Early in the morning, because he didn't want to drink juice, his grandson Xiao Tangyuan cried, and his daughter-in-law Qiao Dangdang coaxed and persuaded him: "Drink it, drink it, the juice is nutritious, and it grows tall after drinking it, and the skin is white and beautiful."

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Early in the morning, because I didn’t want to drink juice, my grandson Xiao Tangyuan cried, and my daughter-in-law Qiao Dangdang coaxed and persuaded him: "Drink it, drink it, the juice is nutritious, and it grows tall after drinking it, and the skin is white and beautiful."

"No, I want to drink polenta ."

juice cup "bang" was placed on the table, and Qiao Dangdang was furious: "Don't go out today if you don't drink it! I've told you many times that drinking juice for breakfast is nutritious, but you just don't listen!"

Qiao Dangdang dragged the little dumplings over: "Mom, Tangyuan is not going to kindergarten today, I have a little cough. I asked the teacher for leave, remember to feed him juice."

"Uh", if you have a little cough, you don't go to school, but you can drink raw juice? I sighed. Tangyuan has taken three leave this month, and has fished for three days in school and has two days of drying the net.

The teacher said that children’s cough is not a problem, and the kindergarten will make arrangements as appropriate. The important thing is to cultivate good habits of getting up early, otherwise it will be very troublesome in the future.

My daughter-in-law came back in the evening and said, "The teacher is quite responsible, but whoever has a child feels sorry for him. In a kindergarten, what's the point of missing a few days of classes."

I opened my mouth to speak, but when I saw my son wink, I swallowed it and went back to the room silently.

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It was a chilly outside the house. A cup of juice squeezed in the morning was cold and cold. The children's stomach and intestines were tender, so how could they bear it?

Qiao Dangdang said that foreigners are like this, with fried egg juice and bread for breakfast. I said that Chinese people are different from foreigners. People eat beef with high calories and cannot be generalized.

Replenish the nutrition, you can cook some polenta and vegetables, and steam a plate of eggs, which is rich in nutrition.

She disagreed: "You are eating it in an old way. Cooked food is not as nutritious as raw food."

Turning to play with the child: "Baby should listen to your mother, and your mother will count for your words. I am all for your own good. You will understand when you grow up."

I followed the trend: "Yes, yes, you have to listen to your mother, she has the final say."

Don't like my daughter-in-law, but living together, you still have to take the overall situation into consideration. I am an elder, and it is not easy to argue with the younger generation, otherwise the family will lose its harmony.

Everyone says that mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are natural enemies, and I empathize with this.

I never thought about living with my son’s family, but the reality is that since I had a grandson, my daughter-in-law has gradually stopped moving out and passed.

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Before retirement, I was the attending physician of pediatrics in , a Grade A hospital. I have worked for more than 30 years, have rich experience and superb medical skills.

I was not satisfied with the marriage between Qiao Dangdang and his son.

Girl has a college degree and works with her father's relationship to the company. She is also a contract signed once a year.

Although the treatment is equivalent to that of civil servants, it is not a formal editor. Furthermore, she was 1.53 meters tall and stood with her 1.8 meters son, and was one head shorter.

How come my son likes others. Although Qiao Dangdang didn't study much, he had a pretty appearance and a flexible mind. When her son went to a subsidiary company to collect data, she took a look at it at first sight. By asking questions, the two started dating.

Mr. urged me: "They live it. As long as my son thinks it's good, you don't like it. Live separately after marriage, so as not to touch the pot and spoon. Anyway, the daughter-in-law can't become a daughter, so just be polite."

Generally speaking, the elders disagree with it, the parents will compromise in the end. If you love your child, you hope he will be happy and respect his choices. Parents can make suggestions, but cannot make decisions.

We bought a wedding house in a nearby community, and it was ten minutes' walk away, just a bowl of soup.

Life after marriage is calm. Qiao Dangdang had a wink and knew that I didn't like her, and his mouth was so sweet that he didn't ask her to speak. He bought some small gifts from time to time to give us, cooked and housework, and cleaned the room spotlessly, which was much more capable than me, my mother-in-law.

It’s just a little bit. The couple occasionally went back to their new house for weekends. The next day, they came back and passed the separation, which became a false idea.

With the birth of the dumplings, everything changed.

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The arrival of dumplings brings us infinite joy, and Qiao Dangdang is grandly treated by the whole family.

I get up before dawn every day to cook, so that the young couple can sleep more. After maternity leave, she went to work. My husband and I took care of the child and the other did housework, and we were all around the child.

