In the materialistic modern life, people are impetuous and eager for quick success, but we should never be overly optimistic or pessimistic about everything. Without desire, we are strong, and tolerance is great. We must believe that hard work will be rewarded, so we should look down on success and pursue endlessly. Although people cannot change their own destiny, they can adjust their mentality. Being normal is not only a manifestation of open-mindedness, but also a state of being a human being. A peaceful mind can eliminate arrogance, let go of impetuosity and vanity, face life with a normal heart, and take every step of life in a down-to-earth manner.
In life, I always think that every incident needs to be explained clearly and clearly. Only in this way can we be called upright and clear, and can we be called fair and harmonious. In fact, many things happen in a specific situation in life, and many times cannot be explained clearly at the time. If you must try to explain it clearly, it is a delusion in itself. Therefore, if you want to explain clearly in this situation, you will only argue with others, and often the final result of the dispute is nothing more than endless troubles for both parties.
Leave a little room for the person who offended you, give the other person a step down, say a few words less, and be reasonable and forgiving. This will not only reduce your worries when arguing, but also eliminate the "enemy" in front of you. Otherwise, it will only Let more of your friends distance themselves from you. As the saying goes, be merciful and merciful, leaving some face and a foothold for the other person. It is not difficult to do this, and if you can do it, you can also bring you many benefits
