I used to regret that I made too many wrong choices and took many wrong paths. I often regretted that I didn't get into the university I wanted to go to, I often regretted that I didn't go to the city I wanted to study in, I often regretted that I didn't spend more time with my parents, and I often regretted that I didn't spend more time with my parents. I regret not being able to continue practicing the same musical instrument. I often regret not having a vigorous love affair at the right time in my youth. I also often regret that there are many people who were separated while growing up and did not say goodbye properly.
But the past has passed. We cannot criticize ourselves from the present height. There are many things that even if we could do it over again, we would still make the same choices based on our experience and mentality back then.
Therefore, it is better to reconcile with yourself and accept yourself in every period. Life is about constantly making choices. No matter what we choose, there will be regrets, but it does not prevent us from moving forward.
summary: Without experience, there is no growth. Looking back, maybe those choices we made back then were destined by God; moving forward, we actually have to accept our former selves for a long time to come.
