Preface
Tagore once said: "The house is a combination of walls and beams; home is composed of love and dreams."
In life, no one can leave the circle of family. For us, no matter where we are now and where we are about to go, home will always be the softest and sweetest place in our hearts. Only when we have a home can we be at ease; only when we have family can we be happy.
home is the warmest harbor in the world. No matter what kind of grievances we suffer, our family will always unconditionally tolerate and care for us. Therefore, "Home and everything are prosperous " has always been our common expectation and longing. Regarding how to run a good family, the saying " has three things that cannot be empty, and the descendants take the east wind " mentions that there are three things that cannot be empty in the family, otherwise it will affect the family and descendants. So what do the "three non-empty" mean?
books (reading changes destiny)
Gorky once said: "Books are the ladder of human progress, lifelong companion, and the most sincere friend."
books, as human spiritual food, play a role in lifting us lightly. For poor students, studying is the best way to change their destiny. The famous Chinese mathematician Chen Jingrun has been poor since childhood, but poverty has not stopped his yearning for knowledge. Chen Jingrun, who was living in a small room, actually overcomes world-famous mathematical problems under the dim kerosene lamp. Those sacks of draft paper, the backs under the light day and night, all illustrate his love for mathematics. He also uses living examples to tell us the truth about "Reading changes destiny" .
" Read thousands of books and travel thousands of miles of books" , and the family environment also plays a significant role in what the child grows up. If the bookcases in the home are empty and the children have no books to read, it will be difficult for the business to flourish. On the contrary, if the family is full of books and all kinds of good books emerge one after another, children will naturally be influenced by the family with a strong learning atmosphere, and will become more fond of reading and learning. Only children understand the importance of reading and strive to achieve success through their own efforts, they will eventually achieve something and become a pillar of talent.
Kitchen (Human Fireworks)
Wang Zengqi once said: "Eat and work in all directions is just a bowl of fireworks in the world."
Southern Song Poet Fan Chengda Home in his later years, he lived in Shihu . Once when he was out for a trip, he saw local farmers talking and laughing and doing farm work. The children were chasing and fighting carefreely. The smoke from the cooking stove was curling and the fragrance of flowers came, which was a good scenery along the way. So I wrote down the fireworks picture of "The sound of fireworks in the village is far away, and the fragrance of forest essence is wild".
The fireworks in the world are the most touching of the hearts of ordinary people. For us, the kitchen in our home not only carries three meals a day for the family, but also reflects the fireworks at home. When it comes to mealtime, my mother always wears an apron and uses very ordinary ingredients to make delicious food in the world. Especially after a busy day of work, when we dragged our tired bodies back home, if we could eat a large table of delicious food made by our mother, it would be the greatest warmth for us. For students who are thousands of miles away from home, they miss their mother's cooking skills every day when they are wrapped in various school foods and takeaways. Because it always has a familiar taste, it is the taste of home!
The older people grow, the more they discover that the essence of life is to still love life after realizing the truth of life. For us, life is not only poetry and distant places, but more of firewood, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea. If there is no fireworks in the family and the daily life of taking out fast food every day will not only affect personal health, but also it will be difficult for the family to be harmonious and happy, and it will be difficult for the descendants to embark on the road to wealth.
Parents (Parents are healthy)
Parents are there, life still has its origin; when parents go, life is only left.
Filial piety to parents is a traditional virtue of the Chinese nation, and it is worth practicing and carrying forward by each of us. And around us, there are too many unfilial people. Once parents are old and have difficulty in their legs or are seriously ill in bed, their disgust will be exposed. Little do we know that from the moment we were born, our parents have been using their broad shoulders to support us and raised us meticulously. As children, you should know how to be grateful for your parents' raising grace and work hard to repay them so that you will not let your parents feel upset.
The happiest thing in life is that the whole family gathers together to talk, complain about each other, and laughter spreads to every corner. For a family, if there are no parents in the family, there is a precious wealth missing. Because of parents, the family will become more harmonious and warm.
written at the end
The family is happy, and it is the wish of every family to emerge in many descendants and talents. The saying "There are three things that are not empty in the family, and the descendants ride on the east wind" also mentions that if you want your descendants to be rich, you cannot empty in the three places of books, kitchen, and parents in the family.
In fact, we are like kites. Home is like holding the other end of the kite's spool, so that the kite can still take off again after falling, and when holding, it sets off the string to make the kite fly higher. No matter how high the kite flies, what you always care about is the spool called home. And throughout our lives, the purpose of our efforts is not only to make the kite fly higher and higher, but more importantly, we want to do our best to make the spool of "home" better and better.
