In the summer morning, the sun shines enthusiastically on the earth. Beams of light shine through the gaps in the leaves to the earth. The front of the small building is full of tiny morning glory . The community is full of pedestrians doing morning exercises, making it a warm and peaceful place!
While it was not too hot in the morning, I hurried to the vegetable market to buy vegetables. When I walked into the gate of the community, I received a call from my classmate before I even got home.
Two of my classmates are a couple and have been married for many years. The female classmate is doing confinement nanny. Male classmates work in the mine.
When they first got married, they were loving and harmonious, and the husband followed the wife. With the birth of children, conflicts gradually increased.
They were born in the early 1970s. There were basically no conditions for falling in love at that time. Although they were classmates in junior high school, they were only classmates for a few years.
Moreover, they were relatively young when they were in junior high school, only thirteen or fourteen years old. They were in a hazy state about relationships and were not particularly sensible.
So half of their marriages were arranged by their parents. Each other's parents have known each other for a long time, and they just happened to be classmates, so it was natural for them to get married.
After getting married, I discovered that there was a big gap between them. The female classmate was petite, smart and elegant. The male classmate is rough and honest, with a bad temper. The two people have different views.
The two of them have been having friction and conflicts since the birth of their first child. A female classmate left home for three years to work. Because I couldn’t bear to have my child come back. The days moved forward slowly in the quarrel and noise.
A few years later, the two had another daughter. I originally thought that after having a second child, my male classmates would become more mature and responsible, and their temper would be softened. Who knows, it's still immature.
When the wife was about to have her confinement, they rushed to the hospital in a hurry, only to find that they had not brought many things that they should have brought. And the money for hospitalization is not enough. The wife was in pain, sad and sad. But there was nothing I could do but notify my mother-in-law’s family to help deal with it!
There are countless such things. Although they are small things, they are also in every aspect of life. Over time, the relationship between the two became indifferent, with constant quarrels and friction. The two children grew up slowly in such an environment.
Finally one day the wife couldn't bear it anymore and filed for divorce. The male classmate was unwilling, but couldn't resist his wife, so the two peacefully went through the divorce procedures at the Civil Affairs Bureau.
After the two completed the divorce procedures, the female classmate found a job elsewhere. Male classmates also went to the mine to continue working.
Such days lasted for a while. One day, a male classmate heard that a female classmate was looking for someone. Moreover, the target of a female classmate also bought gold bracelets, necklaces and other jewelry for the female classmate. The male classmate was very anxious and asked me to help them get together.
Looking at my former classmate, to be honest, I can only comfort him and promise to help him. My male classmate’s hometown is facing demolition, and he may be allocated a few houses. After some of our classmates helped match up, they got remarried.
I received a call from my female classmate today and found out that my male classmate had just completed heart bypass surgery not long ago and almost lost his life.
The male classmate loves to eat meat and drink alcohol, and his life is irregular. The female classmate repeatedly advised him to pay attention to his diet and live in moderation, but the male classmate didn't like to hear it. When he got anxious, he said he wouldn't be allowed to eat meat, saying that the female classmate hated him and was reluctant to let him eat it.
One day, the male classmate felt really uncomfortable. He was lying on the bed and felt that it was extremely difficult to breathe. He called his female classmate, but she was still at work and couldn't get home in time, so she asked him to go to the hospital to deal with it.
The male student felt uncomfortable and couldn't move, so he stayed at home for nearly two hours.
When the female classmate rushed home and sent him to the hospital, he had missed the best opportunity and could not dissolve the thrombus . In the end, heart bypass surgery was the only option. Only then did he save his life.
Logically speaking, I have already entered the hospital and just had an operation. The doctor told me to live a quiet life.
When a female classmate brought her husband the hard-cooked meal, she was scolded by her male classmate.He usually eats too much greasy meat, and suddenly he can't accept this kind of life of clear soup and little water. He said that he couldn't eat the food cooked for him by his female classmates. The female classmate was angry and sad.
Looking at her husband lying on the hospital bed, I didn’t know how to comfort him. I really wanted to have a big fight with him, but I was worried that his body wouldn't be able to bear it.
When people reach middle age, they should live in harmony and live out the rest of their lives peacefully. Their two children are now grown, with the son already working and the daughter still in college.
My classmate’s husband is now lying in the hospital. He is not in good health and can’t do anything! The burden of the family burden suddenly falls on the shoulders of your classmates. The female classmate was particularly melancholy. Her son was about to get married and had a mortgage, and her daughter was in college.
My husband has never understood and cared about me, and he is still so reckless and willful. How can I save him? Do you want to continue living like this?
Marriage is not about doing whatever you want. Only by understanding and tolerating each other and fulfilling family responsibilities together can you have a harmonious and happy life!
