[Author Profile] Qingquan, video number: Qingquan Shuxiangyuan. A lifelong learner who likes to read, write, share life and experience in growth. Feel a beautiful life through the words of the soul.
Have you ever lived like me, and at some point, your life became what you didn’t want the most. Every day when I open my eyes, I work, children, do laundry and cook, and have no time to think about myself.
When it was late at night, I lay tiredly on the bed, listening to the sound of the child and her husband sleeping sound, but I felt an unknown sense of emptiness. This sense of emptiness makes people unable to fall asleep for a long time. I got up the next morning, and it was another day of repetition.
My subconscious reminds me deeply that this is not the life I want, I cannot be carried away by such a life, I should have my own life and live my own way. So I embarked on the path of finding myself.
Since then, I have started to buy classes to study wildly. In the past 3 years, I have used my spare time to study a lot of courses. To learn, I use all the time I can use. But life has almost no change. But I still feel that I have a lot to learn, and if I fail to achieve my goals, I will feel deeply guilty and guilty. Therefore, I live more confused and anxious every day.
In February this year, I purchased Teacher Hongdan’s annual membership. In the past six months of study with Teacher Hongdan, my life has undergone earth-shaking changes. It was Teacher Hongdan that made me wake up from my life and no longer be confused and anxious, but that I am full of passion and energy every day, and I live a fulfilling life every day.
01 Find your life goals, and your life is no longer confused and anxious
In a few years, I have been able to buy so many courses to study. One of the important reasons is that I don’t know what I really want. Because the knowledge learned has no direction and is not transformed into results, it is often forgotten before and after learning. As a result, it will naturally lead to the more you learn, the more you become confused, the more you learn, the more anxious you become, and the more you learn, and there will be no changes in life.
By following Teacher Hongdan’s course, I learned the importance of setting goals.
I started thinking about what exactly I want? What are my advantages?
I think, learning and change are the first thing to do is to change the economic foundation, achieve financial freedom, and no longer sell your time for life? Haven’t I studied many courses and read many books over the years? Isn’t this one of my own advantages? What Mr. Hongdan strongly advocates is writing. So I firmly chose writing as my goal in life.
Through writing, first of all, I can monetize and achieve economic changes; secondly, I can make a good output of what I have learned to help me learn better; finally, writing is the potential that everyone has, as long as I learn, I develop it.
As Teacher Hongdan said, there is a writer living in each of us, and we all have the urge to tell our stories to others. In our busy life, we all have dreams of using words to record what we think, see and hear. Each of us has a dream of writing and a dream of writers.
After I had the goal of writing, I was full of energy every day, full of confidence in life, and no longer anxious or confused. I wake up for two hours in the morning, listen to Teacher Hongdan’s courses, and take notes carefully. With clear goals, the ideological burden will be gone at once, the mental friction will be reduced, and more energy will be gained.
Finding the writing direction and setting writing goals is the starting point for me to work hard to be myself and strive to pursue happiness.
02 Be down-to-earth and move forward step by step toward the goal of
writing has been set, but how can we achieve it step by step? In the course of
, Teacher Hongdan talks about the five stages of achieving the writing goals.
First, first become a writing expert, let yourself fall in love with writing, and develop the habit of writing;
Second, become a self-media blogger, deliberately practice public writing, register a self-media account, and accumulate your fans; third, become a manuscript expert, constantly contribute, become different authors of the manuscript or contracted author;
Fourth, become a writing coach, take teaching as a learning, and successfully create your own writing IP;
Fifth, become a bestseller writer, realize your writing dream, and the dream of a writer.
There are certain steps and plans for completing every thing, and my writing path has also been found by Teacher Hongdan.
I now wake up two hours in the morning every morning and insist on writing. In just six months, I have accumulated more than 130,000 words. Writing has now become my habit. I am not used to writing one day without getting up early.
I also registered a self-media account and published my articles publicly, gradually accumulating fans. I also tried to write and contribute, and one article was successfully published.
I am currently practicing the first three stages of the writing journey, and the next step is to gradually complete the fourth and fifth stages. Now it’s just the beginning, and the road ahead is still very long, maybe 5 years, maybe 7 years, but I believe that time will not let me down even if I become a friend of time.
Luo Zhenyu Teacher once said: "The efforts of ordinary people will accumulate into miracles under the compound interest of long-termism. Time helps them, and they become friends of time."
03 Apply what you have learned to let your ideal take root
In the past, I wrote something casually, without any methods or skills, I just wrote about it and played it myself.
After following Teacher Hongdan’s course, I realized that writing has skills, such as how to build the structure logic of the article? How to write the title, beginning, middle and end? How to modify the article after writing it, how to submit it, etc., are explained in detail in the course.
These gave me a full understanding of writing, and carefully practiced the writing methods mentioned in the course with actions, disassembled excellent hot articles, learned from these excellent articles, and tried to write articles with these learned writing skills.
As expected, hard work pays off. My article was published, which I didn’t expect. I also thought that when I first started learning writing, it would be very good to have a teacher’s comments, and it would be a good learning opportunity. I didn’t expect that I could successfully apply the manuscript.
Of course, being able to apply the manuscript cannot be separated from the patient revision of the comment teacher over and over again, and even more so, the writing methods and techniques mentioned by Mr. Hongdan in his writing class. But it was this time that the draft was published that strengthened my goal and direction of writing and gave me greater encouragement and confidence.
This article on the manuscript is the first little flower that has taken root in my ideal. Although it is very small, it is a beautiful and firm beginning, allowing me to see the dawn of realizing my dream of writing.
In the past six months of learning with Teacher Hongdan, I found the goal of writing in life and had a planning path to realize my writing dream. The successful draft has allowed me to see the dawn of realizing my dream.
is written at the end
has a goal, a path, and a dawn. Will such a life still be confused and anxious? My life is so transparent and peaceful now, only my inner dreams and the efforts to fight for them.
The best time to plant a tree is ten years ago, followed by now. I had missed it ten years ago, but I was just having it now, and I was planting this writing tree of mine.
