A gentleman is frank, a bad man is sad. In the face of applause and achievements, some people are complacent and often show off. Once they face failure, they sigh and complain. The real pattern is that of the National People's Congress, people don't like things, don't feel sorry

A gentleman is frank, a bad man is sad. In the face of applause and achievements, some people are complacent and often show off. Once they face failure, they sigh and complain. The real pattern is that of the National People's Congress, people don't like things, don't feel sorry for themselves, are open-minded, can reflect on themselves, and can tolerate others.

mentioned in " Cai Gen Tan ":

"The wind will scatter the bamboos, but the wind will leave without leaving any sound; the wild geese crossed the cold pond, and the wild geese crossed the pond without taking pictures. Therefore, the heart of a gentleman begins with the incident. , the heart goes away. "

1. People with a big picture will treat what is happening carefully and will not pursue it too much. They tend to be more respected and destined to succeed. Dare to take responsibility, be upright, hold your destiny in your own hands, and your personality determines your destiny. If a person wants to have a better life, the first point is to dare to take responsibility. Only by daring to take responsibility and cultivating your own integrity can you get more opportunities in work and life. Dare to take responsibility is courage, spirit, is the first step for a person to realize his dream. When a person wants to achieve a certain level of success, he should be clearly aware of what doing so can bring to him. Therefore, he should be responsible to the end, be righteous at the center of the process, and realize the big picture.

2. The style of a wise man is a blessing if it is lost; a true wise man will never fight with others, especially when facing small interests, and will not bargain with others. A blessing is lost if it is lost. There are always some people who are fighting for their own interests. Fighting for interests with others, relying on material security to make oneself feel comfortable, but a truly wise man uses these external materials in exchange for spiritual satisfaction, so people with a big picture will not care about everything in life. This does not mean that wise people do not care about interests, but they care more about the relationship between people. They will not always suffer losses and can only go further in life with a profit-making mentality.

3. It is better to hide your wisdom than to expose your edge; a person with great wisdom must know how to restrain his edge, because only by restraining his edge can he better protect himself. If you hide your wisdom deeply, others will not be able to see through it, and you will not be easily hurt. Don't be too sensitive in life and work. When your life is going well, don't look down on the people around you, because life will have its ups and downs. If you don't know how to hold back when you're high, you're likely to get attacked when you're at a disadvantage. Those who really have big ideas must know that there is heaven outside the sky, and there are people outside the world. Only by hiding their intelligence can they be surprised at critical moments and be better utilized.

4. Be a generous person. If a person wants to achieve something, he must get help from the people around him to succeed. For example, the success of a project is a credit to the team. Even if you put in more effort, you can't erase the contributions of others. In the face of interests and disputes, don't worry too much, and don't be too disappointed; if you don't have a confidant, you should treat others with tolerance. Only when you Only by knowing how to be patient and tolerant of other people's shortcomings, and learning to understand and care for others, can you gain the appreciation and admiration of others. Indifferent to fame and fortune, indifferent to life.

Being indifferent to fame and fortune is the wisdom of life. Confucius said: "Zhilan was born in a deep forest and is not unfriendly because there is no one around. A gentleman cultivates virtue and does not change his virtue because of embarrassment."

A person who cultivates his moral character will not change himself even if he encounters embarrassment and difficulties. mentality. This is a great realm of life. It is easy to say that you are indifferent to fame and fortune, but it is difficult to actually do it. Only by observing the rise and fall of the world with an unmoving heart, and facing life calmly with all destiny, can he truly be indifferent to fame and wealth, not showy, not demanding, and can he better pursue the perfection and balance of life.