In the beautiful nature, if the bird wants to truly come to this world, the first level it needs to go through is: it must do its best to destroy the egg and fight for its own freedom!
Mother birds naturally know that there are live baby birds inside the eggs, but if they help the chicks open the eggshells from the outside, even if the chicks are born successfully, they will usually fall to death while trying to fly.
This is because the bird's wings are not strong enough during the shelling period.
This is nature’s great design!
The process of a bird breaking through the eggshell can enhance the strength of its wings, thus preparing for future flying.
helps the bird break out of its shell, but you are actually killing it!
Natural examples of bird hatching are very similar to humans: most of the time, we should respect the right of children or others to grow up by making mistakes.
Because humans must also develop their own strength through self-exploration, mistakes and struggles.
For example, in the process of raising your own children, if you over-protect your children and do not allow them to make mistakes and grow up to temper themselves, you will instead educate your children for a time that "this road will not work"; or you will directly teach your children that "this road will not work"; If you intervene or extend a "helping hand" when the precious opportunity to experience yourself comes, then the child's opportunity to develop personal strength will be lost!
This indirectly leads to a series of parenting phenomena such as children's over-dependence and lack of courage to make their own decisions.
For another example, when a company recruits new employees, they are unwilling to delegate tasks to them when they lack experience, or they do not train them in the necessary professional knowledge. Instead, they do everything themselves and do not allow them to perform the tasks themselves. Those "errors" and "imperfections" that occur during the task process will also lose the opportunity for the company to grow with the growth of its employees.
However, 90% of the results of letting employees perform their best are often "not as bad as imagined"!
Because people are constantly growing! It is mistakes and imperfections that give them the opportunity to grow and develop their own strength.
Many times, it is often best for us to let go and allow children, or subordinates, or employees to face their own self-growth journey alone. Arrangements!
Perhaps one of the best gifts you can give your children or others is the right to make mistakes!
Because you know that behind every mistake they face is the birth and strengthening of the precious self-power given to them by the Creator!
