[Editor's note] This article is the first published on the entire network, written by Zhang Zhimin. There are two recent news about that attract our great attention.
Article 1: News came from the United States that a new video related to the Liu Qiangdong case was exposed by the media. The heroine Liu Jingyao in the case has repeatedly stated to people that both parties were voluntary.
Article 2: A nanny in Hangzhou took a two-year-old girl into an elevator. Because of her carelessness, the girl was locked in the elevator. She did not rescue her afterwards, causing the girl to be taken to the 8th floor and then fall to her death.
Liu Qiangdong The case of Liu Qiangdong’s drunken affair in the United States has long been known to everyone. At that time, I thought that as a person of great status, Liu Qiangdong couldn’t force the heroine to do something she didn’t want to do.
But Lao Liu also has a responsibility, because this kind of thing that you and I are willing to do is the result of the initiative of both parties. If Lao Liu can remain rational and control himself, how could he do this and pay a big price in the end? To make yourself known to the world?
In fact, when the incident first occurred, I published an article pointing out that Sino-US relations were already deteriorating at that time. Therefore, top Chinese entrepreneurs going to the United States must pay attention to their words and deeds, otherwise they will easily be trapped and become a competition between China and the United States. victim. In fact, many people describe Lao Liu's experience as the United States' hunting of Chinese entrepreneurs.
This is actually the result of Lao Liu's lack of self-discipline. This lesson is extremely important, and it also shows us that drinking can cause problems.
Yes, Lao Liu has a high status, so he should cherish his feathers, be cautious in his words and actions, and not give others opportunities.
In the context of the conflict between China and the United States, Liu still let himself go like this when he came to the United States, so he fell into a big trap. At the same time, we all saw through this incident that in the United States, a trap was set up specifically to target Chinese people. .
Yes, the dangers of the world require everyone to be cautious, but some people even forget the dangers of the world after they develop smoothly. In fact, Lao Liu is a self-made entrepreneur, while some nouveau riche people are more free to let themselves go, and they are easily preyed upon. Although there are too many bloody lessons, some people really don’t feel things until they are around them, while some people are like: when things happen to them, they will still stumble on the same problem again and again, which is a good scar. Pain.
Yes, when conditions are good, let yourself go. Being plotted by others also makes us pay more attention to self-cultivation. In fact, a person and a society always develop in the direction of better and better conditions. This is a general trend and an inevitability of the development of civilization. Therefore, how to maintain self-discipline when conditions are getting better and better is extremely important. .
Our Chinese culture has always attached great importance to education in this area. Unfortunately, the centuries of westward spread from the east have caused many Chinese people to forget traditional cultural education and they are looking to the West. So now that conditions have improved, there are many Chinese who are not self-disciplined. Now that I am telling Liu Qiangdong’s story again to warn everyone, it also reminds us to return to traditional culture and become self-disciplined people.
The case of a nanny taking a child to death in Hangzhou also makes us pay close attention to people's self-education.
A two-year-old child doesn’t understand anything, so adults must supervise them seriously. Only in this way can the child’s safety and healthy development be ensured. When you are with children, you should pay more attention to safety when entering some key areas, and hold hands with children. Because only holding hands is safer, such as when entering and exiting the elevator. At the same time, stray dogs and human traffickers outside are also unsafe factors. Therefore, only holding hands or hugging can ensure the safety of children to the greatest extent.
At the same time, we should also think of various dangerous scenarios and work hard to take countermeasures. The nanny in Hangzhou failed to press the relevant button to reopen the elevator when it was closed. This is the most criticized thing. Anyone who has ever taken an elevator knows that if the elevator is closed, quickly press the relevant button and the elevator will open. If the elevator does not open despite these operations, the nanny's responsibility will be greatly reduced, because in that case, there is something wrong with the elevator. The nanny cannot do this kind of operation, which also shows that the relevant housekeeping company is not qualified.
We also saw from related videos that the nanny was playing with her mobile phone in the elevator. The mobile phone is indeed a world, and it really makes people play incompatible with the world around them. Some people even look at their mobile phones while riding a bicycle, which brings great safety risks. They only care about satisfying their own desires, indulge in a virtual world, and are irresponsible. Therefore, for children who need careful supervision by their guardians, they are really in danger once they have such irresponsible guardians.
Yes, the most valuable thing for a person is self-knowledge and self-discipline.
However, from the Liu Qiangdong case and the Hangzhou nanny case, we see that the self-knowledge and self-discipline of the relevant personnel are indeed lacking. Especially when you are facing a baby, because the baby is being cared about or the baby doesn't understand anything, if the relevant personnel are irresponsible, it is really easy for big things to happen.
is that no matter who we are, we must always maintain self-discipline, be self-aware, and be highly responsible. Only when we: Don’t do evil because it’s small, don’t do good because it’s small, can we make good things change from quantity to quality through continuous accumulation, and at the same time, we have no loopholes, and we will never let pipes flood into Turned into a huge flood.
Liu Qiangdong did not take care of his legs, and the Hangzhou nanny failed to take care of her hands. The lessons from these two incidents are extremely painful. If we focus on self-education from the beginning, have strict requirements, and have a high sense of responsibility and risk, events will not be able to develop in the worst direction. The purpose of reviewing these two incidents is to avoid having to pay the tuition fees paid by others. This is also the main motivation for me to write this article.
