When did we start to become so inclusive?
I once read a book called " Non-violent Communication ", which mentioned that defining others is the most violent way of communication. If you observe around you, you will find that many people do this.
I don’t know when it started, but I gradually discovered that there are many people in this world who are forcibly measuring others with their own values.
- Excerpted from "When You Are Busy and Tired, You Must Be Sober in the World"
When I read this passage in the book, I was instantly shocked. yes! It seems that I have been forcibly measuring all the people and things I encounter with with my own values.
If I hadn't read this book and read this passage, I wouldn't have realized that I had such a problem. The ignorant is fearless! If a person can live his life simply without thinking too much, it may not be a good choice.
It seems that this era does not allow us to live our lives simply; before the Internet era, our circle of living was very small, one village, one town! Isn’t it said that happiness is a “comparative”? At that time, as long as we compare with people around us who are within a radius of five to ten miles, we can only be heard of in the distance. After all, hearing is false, seeing is true!
As soon as the Internet era comes, the earth has become a village! Whether we like it or not, the simple happy life of childhood is gone forever. It’s not that I don’t understand, but that the world changes too quickly. This sentence is the best interpretation of our post-80s generation!
In this era, I am in deep confusion and anxiety! I began to become cynical and blame others. I feel that my current dissatisfaction is caused by this era. When you find that you are unable to change the status quo, the only thing left is to complain and complain.
's full negative energy cannot alleviate your anxiety at all, but will only make yourself more anxious. Since we are unable to fight, we choose to escape reality and ignore its existence. The result is the same, no effect!
The only way out is to change yourself and how to change yourself. There is no so-called standard answer. You can only find it by yourself. Remember not to ask outside, but to ask inside!
Subtraction is the great wisdom of life!
