Chen Guo Teacher said: A truly free person is not a passionate and crazy person. A truly free person is not an out-of-control state in which reason indulges desires. Many of us understand this as freedom, crazy, and we understand this matter as ourselves. In fact, this is not freedom at all. This is just a kind of catharsis, an emotional catharsis. So what is a true freedom? Freedom is actually finding a rhythm that suits his life. A person finds a harmonious rhythm of life that suits his heartbeat and his brain. That is freedom. Therefore, freedom is the state of spiritual harmony of a person
When you are not in need of any need from others, such as: money, love, happiness, honor Strictly, acknowledge, affirm, etc. You will be truly free, Your heart is like a vast ocean, and there is no more thing to bind you
Hungarian Poet Petofi has a famous poem "Life sincerity It is precious, love is more expensive, if you are free, both can be abandoned. " In his opinion, freedom is more important than life and love
Then, all troubles come from interpersonal communication. If you have contact with others and have needs, then all kinds of troubles will follow one after another, and then there will be a lot of nonsense. The pain will come to you from time to time.
It is unrealistic to achieve complete desirelessness and no desires, but we can move forward in this regard. Because people trapped in secular troubles are too unworthy, This is completely unhappy for ourselves. What's the point of this?
In fact, as long as there is no illness or disaster in life, it is happiness. Parents have a healthy body, a person who knows cold and hot is by their side, and have a healthy and happy baby. This is the happiness that most people envy. . Don’t always think about how much better than others than others, and always think about how good it is to make a name for yourself. If this is the case, then you are extremely unfortunate, live in the eyes and hearts of others, resulting in the loss of your truest self. It is an extremely sad
Of course, it is a joy to purely pursue the value of self-realization, because you can truly feel that your ability is growing and changing, just like a small tree, after experiencing the hardships of wind and sun, slowly growing up. This process must be the
If you live with the mentality of growing up in , then you will be very happy. The world is also very interesting and beautiful. Others will be your companions rather than your competitors, and you will also be easily welcomes all kinds of turmoil and changes. instead of being nervous all the time and being anxious all the time. This is also the healthy lifestyle we like.
You see, the happiness or unhappiness of a person lies in his mentality, not in what you have. Some people climb to the top of the mountain and can look down at the whole world and they will not feel happy. Instead, they ignore the beautiful scenery along the way because they are very tired. Some people just climb a little bit and feel very happy. While enjoying the scenery along the way, they sigh that life is so good
So, people's desires are endless, living in this bright and bright lights and wine In a modern society, appropriately reduces your inner desires, reduces your external needs and requirements for yourself, learn to empty yourself and satisfy yourself to make yourself happy, and be good at discovering some beautiful things around you, This is great
True freedom is self-discipline freedom, not indulgent freedom
I am a pregnant mother born in the 2000s. I like to express my heart with words. I hope everyone can like it~
