In the recently popular book "When Breath Becomes Air", there is this sentence:
"No one can escape or see through life and death, but we have the ability to adapt and deal with it."
deeply agrees. .
Life is impermanent and things change. We should never expect that life will always be smooth and smooth, but what we urgently hope is: we can walk all the way, grow all the way, become better and better all the way, and be strong enough to become an opponent of life!
There is a saying:
"The most important label in life is your name."
Remember the following 5 life suggestions, which will make your life better and better, and let your name be in the world. Become dazzling enough among the crowd!
01
No matter what the situation is,
will never overdraw oneself.
I like a saying on the Internet:
"Your overdraft happiness will be repaid with countless losses."
Just imagine, in life, if you stay up late all day long, you can't overdraw yourself too much. Got healthy?
Do you like to ask others for help and overdraw your circle of friends when you have nothing to do?
Do you often treat others harshly, be lenient with yourself, and overdraw your bottom line?
As everyone knows, no matter whether it is health, feelings or the bottom line of a person, they cannot withstand such overdraft.
If you overdraft today, you will have to repay it twice as much tomorrow!
Therefore, no matter what the situation, please maintain moderation, work hard to exercise restraint, and never overdraw yourself to obtain the so-called "results"!
02
Take action first
You will arrive at
before others. Leo Tolstoy once said:
"Every action will bring relief, and even poor actions are much better than inaction." It is better to take action before others, even if it is a poor action, than to keep making excuses, delaying, and hesitating.
Computer celebrity Dr. Wang An had learned a lesson because of hesitation when he was a child.
When he was a child, he picked up a small sparrow, but because his mother did not allow small animals to be kept at home, he put the sparrow down and asked his mother for permission first. As a result, when he came back, the little sparrow had been picked up by a wild cat.
Only those who take real action will have a future. Life is action, inaction is almost equal to death.
03
Learn the subtraction of life
It’s also good to let it go
Medicine King Sun Simiao once said:
"Speak less, have less things in your heart, eat less in your belly, naturally sleep less, four less in sequence, the magic formula." "
人this In life, when you reach a certain age, you should actually start subtracting -
Many things should be taken lightly, and you need to let go of many trivial matters. Instead of obsessing about big and comprehensive, it is better to focus on less but more refined.
Once upon a time, a landowner went to visit a tribal leader and wanted a piece of territory. The leader asked him to go all the way west and mark all the way. If he can get back before the sun goes down, all the places he marked will be yours.
However, the landlord did not come back until the sun went down. It turned out that he was too greedy and went too far, so he died of exhaustion on the road.
Life is like a journey against the odds, and you and I are both travelers. Carrying too many burdens will only make the journey of life heavier.
04
Never deny yourself
Always be serious and positive
Someone once said:
"Those who have smiles in their eyes and always have light in their hearts can more easily cope with the difficulties of life."
The path of life, is by you Depicted by mood. Therefore, no matter how difficult the situation is, you should not let yourself be surrounded by pessimism.
On this planet, everyone is actually a small world. If you want it to run in an orderly manner, you must have the ability to regulate it - Never deny yourself, always believe in yourself, you are the hero of this world!
05
Never stop learning
Continue to arm yourself with knowledge
Everyone comes to this world, like a piece of white paper to be painted, a weak seedling, naive and ignorant.
But fortunately, we have the same great and mysterious talent, that is - learning!
Learning is one of the most important talents of human beings, and it is also a task that is indispensable and indispensable for human growth and development.
Develop the habit of lifelong learning and arm yourself with continuous new knowledge, so that you can see the farther and broader distance!
is what the saying goes: "Everyone's world is a circle, and learning is the radius. The larger the radius, the broader the world you have"!
Lu Sihao once said:
"You have to endure until the spring flowers bloom; you have to leave until the lights are bright;
you have to see the vastness of the world before you judge whether it is good or bad;
you have to work hard to become better. , again standing next to people who dare not imagine, they are evenly matched;
You have to become what you imagined, and you can’t let it go even one step. "
Nowadays, during the epidemic, there are always people questioning:
"Will this world still be there? Okay? "
But I believe that if everyone in the world works hard to be better, then the world will get better and better!
I hope everyone who reads this article
will work hard to practice these 5 life suggestions
and strive to become the best person in the world!
encourage each other!
On this planet, everyone is actually a small world. If you want it to run in an orderly manner, you must have the ability to regulate it - Never deny yourself, always believe in yourself, you are the hero of this world!
05
Never stop learning
Continue to arm yourself with knowledge
Everyone comes to this world, like a piece of white paper to be painted, a weak seedling, naive and ignorant.
But fortunately, we have the same great and mysterious talent, that is - learning!
Learning is one of the most important talents of human beings, and it is also a task that is indispensable and indispensable for human growth and development.
Develop the habit of lifelong learning and arm yourself with continuous new knowledge, so that you can see the farther and broader distance!
is what the saying goes: "Everyone's world is a circle, and learning is the radius. The larger the radius, the broader the world you have"!
Lu Sihao once said:
"You have to endure until the spring flowers bloom; you have to leave until the lights are bright;
you have to see the vastness of the world before you judge whether it is good or bad;
you have to work hard to become better. , again standing next to people who dare not imagine, they are evenly matched;
You have to become what you imagined, and you can’t let it go even one step. "
Nowadays, during the epidemic, there are always people questioning:
"Will this world still be there? Okay? "
But I believe that if everyone in the world works hard to be better, then the world will get better and better!
I hope everyone who reads this article
will work hard to practice these 5 life suggestions
and strive to become the best person in the world!
encourage each other!
