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In life, we are inevitably involved in dealing with all kinds of people. Many times, what kind of people will appear in the circle of friends is not 100% decided by us.
You are like a train driver. You have to accept the person who boards the train at every station. You can’t choose the other party with various conditions. Just like people who appear in your life, they appear unwillingly, but you still cannot refuse their intersection in your life.
How to get along with these people with different minds is a lesson you must learn in your life.
For friends around you, you can choose to get close to you. You can become confidants when you are sincerely kind to you. People who often talk about the following three sentences are mostly kind-hearted and don’t have a deep friendship.
1: Always be a hindshot, say something to mock you, and say that you are for your own good
Such people are indispensable around us. They like to be a hindshot the most, appear in front of you after you fail, and laugh at you mercilessly.
He often says: You didn’t listen to me earlier, I’ve told you a long time ago...
Don’t talk about whether he really made some pointers about your actions or decisions. Just talking about his behavior of being a hindsight, it is actually extremely selfish.
He said these words simply to emphasize that the failure you have now has nothing to do with him. Since it has nothing to do with it, they dare to laugh at you mercilessly.
When others are frustrated or even fall into a trough, they laugh at others and refuse to give some kind comfort. It can be seen how bad the heart is.
2: Thinking that you know a lot, you can point fingers at others at will, say something that hinders you from progressing
There are no prophets in the world, and some people regard everyone as stupid people. When you need to make life-changing decisions, they will preach to you as a person who has experienced it.
And almost all he said are related to making you give up on tossing and being content with peace of mind.
Are they really worried about you? Actually not necessarily. Everyone knows that life is about tossing and struggling. Some people change their lives as they go, and they will reach a new level.
What they dissuade you from is a heart that doesn’t look down on you. You live a good life, and they are the beginning of their sadness.
Don’t have close friends with someone who is good at being a teacher and self-righteous. They think they know a lot and always point fingers at other people’s lives. In fact, they can’t stand you well at all.
3: Take a joke on humor and love, and say it hurts you and your respect
Some people claim to be full of humor and always make fun of each other regardless of the occasion. They will laugh at what they should say and not say without reservation.
They don’t care about your self-esteem or your bad feelings. They just want to speak happily, but they don’t care about how sad the person being laughed at.
Colleague Xiao Li is short and fat. Her height and weight have always been a pain in her heart. She doesn't want others to mention it the most. But a new colleague directly labeled her the hat of "dwarf winter melon".
Every time Xiao Li scolds his new colleague angrily, the new colleague always disagrees.
He felt that what he said was just a joke, it was just a adjustment to a boring life. If others were angry about it, he would think that others were too stingy and could not make jokes. People like
are just jokes on the surface, but in fact, they have to make plans in their hearts one by one, and they just want to hurt you. For such people, it is best to stay away from them.
at the end:
A person who often talks about the above three sentences is by no means a pure and good person. If you have a close relationship with these people, it will be difficult for you to be happy. In order to have a better mood, please stay away from these kind-hearted people.
No matter what stage of life you are in, keeping your circle clean is a necessary condition for a good life.
Only by choosing good friends can you make your future path smoother. Otherwise, these interpersonal relationships will only bring you consumption, and your future path will become narrower and more difficult.
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