Many of the troubles in life stem from our blind comparison with others and forgetting to enjoy our own life. Life is short and time passes. Instead of wasting time and energy to compare with others, it is better to learn to put down your vanity and improve yourself step by step. Why bother with money and money, why bother with others?
Be neither humble nor overbearing when getting along with others. If you don't fit in your own circle, you won't be able to integrate. Don't have a heart-to-heart relationship with anyone. Don't let anyone know your true identity. On the road of life, not all doors are wide. Some doors require you to bend down and sideways to enter. Therefore, you must be able to bend down when necessary, so that you can have a smooth journey in life. Low-quality diligence is nothing more than creating the illusion of "I work hard."
Diligence is not about non-stop work, but the effective use of the time at hand; hard work is not about blindly working hard, but using wisdom to solve problems. Villagers who have a holiday with their parents will greet them warmly when they meet them, so as not to let the grievances of the previous generation continue to the next generation! If you don’t contradict the leader in the company, even if you are criticized by the leader, you will just laugh it off!
A woman can marry the person she wants to marry by being beautiful, but she cannot live a happy life by being beautiful. Men can rely on money to marry the person they want, but they cannot rely on money to make a marriage happy. Being cruel to yourself is easy to say, but actually a bit difficult to do. After all, everyone wants to stay in the comfort zone, and no one wants to experience a stressful life, but as long as there is appropriate pressure, we will continue to improve ourselves and our My own strong heart.
Don't confide all your pain and troubles to your colleagues and so-called friends, because not everyone cares about your feelings, and maybe it just becomes his joke. As the saying goes, a good talk is only 30% good, and a meal is only 70% full. Able to assess the situation and plan the situation in advance. He has firm beliefs, sharp eyes, and does not trust others easily. Be positive and optimistic and be able to face life with a smile. The layout is big and the trivial matters are ignored. The world will not favor anyone who gets something for nothing, and of course it will not let down anyone who works hard. Whenever you encounter good things, don't be arrogant. If you are too arrogant, disaster will follow. Whenever you encounter disasters, don't be arrogant. You have to endure it, even if you grit your teeth.
