can blend in with laughter in the noisy crowd, and be calm when you are alone. There are many people or few people, and there are people to accompany you or no one to accompany you, which will not affect your mood.
In any environment, you can adapt and feed your soul yourself, not dry up, not lonely, not bored, not empty, not lonely, not wronged, standing anywhere is a tree, and a mountain. If a person does this growth, he will no longer rely on anyone, even if no one understands, no one accompanys, and no one loves, he will still not be sad.
It's like driving a car. You have the final say where you want to go. The road is east, running wildly, free and free, don't worry about having no friends on the road ahead. Who in the world doesn't know you?
Can be lonely, lively, introverted, and extroverted. Once you live your own life, I believe that no matter how much sadness you are, you will disappear.
Finally, I would like to give you a famous saying from Sister Xin'an: Learn to grow up, learn to bear, learn to be independent, learn to be strong, and after learning to cry, you can also embrace yourself with a smile. Only those who do these can truly become themselves and become an independent living individual, rather than a conjoined baby tied to others every day.
Introduction to the author of this article: Zhang Xuyan (online name Sister Xin'an), a national second-level psychological counselor, has a 20-year working experience, is good at psychological analysis and humanistic psychological counseling, specializes in researching love psychology, and produces love pain relief films every day. If you need help, you can leave a message below 991, and I will send a private message to you.
