How long has it been since you used QQ? People who have used QQ are no longer young now. This is the memory of generations of people in their 80s, 90s and even 70s.
Even though WeChat has replaced QQ, many people still have QQ accounts. Even though people rarely chat through QQ, many people still have this app on their mobile phones.
Back in the day, my best friends often chatted on QQ and played games together on QQ during holidays.
Time flies, but now QQ leaves us only memories.
can’t help but sigh. A communication tool has witnessed our youth and the events of those years. But people’s hearts are like time, they will only move forward. On the way forward, you will drift away from many people. It turns out that we are all time. Passers-by, even if some people stay in your life for a long time, when you look back, they just pass by, and those feelings are like a flash in the pan.
01 Friends are the product of stages.
Because of intersection, we have the opportunity to become friends. Meeting by chance is a fate.
Many people met and got to know each other just by chance, because they took the initiative to say a word, because they took the initiative to release goodwill, because of their innocent and pure thoughts, so the feelings at that time were very real and simple.
After a long time, it is natural to feel reluctant to leave. I still remember the year I graduated, a few of my best classmates had a breakup meal. Everyone was very happy during the meal and joked unscrupulously. After the meal, when I turned around to say goodbye, there was someone there. Cried.
But as we all know, there is no such thing as a feast that lasts forever. When you turn around, you will see a broader world greeting everyone. Somewhere in the future, you will meet many more people.
But after entering society, people's hearts became realistic, and they realized how rare it is to have some true friends in life.
Society is full of intrigues and hypocrisy. It is not easy to meet a close friend again.
When you are bored one day and open your QQ account that has been used for ten or even twenty years, you will first find that many of your former friends are missing. Perhaps they were not that important back then.
There are still some people who have never "left". They still exist in your QQ account.
If you wishfully think that these people are still the same as before, you are wrong. Look in the mirror and see yourself, you have changed, not only you have changed, everyone in this world will change with age and experience.
The feelings of the past still remain in the memory, but the friendship of the past only represents the past. Old friends who have not seen each other for many years may have forgotten you. Even if some people still remember you, they will become strangers when you meet again.
02The older you get, the more lonely you become.
When you were a child, you didn’t have a few friends, and some people even had a group of friends.
Having many friends is a reflection of good popularity. Young people like to make friends, regardless of gender, age, or origin, as long as they feel compatible with each other.
Just like love at that time, it was also very simple. It didn't matter whether you were rich or poor (although there were also people who were prematurely worldly). If two people met their eyes, they would devote all their hearts to it.
As people grow older, their thoughts will become more mature, and as they mature, they will also become more complex, because past experiences make people become cautious.
Looking through the previous QQ space , the messages and blessings from friends are still there. Including other people's spaces, your messages have not been deleted, but many people's spaces have been set to "invisible".
Perhaps, QQ is really a memory that our generations have grown up in. We are not willing to abandon it completely, but we don’t want it to go with time, so we seal it up like a memory and miss it one day. When the time comes, "take it out" to miss it again.
From a certain day on, I no longer dare to love easily, and I no longer dare to believe in feelings easily, because people's hearts are complicated and unpredictable.
From a certain day on, I no longer fear being alone, but feel so peaceful when I am alone.
From one day onwards, I lamented the change of things and people while enjoying loneliness.
03Family is the destination of the human soul
In the final analysis, we still have to "return to our hometown in fine clothes". Even if we are empty-handed, even if we have nothing, family is still the best destination.
attended a class reunion one year and met a female classmate who was very close to her at that time. She was a "school belle" and was deeply admired by many boys.
But when I saw her that time, she had changed drastically. She had become very fat, dressed in gorgeous clothes, covered in gold and silver, and looked like a rich woman.
During the dinner, I heard her boasting that she was married to a rich man...
After she left, her classmates were all sighing, saying how could people change so fast!
Goodbye school beauty has broken the dreams of many people. Yes, we are living in reality after all. The
QQ account is still there, and those "friends" are still there, but some have "blacked out" their profile pictures, and some have long since disappeared into the vast sea of people.
How good friends are, they will sneak away as time goes by. When we grow up, we rush into the world of servants, busy for all kinds of fame and fortune, we are involved in the endless world, love and hate can't be explained clearly. .
By chance, I found that I had no friends, even though I had met many "friends" in another new world.
Looking back, we have been away from home for a long time. After running away for a few years, we passed by too many people until we passed a certain intersection, then we got married and had children, started a family, and established our own small family.
The destination of our souls is that after passing by countless people, we return home and return to our own one-third of an acre. Only here can our hearts be the most at ease. As for those flowers and grass, they have long since Already scattered in the end of the world.
