A trace of light shines through the window, and Teacher Li Xiaoxu, who had been on the sofa for one night, got up.
Pick up the phone, stroke your hair with your hands, and take a three-shot: "Since cannot change the status quo, change the way you face it, " and a smile appeared on your face.
This is a scene in the TV series " Big Test ". When I saw this moment, I was speechless.
I haven't been so moved for a long time. The mess of life makes us lose our perception of life.
Today, perhaps it was because of the profession, or perhaps it was Teacher Li's words that hit my tears all of a sudden.
Yes, Life is always changeable. Sometimes, no matter how hard you work, you cannot change the reality. When there is no way out, we should not be discouraged, don’t be disappointed, and muster up the courage to change the way we face it.
01 Changing the way is to be loyal to one's own responsibility
"The Big Test" is the biggest crossroads in life. What you see is students who get up early and go to bed late, racing against time. Has anyone noticed that behind these students, there were a group of unknown teachers and parents.
What impressed me the most were the two principals, one was the surname Wang and the other was Shi. There was a special relationship between the two, the son-in-law and father-in-law.
Principal Wang is cold on the outside and hot on the inside. His educational philosophy seems a bit outdated. He believes that the three magic weapons of education are "strict discipline, urgent teaching, and a tactic of questions", but he truly loves the education industry and considers the future of students.
Principal Wang contributed almost all his energy to education, resulting in neglecting his daughter's growth and losing his beloved wife.
Principal Shi is a principal with rich education. He comes to the school very early every day and sees the late students. The principal is very dissatisfied and regrets that he will not be able to make a strong decision. When they learned that the children were late for practicing the questions, they immediately changed their attitudes, showed compassion and encouragement, and gave cover to the students and asked them to get the exercise book to avoid being criticized by the class teacher.
Faced with the sudden outbreak, the principals and teachers were first anxious and took action immediately. Plans are being made at all levels, from the Education Bureau to the School.
On the one hand, he took the risk of accountability and allowed students to stay in school for the New Year. "I live in school, as long as I don't die, no student will have any problems." Principal Wang slapped the table and put it in a guarantee. On the other hand, I am busy preparing for online classes.
So, during the Chinese New Year, no one was idle. The principal ran the Education Bureau; the Education Bureau ran the Telecommunications Bureau; the head teachers began to collect student information and count people without electronic equipment; the teachers began to prepare for live tests. Li Xiaoxu in front of
is a very young teacher. When student Tian Wenwen had fever symptoms, she bought good medicine as soon as possible, rushed to Tian Wenwen's house, and stayed with her until dawn the next day. I had no place to sleep, so I spent the night on the shabby sofa without complaining. A video of the network card "geography" in the
shot caused everyone to laugh, but for me, it was more sad, empathy, and helplessness that Principal Wang didn't know where Jingyin was.
There is also a difficult mental process for Wang Qianqian from outside the school to sign up for the medical team to Hubei. Her fear of death, respect for life, and love for career all fall on a young nurse who lost her mother. "I'm afraid, I can't bear so much birth, old age, sickness and death." How real! But in the end she chose to go against the trend.
No one does not want to take a safe path, but life is doomed to change. Faced with the sudden outbreak of life, what should we choose?
These people, with enthusiasm for their careers and respect for their lives, do not panic or retreat, choose to change their ways, keep their original intentions, and continue their careers.
If we cannot change the status quo, the only thing we can do is to work hard, turn a corner, and continue to run to a better place.
02 The way to change is to persist in pursuing your dreams
For the first big test in life, I encountered an epidemic that I had never encountered. What a challenge this is for senior high school students.
This group of teenagers, some are poor and don’t even have mobile phones; some are lonely, their parents go out to do business and are alone in their hometown; some are rich but fall behind in their studies; some are academic masters, but they are arrogant and arrogant.
But they are all facing the college entrance examination and are all suffering from the epidemic.
Tian Wenwen is a lonely child. In her own words, " is not independent, but lonely. When throwing a stone to ask for directions, I am the wayfinding stone, throwing bricks and attracting jade, I am that brick. "
Because her parents have been doing business in Wuhan for many years, they threw her to grandma since they were young. Later, when her grandma passed away, she left Tian Wenwen alone at home, even in the third year of high school.
