The sand in your hand is held tightly, and the faster it flows out; the water held in your hand, the tighter it is held, the faster it leaks out. Because I am afraid of losing the things around me, I always want to hold on tightly and not let them go. However, no matter how hard we hold on to many things, they will eventually leave.
An eagle watched a young eagle take flight before slowly taking off. It stumbled at the beginning, flew slowly, and the flight path was crooked. The eagle wanted to go over and help, but it was melancholy, hesitant, and walked back and forth several times. Finally, it decided to hide behind and watch the young eagle practice flying.
After many failures, the young eagle gradually mastered the skills of flying, flying more and more steadily, and flying farther and farther. The eagle's loving eyes were filled with tears, both of joy and sadness. The young eagle has learned to fly, which means it has grown up; the young eagle can fly on its own, which means it can leave.
Watching your children grow up is a very happy thing; watching your children drift away is also a very sad thing. Just like a potted flower that you have carefully cultivated and raised perfectly, what kind of mentality will you have if even the pot is moved away?
But even those who love and cherish flowers must be relieved when their cultivated flowers are taken away by others, because sometimes it is helpless. If you are a flower grower, and the flowers you raise are ultimately meant to bring beauty to others, then giving them up to others is inevitable, and losing them is also inevitable. Although
is reluctant to give up, the result cannot be changed, so he can only choose to let go. The eagle may feel disappointed as it watches its young eagle fly further and further away, higher and higher, but in the end it has to let the young eagle fly by itself and have its own sky. The eagle raises its young eagle, not just to tie the young eagle to itself.
As ferocious as a tiger, it is good for the little tiger to grow up, but it must also be allowed to go out on its own and open up a forest of its own. This is true for eagles, tigers, and other living creatures. It’s gratifying to watch your children grow up, but in the end you still have to watch them go away.
Human beings are the same as animals. They want to keep their children by their side. In addition, many people have the traditional idea of returning to their roots. They live with their children and do not want their children to be far away from them. They always think that children are at home when they are around them. Only by being complete can the family live in peace and contentment.
However, no matter what parents think, children will eventually take the step of leaving their parents. Just like a child descending from a parent's arms, to a toddler, to a brisk walk, leaving is inevitable. Life is a farewell, and in the end you have to go where you belong.
Long Yingtai said: "The so-called relationship between parents and children just means that your fate with him is that you will watch his back fade away in this life. You stand at this end of the path and watch him gradually fade away. He disappears where the path turns, and he tells you silently with his back, there is no need to chase. "
This is probably the real relationship between parents and children, and even all people. Life is a process of drifting away. Whether it is parents versus children, or children versus parents; whether they are dealing with relatives, friends, or strangers, in the end they must let each other go and let each other go their own way.
There is no way back in life, or there is a way back, but the way back is to stay with each other under our own little mound. You don’t miss me, I don’t care about you, we talk to each other quietly, quietly, silently, no matter There will be no more intersections, no more thoughts, no more imaginary passion.
When I was alive, I always thought that we would hold hands and take care of each other for a lifetime. This is true for lovers, and it is true for parents towards their children. But when love is a thing of the past, and when the children grow up, letting go is the best responsibility for each other. The tighter the pull, the deeper the marks and the greater the damage.
Everyone has his own sky and needs to fly freely in the sky. Never tie others up in the name of love and prevent them from breathing freely.Birds in cages may not have to worry about eating and drinking, but the lack of control over their bodies makes their bodies weak and more likely to self-destruct.
In life, you must learn to let go and give each other a space. A bird will be happier when it flies out of the cage; a tiger will be happier when it runs out of the cage; a person will be happier when it walks out of the cage. In life, you must know how to let go. This is not only letting the other person go, but also relaxing yourself!
