The more you care about life, the more pain you will suffer; the more you care about, the poorer you will be. In life, you will inevitably encounter unpleasant things. If you pay too much attention to everything, it will only make people physically and mentally exhausted.

The more you care about life, the more pain you will suffer. The more you care about, the poorer you will be.

In life, it is inevitable that you will encounter unpleasant things. If you pay too much attention to everything, it will only make people physically and mentally exhausted.

The more you care, the more painful your heart is, the more troubles you have, the deeper your poisoning, and the more blessings you have around you.

As the old saying goes: Nothing is difficult in the world, only the mediocre people bother themselves.

When you encounter trouble, it is often because you have trouble with yourself and waste time on meaningless things.

Open your mind and don't care about it, and your life will get better and better.

1. The more people care, the worse their lives will be.

Being smart is not as good as being kind. If you are too calculating and try to use others, you will often lose more things.

Lao Tzu said: Great wisdom is like foolishness, great skill is like clumsiness.

Really smart people often know how to be kind and don't care about temporary gains and losses, because they know that the more they pay, the more they have, the more convenient they are, the more blessings they will receive.

Once, Di Renjie was ordered by the emperor Wu Zetian to do something.

Early in the morning, Di Renjie and his entourage found a stall to have breakfast because they were in a hurry.

Business was booming in the morning and they waited for a long time before seeing an empty table.

The waiter was very busy and couldn't clean the table for them. The attendant couldn't wait any longer and cleaned it himself.

After cleaning for a while, a ragged beggar came, patted the table, and said angrily: "You clean my meal before I finish it. What do you think I should do?"

Follower said: I will buy you another copy to make amends to you.

No, my good mood of the day was ruined by you. Give one tael of silver as compensation. The man raised his voice and said.

One tael of silver is enough to buy several tables of food. The entourage argued with him.

Seeing this, Di Renjie smiled and said: Di Chun, give him a tael of silver. We were really wrong.

Di Renjie’s words also surprised the beggar. He was stunned for a moment, and then he took the money and walked away.

The attendant was very angry and complained to Di Renjie that the beggar was too cheap.

Di Renjie waved to him, indicating that he should go buy food quickly.

During the meal, the attendant was still a little resentful. Di Renjie interrupted and said:

What is more important than what we have to do? I'm almost done eating, and I'll be on my way in a while.

What happened just now seemed to have never happened to Di Renjie, and the entourage was particularly impressed.

The beggar seems to have gained a tael of silver by caring about Di Renjie, but his caring mentality will make him lose more.

As the saying goes, poor people must be hateful, which is why beggars are beggars.

The more you care, the narrower your life path will be.

Those who love going out love to return, and those who go have good luck.

No one wants to make friends with people who care. Treat others with a tolerant heart, and others will treat you with the same heart.

People have a thousand calculations, but God has one calculation.

The more you care, the less blessing you will have, and the less blessing you will have, the worse your life will be.

In life, you must understand that suffering is a blessing. Be kind and treat others well, and blessings will come uninvited.

2. The breadth of your mind determines your destiny.

As the saying goes: Always compete with your peers, never compete with fools.

People with real patterns don't care about people who are not at the same level as themselves, because they have more important things to do and there is no need to waste time on these useless things.

Lu Duan was the prime minister in the early years of the Northern Song Dynasty. During his reign, he had unique political views and offended many people in the court.

Lu Duan was framed by treacherous ministers and demoted to a commoner.

After receiving the order, Lu Duan felt relaxed. He took the luggage on the book boy's back and left Beijing in style.

After Lu Duan returned home, some local officials and gentry gathered to visit him and gave him a lot of money, which made Lu Duan dumbfounded.

When Lu Duan saw this scene, he told the truth in public, saying that he had been demoted back to his hometown and was now just a commoner.

As soon as the voice fell, the faces of the gentry and famous people present suddenly changed, they looked at each other, and took away all the gifts they had just brought.

Some even said ironically that Lu Duan provoked the emperor in the capital and would be a poor scholar for the rest of his life.

Lu Duan laughed it off and went back to his room to study.

A few days later, the emperor sent the censor to look for Lu Duan.

The censor's horse and hoofbeats came with great force, which shocked the neighbors.

Lu Duan and his family knelt down to listen to the decree.

The imperial censor declared: Lu Duan resumes his duties as prime minister and returns to the court immediately from now on. I appreciate this.

Everyone shouted Long Live, and the gentry blushed and were frightened.

After the censor left, those people gathered at Lu Duan's home and flattered Lu Duan.

The book boys were really angry and wanted to kick them out of the house.

Lu Duan said: I was really not a prime minister before, so everyone’s behavior is understandable. Now that I have officially resumed my position, it should benefit the villagers. Everyone is a villager and it is right to help each other.

After hearing this, everyone praised Prime Minister Lu Duan for his ability to support a boat.

Don't care. Building a tolerant heart is not only a kind of cultivation, but also a kind of wisdom.

An ancient saying goes: Only by being able to tolerate villains can you become a gentleman.

A great wise man must be humble, a great kind man must be tolerant, only a little wise man can be aggressive, and a little kind man can be careless.

A truly dignified person must be tolerant of all things and be tolerant of all living beings.

Being broad-minded determines your destiny. How much you can tolerate is how much you can have.

3. Not caring is a person’s greatest blessing

Cai Gentan said: If the world does not sink, the sea will not suffer.

When you are alive, don't live too tiredly. If you don't have good things, you will have more and more blessings.

There was an old Zen master who was highly respected and many local celebrities asked him for advice.

There was a young man who was young and energetic. He felt that the old Zen master was relying on old age and had no real talent.

When the old Zen master gave a lecture, the young people felt that what the old Zen master said was not interesting, so they argued with the Zen master and uttered dirty words during the debate.

Everyone felt that the young man was a bit too much, but the Zen master remained motionless and continued to talk to him with a kind face.

After a long debate, the young man felt that it was meaningless. At this time, the old Zen master calmly asked:

If others do not accept what you give to others, then who should this thing belong to?

The young man said disdainfully: Of course it is still my own.

The Zen Master asked again: You just gave me some words, but I did not accept them. Who do these words belong to now?

The young man immediately felt ashamed. There were so many people present and he was embarrassed to refute, so he turned around and left.

In life, if the heart has no desires, there will be no worries. The young man wanted to make the old Zen master look embarrassed, but ended up humiliating himself.

There is a saying in Buddhism that persistence should be measured and let nature take its course.

Whether a person lives well depends on whether he can see.

Knowing how to let go of everything, not forcing anything, not caring, and being content is the greatest blessing for a person.

People's hearts are mutual. If you are kind to others, others will repay you twice as much. If you care about others, the trouble will come back to you.

After encountering something, the more you care about it, the more painful it will be, and the more unhappy you will be.

There are no obstacles in life that cannot be overcome. Isn’t life different if I look down on everything and care about it? Why make yourself miserable?

Don't complain about God's injustice to you. Your destiny is in your own hands.

The more you care about life, the more pain you will suffer. The more you care about, the poorer you will be.

Learning not to care means staying away from disaster and misfortune.

The more people care, the worse their lives will be.

Your destiny is what you create. If you don't care about others, you will have more and more blessings.