"Love Full Siheyuan" Xu Damao, bad people are good people used to come out

1. The bad guy's outlook on life

In Xu Damao's opinion, in the entire courtyard, only one person is a good person.

Bad people never regard themselves as bad people. They have their own philosophy of life to defend themselves. Generally, there are the following types for you to distinguish:

1. I am very heartfelt. Well, it's all because they don't know good people.

2. Sometimes I do bad things, but it's not my heart, I just do bad things with good intentions.

3. List and exalt the badness of others and downplay your own badness: say I am bad, but how can you be good?

4. Under the guise of "I'm doing this for your own good", they openly do bad things, but they really believe in their hearts that what they are doing is good. Tell a lie a thousand times, no matter whether others believe it or not, he will believe it himself anyway.

5. Although I have been doing bad things for so many years, it is for a noble purpose.

In the above points, Comrade Xu Damao can be said to be perfect.

There are no absolute good people and bad people in the world, but we can use simple standards to simply distinguish: those who often do good things can be classified as good people, and those who often do bad things can be classified as bad people.

Good or bad, the argument doesn't matter.

The reason why the bad guys can keep on being bad and not blush or get discouraged must be because their hearts can be self-consistent.

2. The bad guys are all good guys

A person can be as bad as Xu Damao, and he has been tireless for decades. Get the lesson you deserve.

From childhood to adulthood, our parents are teaching us to be human beings, schools are teaching us to be human beings, and society is teaching us to be human beings, but the people we teach are often good and obedient people.

those high-sounding chicken soup,It is only useful to good people with simple minds, and it is worthless when encountering bad people.

This is the embarrassment of today's education. To a certain extent, it is to make wedding dresses for bad people, so that bad people can often ride on the necks of good people to pee, and make good people doubt life.

So I often teach my children to protect themselves. All good deeds and learning must be based on protecting themselves. Even if you have to sacrifice, you can only serve the country and the people, and cannot be used by bad people.

At the same time, society is far more tolerant of bad people than good people.

Bad people have done a lot of bad things, and they only need to put down the butcher's knife to become a Buddha on the spot, while a good person needs to go through 9981 hardships and endure countless hardships to achieve it.

The reason is very simple, our social atmosphere always allows bad people, and our rules and morals are prepared for good people.

In a word, good people are used to bad people.

The same thing, if a good person does a bad job, a group of people will stand up and criticize education. Today, this phenomenon is mainly reflected in cyberbullying, a group of people who do not know the truth, their personal morals are worrying on weekdays, but when they see other people's small mistakes, they are like a dog seeing a baba or a fly seeing a rotten egg. On the other hand, dig out the eighteen generations of other people's ancestors and make comments.

I can be sure that if the person being criticized holds the power of life and death for those Internet thugs, those people would not even dare to release P, let alone make small mistakes, and no one would dare to criticize them when they committed crimes.

Many people will keep silent for fear of revenge from bad guys, and even find all kinds of weird excuses for bad guys and bad things.

I hope that people who read my words, when criticizing "good people with flaws" in the future, first ask themselves: If this person controls your life and death, do you dare to say that to others? ?

It's not shameful to admit that I'm a coward,It's shameful to be a coward but to find a sense of existence through the Internet bullying the weak.

Looking at the people around Xu Damao, we can see that it is not surprising that such a person appears in the courtyard.

by extension, let's take a look at the building tyrants village tyrants all over the country in the past few years, which one does not have a group of "bad good people" behind it?

If the soil for bad people always exists, then bad people will spring up one after another, and good people will have no way out because there are too many bad people.

The more benevolence, righteousness and morality are shouted most vigorously, the more it proves that the place lacks benevolence, righteousness and morality.

to count on those people to revive traditional culture and do a good job in the construction of socialist spiritual civilization is simply scheming with tigers.

Siheyuan is just that, look at what the uncles and aunts say, which one is not a famous saying? Which sentence doesn't make sense? These truths tie the silly pillar to death, but they always open up to Xu Damao.

3. Men are not bad, women do not love

Over the years, what we have been most troubled by watching literary and artistic works is that bad people always succeed in front of women, deceiving women's feelings time and time again, and Good people are often faced with the embarrassing dilemma of being a bachelor because of mental cleanliness.

The prettier women in the courtyard, although they all have a good impression of the silly Zhu, but as long as Xu Damao sticks a pole horizontally, the woman will immediately fall into the rhetoric of Xu Damao, roll the sheets with Xu Damao, and then give the silly card a good person card.

Literary works come from life. In reality, men like Xu Damao can eat well in front of women.

