Between people, acquaintance is a kind of fate; knowing each other is a kind of happiness; believing is a kind of recognition; meeting is a kind of destiny. No matter how deep the emotion is, knowing each other by fate is quite rare. Ten thousand taels of gold are easy to come by, but a close friend is hard to find. A confidant is half of yourself. A confidant understands you deep in the soul, which is a lifelong touch. Who doesn't want to have a close friend in this world? But in this chaotic and complicated world, it’s really hard to find a true friend.
A true confidant is not an ordinary fair-weather friend, but an elegant and beautiful scenery on the road of life; a true confidant will help you at any time, and will not ask for anything in return but walks with you all the way; a true confidant is not The icing on the cake is a friend who can help you in times of need and can share weal and woe with you; a true confidant does not necessarily have to be with you everywhere, but can actively help you out of trouble when you are in trouble.
A close friend is a kind of silent warmth; a close friend does not need to be as strong as wine, but only needs to be like tea to nourish the soul; a close friend does not need to drink happily at ordinary times, but only needs to be with you in difficult times; a close friend does not need to be warm in your arms all the time. , as long as you can give guidance when you are confused; as a confidant, you don't need to be powerful or famous, as long as you provide help in times of need, you can warm a cold heart. This is the greatest wealth in life.
People can meet each other because of fate; people can enjoy each other because of sincerity. I am used to seeing intrigues and intrigues, and have tasted the ups and downs, and finally understand that sincerity is hard to find. As the saying goes, a person's strength can be seen through a long journey, and a person's heart can be seen over time. Whether a person is wholeheartedly devoted to you or not is all in the little details of daily life. It’s not someone you meet and keep in touch with every day, but someone who knows your joys and sorrows and understands your warmth and well-being. It is not the icing on the cake when the scenery is good, but the timely help when the situation is down.
We may not be able to meet a true confidant throughout our lives. A true confidant does not need money to buy or sweet words to please, but relies on sincerity and understanding. A true confidant can see through the sadness behind your smile and the fragility behind your strength. It is not easy to understand your bitterness, understand your pain and hardships, there is no exchange of interests between close friends, it is just two similar souls who happened to meet, cherish each other, and warm each other.
Three thousand friends are not as good as one confidant. A thousand pieces of gold are easy to come by, but a confidant is hard to find. A confidant will not face you day and night, and will not be involved in worldly matters. Instead, he will just listen quietly and accompany you gently. When you fall into a trough, he will give you spiritual support and give you the courage to face all difficulties and rekindle your life. Hope, gain strength. When you make a mistake, point it out bluntly; when you are proud, give a stern reminder. The words are offensive, but I think about you.
I once saw this sentence: As we grow up, our circle is getting bigger and bigger, but the number of people who know our hearts and minds is getting smaller and smaller. There are many people who can chat with us, but there are only a few people who are really willing to listen to our own voices. In this environment, we have to live like an isolated island, closed and lonely, until a soul confidant comes to open the door of our heart. I feel deeply, why do people need confidants? Maybe this is the truest answer.
In front of this person, you don’t have to be promising, you don’t have to have an image, you don’t have to be weak all over, this is a confidant. A close friend can reveal your heart, talk to you when you are sad, comfort you, make it clear when you are wronged, understand you, and will not laugh at your shortcomings or publicize your secrets. I know your preferences, understand your thoughts, understand your difficulties, and understand your pain. I may not be able to see you every day, but I can be on call. I may not be able to get along day and night, but I can share weal and woe!
