How have you changed as an adult? Are you still as willful as you were when you were young? Do you still long for understanding from the whole world just because you have been a little wronged? Do you still dislike many people? Is there a moment when you suddenly realize that you no longer expect recognition or understanding, and then your life suddenly becomes enlightened?
The silence of adults does not mean that they have nothing to say. When I was a child, I would cry and make fuss when I was wronged. Now I feel broken but say nothing. It is not that my tears disappeared when I grew up, but I have learned to hold certain words quietly in my heart. .
What people fear most is not heartache, but that no one can understand the heartache. Nine times out of ten things in life are unsatisfactory, but there is no one to tell them, so they can only endure it desperately. I dare not tell my parents for fear that my parents will be worried. I can’t tell my friends because my friends will also have difficulties. I can’t tell my loved ones because my loved ones won’t understand. You are afraid that your emotions will become a burden to others. If you are not strong, who will show your weakness? If you are not brave, who can bear it for you?
No one is born strong. They are all forced by life to put on armor on their hearts. It is not that they are invulnerable to all poisons, but they have learned to protect their vulnerability. People's hearts are separated from each other, and it's hard for you to tell the truth from the false. Your kindness will only be used, and others will leave after taking advantage of it. The society is too cruel and you have no choice. Only when you look strong can you be recognized, and if you are weak, you will be bullied. People who hate you are waiting to see your jokes, so you can only fight alone without showing any grievance.
To rely on others is to give up your happiness to others. If you rely on your parents, your parents will grow old. If you rely on your friends, your friends will disperse. Only you can rely on yourself. No one will be happy in life, and no one will always be with you.
Don't talk about unspoken grievances. Your grievances will make people who love you feel bad. Don't talk about unspoken complaints. Your complaints will be used by people who hate you. If there is no one to protect you, be your own roof; if no one is there to ask for help, be your own hero.
Sometimes you are so fragile that you burst into tears just because of a word, but you will also find that you have gritted your teeth and walked a long way. For the rest of your life, you must control all your happiness and don't let your life be wasted on meaningless trivial matters. , no one deserves you if you don’t think about food and tea, just love yourself more when you have time. May you brave the thorns alone with gentleness, and may you have someone who knows you and understands you, and will always be there for you.
