Hello everyone, I like to tell you stories.
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27-year-old February 14th, Valentine's Day in the West. This is my first Valentine's Day with my girlfriend Tan Ru.
I deliberately ended the Spring Festival holiday early and rushed back from my hometown to celebrate the festival with her.
When we were dating that day, she excitedly said to me: "I discovered something interesting. This year's Chinese Valentine's Day is the same as your birthday." After
, she excitedly held her phone and shook her eyes in front of me.
I watched her smile so happily in front of me, and I felt inexplicably warm.
I originally planned to have such a special Chinese Valentine's Day, so I would like to propose to her on this day.
I didn’t expect that I actually spent that last special day in the police station.
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My name is Cao Jian, and I come from a small town in a coastal area in Liaoning.
In the words that are very popular now, I am a "small town question-writing expert". Relying on my own efforts, I took the exam from the countryside to the county town and then from the county town to the provincial town. I went smoothly until I graduated from a master's degree and joined a good state-owned enterprise to do product design.
's income is not high, but it's still acceptable. What I like the most is the harmonious working atmosphere in the unit. My colleagues are very friendly to me.
The big brother at the opposite table heard that I wanted to rent a house. After three consecutive days of work, I drove me out to find a house and see the house.
The sister in the same working group has a junior high school child at home. Often in the morning, I bring me my own pie or buns.
The deputy director of the office, his wife works on a TV station and works on a food program. There are often coupons sent by various merchants, and he always gives them to us.
There is also a senior sister from the same school as my undergraduate degree, who joined the company five years earlier than me. I am really a hard-working game fan. I have been playing an online game for 13 years since the public beta. Now I am in a state of high places on the server. I still enjoy it every day and go online to do tasks every day.
In addition to playing games, she is also keen on being a matchmaker. I am still a single dog after 31. I am not in a hurry for my own affairs, but I always enthusiastically want to introduce my partner to us.
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Tan Ru was introduced to me by her. She met a netizen she played games together.
Before meeting Tan Ru, I didn't actually have much hope. Because I always feel that a girl who is addicted to games should be a very home-stop. I am a very dull person myself, so I naturally hope that my partner can be more lively.
But I didn't expect that she was completely different from what I imagined. She is a very sunny and cheerful girl who loves to laugh and make noise.
She is very beautiful, and her pair of peach blossom eyes makes people feel itchy.
She is a native of Shenyang and her family is in good condition. The parents divorced in their early years, and although they both remarried, they did not have children. My father runs a car 4S store and my mother opens an engineering company.
Tan Ru is 4 years younger than me. He has a low education, graduated from a junior college, and worked as a nurse in a maternal and child health care hospital, which is the kind of person who gives children vaccinations. He has little income, but his work is free. Anyway, the family doesn't point to her salary. So she was happy.
To be honest, after I learned that her family’s conditions were so good, my first reaction was that I felt it was not suitable. For such a girl, her expenses are really not something I can afford. Besides, she is so beautiful.
I have always been quite unconfident about my appearance. Maybe when I was a child, my family was poor and there was nothing good to eat. So I'm not tall, barely 170. When I was in school, I either stayed in the laboratory or the library, and I didn’t like exercise much. This makes me a little fat. He is not handsome and doesn't know how to deal with himself. I think I really don't deserve her like this.
But what I didn't expect was that Tan Ru was actually very satisfied with me. He also took the initiative to ask me to meet next time.
Later she told me that she has admired people with good academic performance since she was a child. In her opinion, academic masters are all people who exist like gods.
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I never thought that when I first studied hard, I actually became my greatest chance of winning. No wonder people say that there is a Yan Ruyu in the book, and this sentence is actually true.
The days I spent with Tan Ru together, I feel very sweet every day.
Tan Ru is a little petite and likes to be clingy. She gets off work early and can get off work at 4 pm. Then she would drive to the door of the unit to wait for me. After I get off work, I will take me to accompany her to go shopping, exercise or watch movies.
When we were together, she always liked to hold my arm and was not willing to let go for a minute.
Every night when she goes home, she always holds me and refuses to let go.
When we were dating for less than a month, one night, we went to see a movie. The movie was a bit long, and it was almost 11 o'clock when I finished watching it. When I sent her home, she said, it's so late, don't you want to live there or not.
The girl I like sent me an invitation, how could I refuse? So everything is natural. Even I think this is progressing a little too fast.
The feeling of immersed in love will only make people feel physically and mentally happy.
