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people will encounter many truths in their lives, but few are really useful.
I believe that everyone will gradually see the true face of reality as time passes, and almost everything will not be as simple as the truth expresses it.
Simple is life, complex is human nature. At the same time, the real life is the formation of various uneven human natures after mutual neutralization.
The old saying goes, planting melons gets the melons gets the beans. In reality, no matter what you plant, you will definitely be able to harvest.
The old saying also says that good will be rewarded with good and evil will be rewarded with evil, and it is not that the time has not come. In reality, good people do not live long, and disasters live for thousands of years.
There is no reason in life. The reason why we are willing to believe in the truth is because they are spoken into our hearts.
When a sentence says what everyone thinks, it is easy to be widely quoted and valued.
People are always more willing to follow those principles that are consistent with their own views, and cannot help but avoid disagreeing with opinions that do not agree with.
The principles in life are not only just the truth but also the fallacies. Some words just sound rough, such as the following 4 sentences.
Only by putting aside can you live a good life
Too many people regard face as more important than life, so in order to maintain the so-called face, they completely ignore their own strength and actual ability to bear.
There is a saying: "Do your face and suffer." When a person takes face too much, he will lose himself and be led by others.
people’s lives are actually to be themselves, and to learn to make their skin thicker so that their lives will not be so uncomfortable.
As the saying goes, a person lives a face, and a tree lives a layer of skin. This shows how important people regard face as much as possible. Perhaps it is because of the existence of this concept that many people believe that losing face is comparable to losing their lives.
Therefore, more and more people can’t let go of their pride. When everyone lives for "face", life will become heavy.
If you observe carefully, you will find that the more you want face, the more tired you live. I have carried too many things for the sake of face, and I even pretended to act. If I make such a choice, it will be difficult to live a happy life.
It’s better to have leisure than money, and it’s better to have health than wealth and honor
You must have heard this saying: when you have time, you don’t have money, and when you have money, you don’t have time. Finally, you have both money and time, but your body is broken.
seems to be funny, but only those who have experienced it understand the helplessness and regret behind it.
Life is a journey that cannot be turned back. You should be sober at any time. Cherishing is something you should do every day, so that you can avoid many unnecessary regrets.
Everyone has a greedy heart. Whether you can control your inner greed is different for everyone. When life is occupied by greed, you will be unable to satisfy your heart and your life will naturally be uncomfortable.
When you have money, you must learn to take time off and don’t let your time be occupied by money. Whether you are burdened with debt or wealthy, you must not refuse to exercise. A healthy body is the best happiness for a person in his old age.
Details determine success or failure, character determines details
The most precious trump card in life is character.
Some people say that details determine success or failure. This sentence does make sense, but it doesn't say where the details come from.
In life, some details are pretending to be a performance, while some details come from the heart. The details performed cannot determine success or failure. It is just to get away with it. Only the details from the heart can determine the success or failure of things.
tells an old story, saying that a unit recruits employees. In order to test the quality of the applicant, the interviewer deliberately threw garbage on the candidate's must-pass road, and at the same time put cleaning tools and trash cans next to it.
Some applicants only go to the interview on their own and don’t care about the garbage on the ground at all. Some applicants immediately pick up the tools next to them to clean them up after seeing the garbage.
The details that the interviewer needs to look at are whether this person will clean up. After this incident, many interviewers followed suit and the applicants began to pretend, which directly led to the subsequent interview becoming a large-scale job search site.
It is important to understand the details of a person's observation, but more importantly, it is to examine character.
is always decadent, and will be scrapped
There is no word "easy" in the world of adults.
Life can never be as happy as we imagined. Too many small things happen repeatedly, and ultimately easily defeated the last line of defense in people's hearts.
Some people are drunk in decadence, some people are sleeping in the low point, and over time, grass grows, frost falls in their hearts, wastes great time, and life is wasted.
People who deliberately suppress their emotions are more likely to be decadent. People will be scrapped once they are decadent for a long time.
Life should not only give us joy and trauma, but also expectation and strength.
No one can stop the setbacks in this life, but everyone can do it as long as they are willing to make themselves not decadent. This is not only an attitude but also an invincible ability.
Reject decadence and find strength in fragility, and life is naturally full of light.
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