1
Lao Chen left and stayed in in intensive care unit for seven days.
Operating room
During this period, the doctor solicited opinions from his family. Should he continue to rescue? What the doctor said is equivalent to implying that the patient has no chance of survival.
The son and daughter-in-law are not the turn of the son and daughter-in-law; Gu Qin (pseudonym) can understand from their eyes, and they are also persuading her that rescue is meaningless, and there is no need for people to suffer again...
Gu Qin (pseudonym) never refuses to say "give up".
The old man
She thought that Lao Chen was not mentally prepared to leave in such a hurry. He is afraid of death, fear, and fear is right. There seems to be no one who is not afraid of death, but the degree is different. Lao Chen didn't want to leave, but he had no choice but to beg for comfort. He was extremely attached to her and asked for comfort. After he knew his condition, she could not leave him. As soon as he left, Lao Chen wanted to look for him. Can she let him die so soon?
Their family is not rich, but they are not poor either. She and Lao Chen have never let go of the courage to eat or play, they are afraid that one day they will fall into an embarrassing situation of being sick but not having money to treat. Old Chen is leaving, but he still has money to stay in the world, so let him let go of his courage to spend it. Although he is between life and death, he should still be conscious and knows that he is rescued, which is also a comfort to him. It is worth it to buy comfort with money, and he will leave with peace of mind.
2
Traditional customs After people die, their clothes must be burned during their lifetime. No one burns it now. First, it pollutes the environment, and second, it has too many clothes, and different families have different ways of dealing with it.
The son and daughter-in-law helped Gu Qin to clean the body. They were ready to deal with their dad's clothes.
homeh
Gu Qin was a little reluctant. Before she could go far, she was about to wipe away the traces in this world. She was too "empty", but thinking about it, she was really pedantic and couldn't wear it. When she passed away in the future, this family would no longer exist. Don't talk about the clothes she had before her death. Everything at home would be handled cleanly.
Gu Qin kept Lao Chen's two sets of clothes, all of which he liked, a white sportswear and a casual suit.
Gu Qin eats a good bowl of rice. Usually, she spreads her hands off the table. Cleaning up the table and washing dishes is Lao Chen's duty. Now she has to do it herself. Wipe the table clean, wash and place the rags, dishes and chopsticks. The Chen family has no habit, and the cups and plates on the table are messy.
Old Chen left, the moon seemed to be brighter, the moonlight could illuminate the master bedroom, Gu Qin opened the closet, and Old Chen's ironed two-piece clothes were particularly conspicuous. As if Old Chen was resurrected, he walked out of it and told her about family matters.
"The crab is fat now. You can go to Loumen Vegetable Market as soon as possible to buy two. It is about four taels. It is not delicious if it is too big...
Gu Qin smiled, "Do you want to eat one? Have some old wine?" "
Lao Chen didn't say anything, laughed and laughed.
Gu Qin knew that Lao Chen didn't speak because she was afraid of scaring her. What was she afraid of? She was not afraid at all. On the contrary, she hoped that he could come to sit with her every day.
Couples
their son is very good, and their daughter-in-law is also good; however, the emotions between the second generation cannot replace the feelings between the couple, and there are many things that cannot and should not be communicated with them.
Lao Chen comes to accompany her every day? Gu Qin gently hit the corner of her mouth on her left, and felt the cheek on her right heat, and she was crying.
3
son and daughter-in-law are going to go to the cemetery around Mudu to prepare to give Lao Chen I bought a cemetery. I have to take Gu Qin with me.
Gu Qin doesn't go. She thought that she was very tired and died. She was buried everywhere.
Choose a grave and visit a grave is the son's business. Children visit graves every year, not just to mourn the dead, but also to maintain blood and family order, and follow the ethics of the world. That is to say, it is a play that a living person plays for living people.
However, Gu Qin cares about two things. 1. Try to be ordinary as much as possible. Live is an ordinary person, and it is a joke to increase his treatment after death; 2. Old Chen tried to buy at the foot of the mountain when he is afraid of heights.
The son and the others came back and sent the photo of the cemetery to Gu Qin's mobile phone. Gu Qin only said one word, "Okay". Asked about the price of the cemetery, he was preparing to transfer the money to his son.
The son spoke a little and asked, "Single acupoint or double acupoint."
Gu Qin was stunned for a while, remembering that last week his son and daughter-in-law came to have dinner. After the meal, the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law sat on the balcony and whispered in the sun. The wife said, "Mom, you are still young. My friend's father was originally the chief engineer of in the unit. He just retired this year. Do you want to get in touch?" Gu Qin smiled and didn't answer.
cemetery
Gu Qin cleared her throat, "You need a double pussy. As you think, I am still young, and it is reasonable to find another partner, but if you find another partner, you are a partner, your father and I are the original couple, and I will still be with Lao Chen after I die. Besides, Lao Chen has some problems with his style, I am not at ease...
Gu Qin thought the atmosphere was too solemn, and she wanted to be more relaxed, and tried to be more humorous. Unexpectedly, she said to her son cry, "Mom, we know you are reluctant to let your father go like this, but you have to face reality, and you cannot be resurrected...
Gu Qin did not cry at Lao Chen's memorial service, but her son said it with tears.