I like to watch her smile and watch her make noise. Even if she is looking for trouble, she is so cute that she is so cute about me.
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I really want to live with her for the rest of my life.
So the first time she took me to see her mother, I took out a month's salary and bought her mother a gift. He also told her mother about all her situation.
I told him that my family is in the county town, and my parents are all ordinary wages, so the conditions are definitely not comparable to your family. If I can help me pay a down payment to buy a house of about 80 square meters in Shenyang, I will definitely have to pay the loan myself. But it certainly can't be that kind of prime location. It can only be in the same position. As for the bride price, as long as it is not too exaggerated, I will definitely do my best.
I may not be able to give Tan Ru a rich and powerful life, but I will definitely try my best to make her happy.
Tan Ru's mother smiled and waved her hand and said that our family didn't care about these external things at all. It doesn’t matter if you don’t have a house. Whether she or Dad Tan, you can pay for it. None of this is a problem. As for her life after marriage, she knew that Tan Ru spent money very much, and she was willing to help her financially. The only requirement is that I can treat Tan Ru well.
didn't expect everything to go so smoothly.
I have been recognized by Tan Ru’s parents, and the relationship between us is getting better and better.
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Tan Ru and I have been in love sweetly for more than half a year. I began to plan a romantic proposal ceremony for her on the Chinese Valentine's Day.
I have been planning for this for a long time. I didn't expect a good idea to be very happy. I also asked many friends and classmates to help them out with advice.
Tan Ru is a very smart girl. I was afraid that she would notice my plan in advance, so I thought of many adaptable solutions.
In order to leave her a romantic memory. I asked Tan Ru's mother for help in private. I also found a friend to teach me how to make animations.
At that time, in order to leave her a perfect memory. I go to learn with friends whenever I have time. It is indeed much less time spent with Tan Ru.
Every night before going to bed, when she called her, she couldn't help but complain like she was acting coquettishly with me. I could only comfort myself with kind words. Looking at the video, her beautiful peach blossom eyes were filled with a look of loss. There were several times when I couldn't help but want to tell her.
But when I imagined that she was moved by me in a mess of scene, I still held back.
Just as I was preparing for the proposal ceremony in full swing, Tan Ru prepared me a "surprise like a bolt from the blue" on the other side."
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Half a month before the proposal ceremony, one day, Tan Ru suddenly sent me a message, only five words, let's break up.
I thought it was because I had neglected her during this period, and she said something angry.
I called her and called several times in succession, but she didn't answer.
At night, she finally called me back. I coaxed her softly for a long time, but she still determined to break up with me.
I was a little anxious. The next night I ran downstairs to her house and waited for her, but I didn't wait for her for a whole night. I didn't answer her phone, and I even asked her. My WeChat blocked.
I was a little anxious and called her mother. Her mother also comforted me and said that she must have gotten angry again and it would be better in a few days.
I went downstairs to her house every night. But after waiting for her for 3 days, she never showed up. I went to many places she usually likes to go to to find her, but they all returned without success.
called her again, and she blocked my mobile phone number.
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Now, I was really panicked. In desperation, I had to call the senior sister who introduced us to the beginning. I wanted to ask her for help, and help me find Tan Ru.
That day was just the weekend. After receiving my call, my senior sister asked me to meet. After meeting with
, she asked me what happened. To be honest, even I didn't know why it suddenly turned out like this. I could only tell her all the things during this period.
Unexpectedly, my senior sister told me that she saw Tan Ru post a photo of a diamond ring in the morning and said she went to get a certificate on the Chinese Valentine's Day. She thought she wanted to get a certificate with me at the time.
I was stunned when I heard my senior sister's words. I quickly took my senior sister's phone to search for her Moments. But Tan Ru had already deleted that Moments.
Senior sister sent Tan Ru WeChat in front of me, but she didn't reply. She didn't call me. Answer.
Looking at my despair, my senior sister could only comfort me and say that maybe she had read it wrong. Maybe she was busy with something. Or maybe she went out to play.
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I haven’t had a good sleep for several days in order to find Tan Ru.
I was extremely sleepy, and I wanted to go home to have a sleep. But I couldn’t sleep when I was lying on the bed. What I thought about in my head was the words of my senior sister. She said she was going to get a certificate? Is there anyone around her?
I really couldn’t sleep, so I had to call Tan Ru’s mother again. On the phone, Tan Ru’s mother told me firmly that there was absolutely no other man around her. It is even more impossible to get a marriage certificate with someone else in just a few days. He also comforted me.
