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What is the theme of life? Perhaps for many people, it is happiness.
So I opened the Internet and searched for the definition of happiness:
A long-lasting satisfaction with life and a feeling of great joy in life, and a happy mood that naturally hopes to last for a long time.
Starting from this definition, first of all, we know that happiness is a feeling, something that can make our body and mind feel warm.
Even when it is raining, there happens to be someone beside you who is intertwined with you, not in a hurry, not making a fuss, and walking towards your home warmly and firmly. This is a kind of happiness.
Sometimes it is easier to get a little happiness, but it is not so easy to gain happiness in life.
Therefore, as adults, we must work hard to manage our lives and create more happiness in our own lives.
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As you grow older, you may have more and more troubles.
As you gradually step out of the ivory tower and enter the society, you will find that you have to face too many things after all, many things are often beyond your ability, and many things are often not satisfactory.
As the saying goes, nine out of ten things in life are unsatisfactory. People have misfortunes and good fortunes day and night, and the moon waxes and wanes. This is a difficult thing in ancient times.
Faced with all kinds of things in life, it is inevitable that there will be various obstacles and worries in the heart. As the trivial matters in life continue to accumulate, your happiness in life may gradually decrease, or you may have no time to pursue more happiness.
We have always felt that the two most important themes in a person's life are happiness and quality. Many things can often produce more happiness while ensuring quality.
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The poem says: Life is precious, and love is more valuable. If it is for freedom, both can be thrown away.
There is no freedom in life, and naturally there is not much happiness to speak of.
But a happy life requires us to create it step by step, rather than waiting for it. Our own destiny and happiness are in our own hands.
Then you have met a girl you have liked for a long time and feel that she cannot live up to her life. Then muster up your courage, stand up your chest, and boldly release the signal of love. Even if the worst is the worst, love will not be hurt. That is also a kind of happiness in life.
People often say: The tree wants to be quiet but the wind does not stop, the child wants to be raised but the relatives do not wait for it. Many things often regret it only when things have changed and people have changed. Of course, it goes against the essence and true meaning of life, and the gain outweighs the loss.
Stephen Chow once lamented in the movie " Journey to the West ": There was once a true love in front of me, but I didn't cherish it. If God gives me another chance to come back, I will say to that girl that I love you for ten thousand years.
We often say that people without long-term worries must have immediate worries. If we can treat these from the perspective of hindsight, we may understand the meaning of cherishing life, and the inner happiness will often be wonderful.
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You are making a ten-year plan to buy a house in ten years. From the first year on, you have been gradually working hard around this goal. As time goes by, your dream is getting closer and closer. The happiness in life will gradually increase.
Sometimes the reason why we have to set certain goals for ourselves in life is, on the one hand, to achieve a certain pursuit, and on the other hand, to pursue more happiness in life.
Happiness is often created by our efforts with our own hands. The process leading to our dreams is itself happy.
Nietzsche said: "A person who knows why he lives can endure any kind of life."
Having experienced various hardships in the world, you will naturally know the essence of this sentence.
In this world, many people rely on hard work and wisdom to create the life they want, and work hard with their own hands to make themselves and their families happier.
But no matter what, happiness does not wait until you meet certain conditions in the future. Happiness or not is not in the future, but in the present. It lies in having a pair of eyes that discover beauty and a state of mind that creates a beautiful life.
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Adults, we must work hard to create happiness. This is the essence of life.
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