1. Please please yourself first. As for others, divide friendships and moods, and be cool as a person.
2. The four major tragedies of life: ability is not worthy of dreams, income is not worthy of enjoyment, appearance is not worthy of pretentiousness, and knowledge is not worthy of age.
3. This world is not perfect, even a little cruel. You can't decide whether what you encounter on the next journey is good or bad, but you can decide your attitude towards them. The angle from which you look at the world determines the temperature the world gives you.
4. In fact, not many people care about your experiences, difficulties, or even your despair. Most people just gossip, ridicule, and gloat.
5. When you really want to do something, just do it. Don’t always pass by the beauty of life. Impulsiveness may pay a price, but missing out on paying the price is even more regrettable.
6. Kindness is not wrong, and tolerance is not excessive, but your kindness must not be given to those who are ungrateful. Don’t feed it to others who are greedy. Don’t spoil people who push their limits. Don’t help those who are ungrateful. While being kind, We must learn to protect ourselves, instead of blindly being a good person, letting ourselves suffer, and letting our feelings go to waste.
7. If we haven’t met, there is no need to say goodbye. If we don’t say goodbye, how can there be new encounters? Love yourself well, let what should come and go, everything will be the best arrangement.
8. Even if you encounter the greatest misfortune in the world, the prerequisite for solving all difficulties is to stay alive. Only when you are alive can you have hope. No matter how painful or sad it is, as long as you can work hard to live, everything will be fine.
9. Never envy other people's lives, even if that person seems happy and prosperous. Never judge someone else's happiness, even if that person seems lonely and helpless. Happy people drinking water, Lengnuanzizhi. You are not me, how can you know the path I have walked, the joy and pain in my heart.
10. People’s troubles can be summed up in 12 words: can’t let go, can’t think about it, can’t see through it, can’t forget it. With a simple mood, look at the complicated life and walk the bumpy road. Life is simple and happy, life is happy as long as it is happy.
11. Never regret the path you have chosen. Life is like riding a train. No matter how beautiful the scenery is, it will recede. The passing time and the people you meet will eventually drift away. The one who moves forward is always yourself.
12. Don’t rely on someone easily, it will become your habit. When separation comes, what you lose is not a person, but your spiritual support. Learn to walk independently no matter when and where, it will make you Go more calmly.
13. People, it is better to endure hardship later than to endure hardship early. The pain that comes early is the beauty of blood blooming on flowers, and the pain that comes late is the desolation of wind and rain blowing on the thatched hut. While you are still young, boldly go out and face the baptism of wind, frost, rain and snow.
14. No matter what happened in the past, you have to believe that the best is yet to come. Those who are only enthusiastic about something in the first five minutes are called losers; those who are still enthusiastic in the last five minutes are called winners.
5. You think it doesn’t matter whether you are beautiful or ugly, because you already have a good-looking face; you think it doesn’t matter whether you have money or not, because your family is rich; you think it doesn’t matter whether you are fat or thin, because you have a good figure; you It doesn't matter if you are last in grade because you are not bad at studying. Isn't that what people are like? What you don't care about is actually what you already have.
16. Life is your own, don’t live in other people’s eyes and saliva. Not all comments need to be understood by others, and not all choices need to be supported by others.
17. When someone feels sorry for you, tears are just tears, otherwise they are just salty body fluids; when someone is taking care of you, acting coquettishly is acting coquettishly, otherwise you are seeking death.
18. The performance of life requires practice a hundred times before you can achieve beauty once. Life gives you some pain just to teach you what it wants to teach you.If you fail to learn it once, you will suffer once. If you always fail to learn it, you will fall down in the same place over and over again.
19. Don’t be too entangled in the present, and don’t worry too much about the future; when you have experienced something, the scenery in front of you is no longer the same as before.
20. Don’t dwell on an awkward thing for too long. If you struggle for a long time, you will be annoyed, in pain, epiglottis, tired, sad, and heartbroken. In fact, in the end, you are not struggling with things, but with yourself. No matter how awkward it is, you have to learn to withdraw.
21. If you are honest, there will be more people who will lie to you. If you are useful, more people will follow you. If you are useless, more people will stay away from you. This is reality. The most difficult thing in the world to see clearly is the human heart, and the hardest thing to grasp in the world is the emotion. Don't test the human heart, it will disappoint you. It’s good to know some things and there’s no need to say more. Some people are just as easy to get to know each other as there is no need to have deep friendships with them.