I spent several days in a daze.
On the morning of the Chinese Valentine's Day, the senior sister secretly borrowed a colleague's cell phone and called Tan Ru. This time it was finally connected.
On the phone, facing the questioning of her senior sister, Tan Ru finally confessed that she was indeed going to get a marriage certificate with someone else today. That man was one of her previous boyfriends. She is also a rich second generation and is considered a match with her. And they will have a wedding soon. Her parents knew all this.
When the senior sister heard all this, she was a little stunned. She originally wanted to hide it from me, but in the end she couldn't help but tell me everything Tan Ru told her.
After hearing this, I was not only shocked, but more angry. What am I? She was used as a spare tire and was deceived by her whole family. Even if I have a good temper, how can I bear such a great humiliation?
I didn't even take leave, so I ran out of the unit and took a taxi to the door of the Civil Affairs Bureau, wanting to block Tan Ru and ask for an explanation.
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The sun was very strong that day and the weather was particularly hot. But I felt the whole body was biting cold. It hurts so cold.
I waited until two o'clock in the afternoon and finally saw Tan Ru get out of a luxury car. Soon, a man came down from the cab, very tall and handsome. Haha, handsome and rich. Really much better than me.
I saw Tan Ru holding his arm intimately. Once upon a time, she also held me like that.
Not long ago, she was hiding in my arms and laughing, but now she is by the other man.
I found it particularly dazzling when I saw the sweet look of them. I rushed up desperately and grabbed Tan Ru's wrist with anger in my eyes. I asked her, "You are going to get a marriage certificate with someone else so soon. What are you treating me as? You said you broke up, but I haven't agreed yet! What are you!"
The man saw this and quickly tried to pull Tan Ru behind him, but I held her hand tightly and couldn't move.
We couldn't stand stalemate, and Tan Ru started crying. Seeing Tan Ru crying so hard that Pear Flower was still leaning against the man, I was so angry that I was so angry.
finally couldn't help it and punched the man. He was tall and big, so he naturally refused to suffer any losses. We both wrestled together.
Someone should have called the police later, and we were separated until the police arrived.
A few of us were taken away.
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Because I took the move first, that man should have something to do. He wouldn't accept mediation if he bites him to death. In this way, I was detained in the police station.
The police station called my unit. Later, the director of our department found a lawyer friend to help me deal with it.
came out of the police station, Tan Ru stopped me and said to me, "I have never used you as a spare tire. When I was with you, I was serious. I was really happy. But you were very busy at that time, and he happened to come back to find me, and I found that I still couldn't forget him. In comparison, I loved him more. That's why I proposed breaking up with you. It's all my fault. Sorry."
I really didn't know what to say when I heard her words. Indeed, I can't compare to that person. If I make such a fuss, Tan Ru and I will never be together.
After this incident, I calmed down. I said nothing and left alone.
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The leader gave me a few days off. After a few days at home, I returned to work with a wounded face.
The first thing you do when you go to work is to thank the director. The director said nothing, and comforted me with kind words. Finally, I said that the lawyer who helped me have a meal on the day of the offer and asked me to go with me. I said yes and told the director that I must treat this meal. After all, it was a helping me. The director didn't shy away anything.
Get off work in the evening, and the director took me to the hotel that had been booked in advance. The director’s friend is a partner in a law firm, a middle-aged man about the same age as the director. The person who helped me that day was a lawyer in their law firm, a lady who was about the same age as me. Both of them came during the meal.
When eating, most of the director was chatting with his friends. I sat next to me. In order to avoid embarrassment, I had to smile with me, and then toast the girl with two glasses of wine and express my gratitude to her repeatedly.
Before leaving, the girl took the initiative to exchange contact information with me. She said she was worried that the other party would still be reluctant to give in and told me to contact her if there was anything in the future.
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When my injury was completely healed, Tan Ru finally got the certificate with the man.
I saw Tan Ru’s circle of friends on my senior sister’s phone. It's such a perfect couple, and lovers finally get married. Well, I'm just a passerby after all.
However, this emotional injury still made me come out after several months. Summer goes and winter comes.
On one afternoon in the winter, I saw in my circle of friends that the lawyer posted a circle of friends last time, saying that someone had temporarily released a pigeon and had an extra ticket to a musical drama, and asked if anyone wanted to accompany her.
