I was also the pride of my parents and the good child of others. But I tried to play a good hand of cards, graduated from college, putty powder master, and a little boss in the eyes of rural people. This is the identity I earned after seven years. Now he is a general worker in the factory. It is not so much a job, but rather a practice.
Because, I am unwilling to be like this in my life, and I won’t be like this. Isn’t there a saying that is very good? "As long as you don't admit defeat, there will be no one who can defeat you."
Now, I analyze the reasons for my past failure into the following points. I hope it will be helpful to you who are exploring and moving forward on the road, which is enough!
first; ability and ambition do not match
once thought that no matter how bad I was, I was a college student, and it was impossible for me to make money by physical strength. What's more, doing business is your hobby. You must know that the fastest way to make money in the world is to deal with people. If you don't believe it, what kind of career do you think the rich people do? You will know the answer clearly.
When he first graduated, he was very arrogant and had low skills. He could be said to be a bullshit and even used tens of thousands to invest in the betel nut business. Now that I think about it, it's just my wishful thinking. lose! That is normal, it’s not OK to lose.
personal suggestions: If you really want to start a certain industry, you must find a way to enter the industry and study for a period of time. Some things you see are not true like this. Remember, every industry and every karma has its own way. Otherwise, I wouldn't know how I died.
Second; don’t slap the swollen face and fill the fat
Good face is a normal need for everyone, but you must grasp the "degree". When I was once, I bought a car, built a house, and pursued fashion because of my good face. Later, I became a factory and made a screw. Because in the end we all have to pay for our irresponsible behavior, it’s just a matter of time.
personal suggestions: How much ability you have to do, don’t look at what your companions buy, you should buy it, because everyone’s family background is different. You must start from your own actual situation. If you have to buy some things, I suggest you make money by yourself. Never take debts to own, otherwise it will be very painful when paying back the accounts in the future. Don’t pay for the so-called face. In fact, each of us knows what we should do, but we are often influenced by the environment.
Third; at the beginning of life, you must know how to put your pride and make money
Douyin When I first came out, I remember being in the business of betel nut agents. Once, I took a video of my wife giving betel nuts to a customer, and accompanied it with a song "Wife, thank you for your hard work". As a result, the video made me earn dozens of dollars. Later, I thought about how to make money on Douyin. As a result, when I was just live broadcast, many familiar people around me were laughing at it. In the face of people's words and so-called face, I was defeated.
Now that I think about it, if I had put aside other people's opinions then. Doing my own business, I believe that today I will not still make screws in the factory.
personal advice: Don’t care about other people’s opinions, and don’t change your behavior by others’ faces. Only when we do things we think we are worth it, then do it! real! Because in the countryside, others are afraid that you will be poor and that you will be rich. Just be yourself!
If you don’t believe me, look at those very ordinary people on TikTok. They may have been worse than us in the past. And what about today? Our salary for screwing is not as good as the live broadcast income of others in one or two days. This is the gap, the gap we have to admit.
face is worth a lot of money, should we let it go?
In fact, people with good face are often poor people like me, with cleaner pockets than faces, they don’t like small money, and they can’t make big money.
So, the poorer the more we should know how to put aside our so-called face and work hard to make money.
This is the kingdom, the truth!