In reality, people will never judge a person's good or bad according to books, especially young girls, as a model of formal logic , an obstacle to dialectical logic, sensibility > rationality,Naturally, it is easy to have a good impression of people like Xu Damao.

Look at the words that Xu Damao said when he pursued Begonia, such as "flowers on the mountain", "the most beautiful girl in the whole factory", and "we are all cultural people". Can't say anything.

Xu Damao can not only blurt out, but also not blush. If Yu Haitang makes things difficult, Xu Damao can also make more beautiful love words. Therefore, Yu Haitang was immediately breached the psychological line of defense. If Qin Huairu and Shaozhu hadn't stopped them in time, Xu Damao would have succeeded again.

In the same way, Xu Damao told Qin Jingru, Qin Huairu, and Lou Xiaoe, and it worked every time.

Qin Huairu claims to be loyal to Shizhu, but when she was cooking in the factory, she did not refuse Xu Damao's teasing. The reason is very simple. As a normal woman, Xu Damao was originally very attractive.

Don't say that Xu Damao's appearance is not bad, even if Xu Damao is ugly, as long as he has that clever mouth, he will never be short of women in his life. If there is only one woman in the courtyard, it must be silly Zhu instead of Xu Damao.

Women not only need men to make money to support their families, but also need men to nourish their families with sweet words. They would rather have a Ximen Qing who doesn't know the future than a Wu Dalang who doesn't know the style.

Of course, silly Zhu is not Wu Dalang, he still understands style, otherwise he would really have to be a bachelor.

As a scumbag, every time Xu Damao succeeds, he will show an irresponsible attitude and hurt the hearts of women, but since it can make the other party sad, it must be because the other party once fell in love with Xu Damao.

In private, Xu Damao will be proud of it.

4. Silly Zhu's Natural Enemy

Xu Damao is Silly Zhu's Natural Enemy.Everywhere you have to compete with silly columns.

Silly Zhu wants to improve his work, and Xu Damao will go to the leader to give a small report; silly Zhu is popular in the courtyard, and Xu Damao will go door to door to ruin silly Zhu's reputation; silly Zhu wants to go on a blind date, and he will cut off a Hu when he sees a Xu Damao.

Xu Damao is like a ghost, haunting Silly Zhu every day, making Silly Zhu restless all his life.

On the surface, Shazhu has won every battle against Xu Damao, but in general, Xu Damao has also realized his strategic plan, which has turned Shazhu's life upside down.

If it wasn't for Lou Xiaoe's return from Hong Kong with her son, Shao Zhu would have died alone because of Xu Damao's troubles.

Silly Zhu chooses to forgive Xu Damao every time, repaying his loan and helping his husband and wife reconcile, but no matter how warm cotton is, it can't cover up a piece of ice that has a prejudice against Silly Zhu, Xu Damao is not convinced from the beginning to the end column.

To a certain extent, silly Zhu is also one of the people who used to make Xu Damao a bad person. It is because of his repeated indulgences and reassurance that Xu Damao became more and more presumptuous, and gradually drifted away on the road of evil.

Silly Zhu is also a cunning person. His indulgence towards Xu Damao is a bit like Zheng Zhuanggong to his younger brother.

There is no means of thunder, and the heart of a bodhisattva cannot be followed. Silly Zhu was able to win the final victory in the fight with Xu Damao because his tactics were higher than Xu Damao, not just because Xu Damao lost his heart.

5. Can Xu Damao get better?

At the end of the TV series, Xu Damao got better because of the goodwill of the silly Zhu, and returned to the big family of the courtyard house, satisfying everyone's good wishes for "the courtyard full of love".

In reality, Xu Damao may not be so easy to get better. Not only will he not be grateful to the silly Zhu, but he will also intensify his struggle with the silly Zhu. The reason is very simple. To become Xu Damao's enemy, the existence of silly columns will only make Xu Damao feel ashamed,As long as Xu Damao still wants to look up to be a man in the future, he will still think of ways to do bad things.

He will use his three-inch tongue to drive a wedge between Lou Xiao'e and Qin Huairu, between a stick and a silly Zhu, and stir up new troubles in the courtyard.

Unless silly Zhu's tricks, he has been able to completely control Xu Damao, making Xu Damao respectful and afraid, and dare not act rashly. But in this situation, it's not that Xu Damao has gotten better, but that silly Zhu has become smarter.

Smartness alone is not enough, Duozhu must also have a steady stream of interests, which can provide Xu Damao, so that Xu Damao becomes dependent on him, and dare not easily turn against the water.

Bad people can also do good things. The premise is that they are controlled by good people and guided by good people. As long as they are used well, bad people are often better than good people, but you must be extra careful when using bad people. The old story of the farmer and the snake.