The two real causes that make you unable to make changes and have been anxious have finally been found.
1 is why it is difficult for ordinary people to change? That is because the pain is not great enough. There is a kind of dependence called path dependence. It means that you will form a pattern in an inertia that will constantly drive you to do it repeatedly, but you have not made any substantial progress. When you want to change, iterate, break through, or innovate, some vested interests will come out to tell you that you can't do it, it's impossible, you can only do it like before. This vested interests even include yourself. As we say, survival patterns determine behavior patterns, so the most fundamental reason why a person does not change is that the pain is not great enough.
Second, today's crisis is caused by the lack of a sense of crisis yesterday. In recent years, it has been discovered that it is becoming increasingly difficult both in life and economy. The essence is that today's crisis is caused by the lack of a sense of crisis yesterday.
Huawei Ren Zhengfei is a typical crisis philosopher. CCTV once interviewed him and said that Meng Wanzhou was trapped in Canada. Now it should be the most dangerous time for Huawei. Mr. Ren said: "I don't think, I think when Huawei develops the best time, executives all have a lot of money, and they all gain both fame and fortune. The whole Huawei is the most dangerous at that time, because everyone started Slack; and now Meng Wanzhou is trapped in Canada, and then Western countries are blocking Huawei and blocking technology and raw materials. I think everyone is united in the enemy and working together, which has rekindled our fighting spirit, because everyone knows that difficulties have come, and we have twisted it into a rope. I think this is not the most difficult time for Huawei, but rather the best time for Huawei.” From Mr. Ren’s few words, we can deeply realize that Mr. Ren is an absolute crisis philosopher. Watch Huawei overcome these survival crises again and again, and then move towards peaks one after another.
So when many of us make money most easily and have the highest morale, we do not make the layout of the second curve or do self-innovation.
So in the current era of rapid development, everyone has anxiety. A person who is anxious about his appearance will pay attention to maintenance; a person who is anxious about his body will exercise; a person who is anxious about his wisdom will continue to learn and improve; a person who is anxious about his survival crisis will continue to innovate and change.
So how to make changes and resolve anxiety? I think there is no need to deliberately eliminate anxiety, because it cannot be eliminated, this will exist in living people. Therefore, we must learn to coexist with anxiety, but turn anxiety into a better motivation to change yourself. Generally, experts must coexist with anxiety, and even create anxiety every day. If you are not anxious, or if you really see through the world, it doesn’t matter anymore and you will lie down. How can anyone with some dreams and ambitions not be anxious?
The godfather of the Chinese Internet, Sohu Zhang Chaoyang icon, Jack Ma icon, Ma Huateng , and Robin Li icon were all his fans, so he won both fame and fortune very early on. What's the result! He ran abroad because he was rich and free, and the following time was free and the mind was free. He went to Antarctica to see the geese, and then went to the North Pole to see the aurora, and took his own cruise ship to travel around the world. This is the life we ordinary people dream of?
But later he got depression . He couldn't sleep every day. He felt very painful. Life was like this, with no meaning at all. Later, he returned to China and saw that the weather on our Internet had changed. Sohu could no longer see it. BATicon came up, so he now began to return to his post to face the problems of the company and find himself.
Life is work, work is life, each of us life is your way of working. Only with the correct thinking mode and the correct working mode, can you have a continuous good habit and finally allow you to develop continuously.So after verifying the previous two questions, why are you changing so slowly? The real cause of anxiety always exists?
Change + innovation is the way we coexist with anxiety, forget to encourage each other!