I actually know nothing about song and dance drama , but when I saw her pitiful photo, I sent her a WeChat message and asked her if she had found someone to accompany her. If not, I would be willing to accompany her.
She quickly replied to WeChat and made an appointment with me to see you at the theater door after get off work.
That theater is very close to my unit, and I thought I would arrive first. Unexpectedly, when I arrived, she had arrived.It was still early, so we found a restaurant nearby to have something to eat.
While eating and chatting, I found that she is a person with a wide range of knowledge. And he has particularly unique insights into many things. I had a great conversation with her. After asking, I found out that she studied for a bachelor's degree in a prestigious university in China, and later went to Australia to study for her Ph.D. Then he returned to work.
Meeting today, there were only two of us, so we naturally relaxed a lot. I looked at her carefully and found that she was actually quite beautiful. At first glance, it doesn't look amazing, but it's very pleasing and has a very good temperament.
Before, I only knew that her surname was Liu, and I always called her lawyer Liu. This private meeting was obviously not a good name, so she told me her name, Liu Shanshan.
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That day was the first time I watched this kind of musical drama. At first I couldn't understand. She should have seen my discomfort. Then he would start to whisper a few words to me in my ear from time to time and tell me the plot. I would occasionally comment to me about where the performance was not very good and flawed, etc.
With her explanation, after a performance, I actually felt that I was still unsatisfied. After
ended, I sent her home. We kept talking along the way. Finally, we made an appointment to go to watch a drama together in a few days.
After that day, we both sent messages and chatted almost every day. But it won't be long. Basically, we only talk a few times in the evening.
We will recommend some books we like to each other. We will also discuss some current affairs news together.
chatting with her is really a very physical and mental pleasure.
is probably because of the profession. She can always easily find out the details I didn't notice, every word is gem. I really feel like listening to your words is better than reading for ten years.
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Later, we watched another drama together. In the half month after
, we have always maintained this connection. The more I talked to her, the more I felt that this woman was full of charm.
Although she is three years older than me, there are many things about her that fascinate me. Every cell of her attracted me.
On a weekend night, I asked her to come out for dinner together, and then plucked up the courage to confess to her. She agreed to me on the spot.
Fate is so wonderful.
She only told me later. When she first saw me, she thought I was very brave. The man I fought with was more than 10 centimeters taller than me and looked quite strong. But I actually had the courage to hit him first, and I even made him beat him with a bruised nose and a swollen face. Although I was also full of colorful faces and my glasses were broken, she thought I was pretty cool.
The circle of friends who was looking for someone to watch musicals was specially sent to me. The kind that is visible to me only. She deliberately tried to test me. Unexpectedly, I just took the bait.
To be honest, I really didn't expect that one day, there would be a woman who would try so much for me.
When I knew all this, my heart was filled with indescribable sweetness.
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When we are with her, the place we go to most dates is the bookstore.
We often stay all day long, leaning against each other, each of us takes a book to read, staying all day long, but we don’t feel bored at all.
She never disliked me taking her to dinner with a free meal coupon, and would seriously evaluate which dish is delicious and which dish is a bit bad.
Her family is in good condition. When she returned to work, her parents bought her a house and a car. But she rented out the big house and rented a small apartment near her unit. The car also parks in the underground garage most of the time. Then walk to and from get off work.
She has a good income, but she likes to cook for herself. I won’t buy expensive jewelry, but I will insist on buying good shoes. I have been using the phone for three years and I feel it’s good to use it, so there is no need to replace it with a new one. But no matter how expensive a book is, it is not ruthless to buy.
She is extremely smart, and often she can tell what I want to do with just one look.
I feel comfortable and at ease with her.
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After Shanshan and I were in love for 4 months, I proposed to her.
There was no carefully planned marriage proposal ceremony this time.
That day I went to her house to get a book. After we finished our meal, she was cutting fruit in the kitchen. Seeing her busy figure, I suddenly felt a warm source flowing in my limbs and bones. I thought it would be great if I could do this for a lifetime.
I hugged her from behind and said to her, "Let's get married. Is it good to marry me?"
She said to me gently, "Okay."
We started discussing the marriage, and the wedding was held six months later.
At the wedding, I said to everyone: "This is the wife who was hit by one punch. From now on, I will take care of her for the rest of my life."
Now, we have two children. The eldest daughter is 4 years old and the younger son is 1 year old this year.
The nickname we gave them both is Meimei, full.
With them, my life is completely happy.
