The word "gratitude" is used to demand oneself, not to morally kidnap others.
For example, one day, I forgot to bring money when I went out. The driver said: "Forget it, we are all from this road. They often ride in my car and everyone knows each other. I won't charge you the fare this time." Let’s talk about it next time.” One day later, he encountered difficulties, and I happened to be able to help him, so I helped him. This is called gratitude.
It is not within the scope of one's own responsibilities to do something, but if you do it for others, and others give back when they can, this is called gratitude.
This is what you should do within the scope of your responsibilities, and you only interact with others in a normal sense, but you intend to ask others to give you charity in the name of "gratitude". Under normal circumstances, such behavior is called begging, and people who behave like this are called beggars.
You cannot always attribute your lack of communication skills to others' lack of gratitude. This will only make people think that you are a beggar with empty thoughts.