The son and daughter-in-law are here to take a breath after get off work. The child is given to them. After a meal, they are busy with their dishes, mopping the floor, throwing dirty clothes into the washing machine, taking a bath, changing clothes and holding them on the bed. We can only rest after eleven o'clock.

This is very different from the beautiful sunset life I imagined.

I count my life with my fingers. After three years, Xiao Tangyuan can go to kindergarten. Then I can let go and do what I like.

, trouble is still in front of you. Since the child was one year old, I told him stories, opened the picture book, and pointed to the picture description inside.

No matter how noisy the dumplings are, as long as grandma starts telling stories, she will immediately calm down, her little eyes are wide open, and she listens carefully.

Qiao Dangdang signed Tangyuan for an early education class: "Mom, don't bother. Early education class has all kinds of classes, which can develop intelligence, cultivate logical thinking, and English training. You don't understand these, so it's better to go to class."

Little Tangyuan occasionally recites Tang poetry, and Qiao Dangdang disdained: "Who still learns these antiques now, it's useless to learn it. Mom, don't teach children, you Mandarin is not standard, and the child cannot change it after being affected."

I vaguely feel that my daughter-in-law has given birth to a child and her tone becomes domineering. When I talked to my husband in the evening, he also felt the same way: "Mother is precious because of her son, and the whole family holds her, it's no wonder." The husband's family has been single-handed for three generations.

The daughter-in-law regards herself as a hero and has the upper hand in speaking everywhere. She has her own set of things in educating her children.

Although I understand that young people have fresh ideas, everyone has different ideas and lacks good communication. I feel uncomfortable and really don’t want to live in the same room with my daughter-in-law.

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I advise my wife not to spoil her children too much. If she gets used to it casually, she will not want to go to school after entering elementary school.

Qiao Dangdang said: "Don't force it if the child is uncomfortable. It is safer to stay at home. There are many people in the school and many germs. What if it is infected?"

seems to prove her correctness. The child has a little cold and cough, so Qiao Dangdang ran to the big hospital. I also asked my son to take leave. The two of them took the child to see a doctor together. They prescribed a bunch of medicines and went home. They coughed syrup, amoxicillin and . When they came back, they told me to feed them once every four hours.

As a pediatrician, I am well aware of the side effects of antibiotics on children. I don’t ask for advice at home and run to the hospital at all times. I really don’t understand what my daughter-in-law does.

Tangyuan didn’t go to school this day. At noon, the sun shone in through the window, and the room was warm. I helped him take off his clothes, leaned down on the bed, and pinched the child's spine.

Pinching the spine can stimulate the back nerves and improve children's immunity.

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Little dumplings were impatient at first, and as I increased my strength, I gradually became quiet and drowsy.

At this moment, the door lock turned and Qiao Dangdang suddenly came back.

She saw the child lying downwards and motionlessly, shouted and rushed up, pushing me away. I was not prepared and almost fell.

"What are you doing? What's wrong with the child?" Qiao Dangdang's face was flushed with nervousness.

I quickly explained that she was doing pediatric massage, which could enhance immunity. She was half-believing and half-doubted. She picked up the child and looked around, and asked questions like a cannon in her mouth.

The little spine I just pinched turned red and my daughter-in-law's eyes were staring at me.

"Who told you to do this? Why didn't you ask me first? If you are sick, go to the hospital. Can you cure it at home? If you can cure it, the hospital doesn't have to open it."

" This is a Chinese medicine method, an auxiliary treatment, which can enhance immunity," I was also angry, and my voice became high. I was pushed by Qiao Dangdang just now, and I almost fell down, I was dizzy, and my blood pressure was high again.

"I am Tangyuan's grandmother, would it hurt him? "The daughter-in-law snorted coldly, "Who knows?" Anyway, I am not at home all day, so I can't see what you do to your child. If Lan Yu hadn't stopped me, I would have wanted to install surveillance at home. "

She said, twisting her body and walking out, rushing and pushing me to the wall.

"What? "I simply couldn't believe my ears: "You want to install surveillance, at my house?" "I pulled her, Qiao Dangdang struggled hard, and slapped her backhand.

covered half of her face. I was stunned for a moment, and the accumulated resentment surged out. I grabbed the dumplings like crazy, slapped Qiao Dangdang twice on the face.

Tangdang cried "Wow" loudly. Qiao Dangdang never saw me get angry and beat people, and was shocked by me.

At this moment, Mr. The grocery shopping is back.

