaf, cook a pot of tea, write down the autumn poems, let the autumn rain splash ink into a painting, and the autumn colors are stained into a scenery.
Life is like autumn, and the glitz of life will always be eliminated by the years, leaving behind the precipitation of thoughts. The clear autumn is cold and cold, I wish you to be born towards the sun; life is like autumn, I wish you love life!
——Yu Xiaohe Preface
01. Relieve everything is unhappy, take it as you like, calmly
The seasons change, the years pass, many things have changed, and many scenery has changed their original appearance.
When the chrysanthemums in autumn bloom one after another, it seems that you can feel the beauty of the present. The air is filled with pleasant fragrance of flowers, and the expectations for life are flashing in your eyes.
When autumn leaves fall one after another, it seems that you can feel the flow of time. The days are flowing with the tranquility of time, and the fragments of the past are sliding down at the fingertips.
In life, there are always some things that make people feel resentful. There are always some times that make people miss you; there are always some past that make people unforgettable.
However, no matter what, we cannot go back to the past and cannot keep the past. Only by slowly calming down your mood and returning to simplicity and silence; slowly forgetting the past and letting go of regrets.
Feng Zikai once said: "Since there is nowhere to escape, it is better to be happy. Since there is no Pure Land, it is better to be calm. Since there is no wish, it is better to be relieved."
Sometimes, when we face the ups and downs of life, we really have nowhere to escape; sometimes, when we face the hardships of life, we really can't do anything.
Since this is the case, you can only practice the strength of your heart in peace, relieve everything that is not satisfactory, follow the situation, and be calm.
02. Time is ruthless, not only passing by time, but also changing life
Those scenery that have passed away, the past years are all the flowers falling in memory, with a faint fragrance of flowers and a thin coolness.
Those encounters of youth are frozen into a scroll, with surprises of first meetings and sorrows of parting.
Those stormy days have flowed into a memory, with the vicissitudes between eyebrows and the sadness in the heart.
Those colorful life fireworks are cold and silent as stories, with the joy of staying together and the indifference that is far away.
Those colorful seasons have become memories, including the spring warmth of flowers and the desolation of the prosperity.
Bi Shumin said: "The glacier of memory has gradually collapsed and melted under the erosion of the years. The original crystal clear past has become increasingly rare."
The years are ruthless, not only vicissitudes of appearance, but also melts memories; time is ruthless, not only passing on time, but also changing life.
Many memories, withering like fallen flowers, dissipating all the faint fragrance; many stories, like autumn leaves, yellowing, falling, returning to the dust.
03. Always maintain your longing for life, love for life,
Life is short, the road you have walked has become the scenery in memory, and the scenery you have seen has become the falling flowers in memory.
Perhaps, the beauty of the world will always wither like flowers, leaving behind the quiet branches swaying alone.
Perhaps, the hardships of life will always be as bitter as strong tea, and taste the joys and sorrows of life.
The story of time has settled into the scenery in the heart, dyed with wind and frost, and returned to simplicity and tranquility; the flow of time has condensed into the lines between the eyebrows, revealing vicissitudes and being calm in the heart.
This is true, we are still full of longing for life and full of love for life. Because we know very well that life is only this life, life is only this life.
Roman Rolland said: "There is only one true heroism in the world, that is, to still love life after realizing the truth of life."
There is no turning back in life, and there is no safe haven in life. We can only face the wind, frost, rain and snow of life strongly, and move calmly.
No matter what, I always maintain my longing for life and my love for life.
04. Life is like autumn, may you be born towards the sun; life is like poetry, may you love life
When the autumn wind blows down the yellow leaves, we still love every plant in the autumn wind, and still love every sunrise and sunset in life.
When the past is desolate, we still love every day in life and every full moon in life.
Because we have a heart that loves life, know how to let go of the past, know how to cherish the present, know how to be grateful for the gifts of the years.
We only hope to keep some beauty and get some warmth in the vicissitudes of time; we only hope to keep some truth, goodness and beauty in the changing seasons, and send some blessings.
Ding Limei said: "I just wish that the flowers in the world will bloom well. And I hope that every leaf in the autumn wind can have a good home."
Life is almost unsatisfactory. Only by maintaining a love for life can you find beauty.
Life, ups and downs are all blessings, only by cherishing blessings can you see the beauty.
Life is like autumn, may you be born towards the sun; life is like poetry, may you love life!
text: The rain is filled with fragrance of lotus. Another pseudonym: Yu Xiaohe
Image source: Xiaoqing Photography (authorized by Xiaoqing)