Tian Wenwen faces the unchangeable reality. Without the protection of her parents, she can only change her way of life.
When I found sneaky people around my home, I saw the small triangle symbol on my door, and knew that someone had checked out her home, I was so scared that I could only ask for help from the neighborhood committee aunt.
When the epidemic came, Wenwen, who was alone at home, found herself having a fever and was so scared that she couldn't even speak. Thinking that I couldn't worry my parents, I could only turn to my teacher.
What is not changed in worrying about is the pursuit of dreams. No matter when and when, no matter what situation, the dream remains unchanged and the original intention remains unchanged. What is changed is the way of pursuit.
The most worrying thing in the drama is Gao Mingyu, whose parents both died and only has one grandfather. When the epidemic came, Gao Mingyu returned to his hometown because he was worried about his grandfather.
Fortunately, Pan Xiaoxuan pretended to throw away the cell phone he gave him. When he learned that he could not return to school, he took online classes at home. But there was no internet at home. With the help of the teacher, I took the note to the train station to listen to the class. I could hear one sentence, but I couldn't hear one sentence. Later, my grandfather fell and didn’t even have time to attend online classes.
Even so, Gao Mingyu did not give up on his efforts. Faced with the inability to change his life, he could only change himself, not change his original intention, and pursue his dreams.
Not only Tian Wenwen and Gao Mingyu, but also many such senior high school students. Faced with the epidemic that they had never encountered, they did not retreat or give up, but instead worked hard for their dreams in different ways.
Everyone has dreams and everyone will encounter difficulties. On the steep cliffs, the boat cannot be crossed, but people can cross it by themselves. Have dreams, don’t be trapped by yourself, don’t be afraid of sleepiness, change your methods, and pursue them persistently.
03 The way to change is the courage to face difficulties
In "The Great Test", Wang Qianqian is Wang Benzhong's daughter and Shi Aihua's granddaughter. When she was a child, her mother was a doctor and died at work. This has a great blow to the two families. Wang Qianqian has been rebellious since childhood, lacks confidence, and evades pressure.
When the epidemic came, Wang Qianqian was very scared because her mother died on the front line of " SARS ", which is an instinctive reflection.
However, Qianqian overcame her inner demons and not only signed up for the medical team to help Hubei, but also went to the severely affected areas.
Her courage won everyone's praise. Even her grandfather did not stop her granddaughter, but instead supported her ideas.
changed the way of working, allowing Qianqian to overcome her inner fear of death and redefine the word "life".
Sometimes, an unchanging life can only make people follow their destiny, and appropriate changes can make their destiny follow their own!
That year, because I was too familiar with my original work, I did nothing all day and had no pursuit. Going to work and getting off work has become a fixed pattern, like a pool of stagnant water without any waves. Even if you can't starve to death, you can't hold on.
What’s important is that the leader has no requirements for me and I have no expectations for myself.
After a year like this, I resolutely resigned with my young son and rushed to Shanghai directly.
doesn't have a job, so I go to a logistics company to do a temporary job;
children have no place to study, so I pay for extracurricular classes;
doesn't have a house to live in, so I live in my sister's house;
everything starts from scratch, get up early every morning and work overtime at night; sometimes, I'm so tired that I don't even want to say anything.
I have also blamed myself for having a good life, but why are you messing around?
However, in the face of difficulties, I did not retreat. I have changed my concept of life. Comfort and enjoyment are a kind of life, and hard work is also a kind of life. I chose the latter because it made my life more fulfilling!
Looking back at the past, I still feel that that decision was a turning point in my destiny, deepening the thickness of my life and enhancing my ability to withstand stress.
"There are two ways to deal with difficulties: change the difficulties, or change yourself to deal with it."
As long as it is life, there are always difficulties. Change difficulties are often impossible, so we must have the courage to face them. Only by having the courage to face it calmly can you change the predicament.
A peaceful life is the pursuit, and encountering difficulties is the norm.
Instead of complaining about the world, it is better to change your mentality. There is no perfection in life, and twists and turns are also scenery .