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A battle between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law was pulled away by the husband. Back in the house, I became more and more angry as I thought about it. I have been working hard for three years, but I have no credit for it. My daughter-in-law actually wanted to pretend to monitor and monitor me. I am an outsider, a nanny?

I fucked the phone and scolded my son so hard that I was so angry.

"How did you promise me at the beginning? If you say that the wife you are looking for is not wrong, you will definitely be filial to your parents and live a good life. Is this how to live a good life? "

After a long time, my son came back obediently. The two of them muttered in the room. While I was not prepared, my daughter-in-law quietly slipped out and didn't dare to go home the next day. Send me a message: "Mom, I want to be quiet, so please let me know. "

I ignored it. I thought I was young for her to grow up, so I didn't make things uneasy for my grandson, and I was worried that my son would be in a difficult situation in the middle. I always endured it.

I didn't expect Qiao Dangdang to be arrogant. If she didn't teach her a lesson this time, she wouldn't have a memory.

I had an idea in my mind, pack my luggage, and The husband left and returned to his hometown in Fengyang.

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When I came back, my in-laws were overjoyed and busy cooking. They went to the vegetable garden to pick fresh tomatoes and cucumbers.

After talking to them, my in-laws asked me in unison: "What are you planning to do?" "

" Let's live first, I want to have a good rest. I've been exhausted over the past few years, and it's thankless to take care of my grandson. "

Mr. 1 helped me pull off a piece of white hair; "We are old and should be free and relaxed. Our parents are old and come back to accompany them when they have time. The air in the countryside is good, and there are not so many worries. Besides, we can't always carry the burden on our children. "

I squeezed his hand tacitly.

A few days later, my son called: "Mom, when will you come back? Dangdang has been taking leave for several days and no one has seen the child. "

" can be sent to kindergarten. "

" Don't mention it. Usually, when I always ask for leave for my child, Xiao Tangyuan refused to go at all. She forced him to send it over and beat his mother, grabbed her hair and kept her back on her body and cried and made a fuss. "

I smiled, "This is his mother's credit. How did I persuade her in the past? Now she knows it, right? "

dealt with my son. I took a bite of Roujiamo with great pleasure, and then lowered my head to drink Hu La Tang . I didn't go back until Qiao Dangdang came to ask in person.

The next day, my daughter-in-law called and repaid and was cautious and humble: "Mom, I know I'm wrong. I promise not to dare next time. Xiao Tangyuan looks for grandma, we need you too. "

" can go back, but I have the conditions and I can only agree to it. "

" Okay, it's easy to discuss any conditions you ask, as long as you go home first," Qiao Dangdang was almost crying.

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After returning home, I held a family meeting. I made three requirements. First: My son and daughter-in-law moved out and set up their own business. The house there was ready-made, and we will make up for any items we lack.

Second: In the morning, my parents will send the dumplings to school, I will pick them up in the afternoon, and in the evening they will pick them up after get off work. You should explain in advance when coming to have dinner on holidays, and we will also inform you if you go out.

Third: hand over two thousand yuan in the family every month, not for anything else, just to prove that the efforts of grandparents are valuable. If you don’t want to pay, find a nanny to pick up the child.

The son and daughter-in-law agreed.

After a while, my son quietly told me that Qiao Dangdang was an adopted child. The original intention of adoption was to protect her from getting old and ask her to grow up and take care of her foster parents.

After she was adopted, she grew up in a relative's house. She returned to her adoptive parents when she was seven years old.

I have never received love and warmth since I was a child. Qiao Dangdang has always lacked a sense of security and has a sensitive and suspicious personality.

married into our family and knew that my mother-in-law didn't like her, so she acted smart and well-behaved, trying hard to please her parents-in-law, but in her heart, she couldn't get rid of her inferiority.

This inferiority complex began to turn into self-inflation after she gave birth to a son. Suddenly she felt that she was being raised. The mother was noble by her son and could no longer listen to our words. She wanted to go against me everywhere.

is fighting to make decisions about dumplings. In fact, it is because of inferiority complex that leads to control. I saw the dumplings sticking to my grandmother and became jealous.

I suddenly realized that most of my daughter-in-law's practices came from the unfortunate childhood life. Unfortunately people have been healing their childhood all their lives, and I felt relieved.

After knowing this past, I tried my best to treat her well. When encountering Tangyuan, I also solicited Qiao Dangdang's opinions.

I found an opportunity to let them take care of their children, cultivate parent-child relationships, get out appropriately, ask the sisters to have tea and chat, go do hair, exercise with their husbands, and go climb Dagangshan every few days.

I finally lived the sunset life I yearn for, infinitely beautiful.