My husband and I are both authentic rural people. I also married my husband through the introduction of a matchmaker. My husband is Dazhu, and he is the eldest in the family.
Dazhu people are very honest and down-to-earth. This is why I like Dazhu. Dazhu's family is not in good condition. When I married Dazhu, we did not separate our families and lived under the same roof with our parents-in-law and several brothers and sisters of Dazhu. After
I got pregnant. After giving birth, my father-in-law and mother-in-law separated me and Dazhu. Because the conditions were not good, Dazhu and I only divided some land and a house.
At that time, the family could be described as "limiting four walls" in the house. There was no decent bed or a decent cabinet, but even so, Dazhu and I were still very happy.
After all, we can create happiness through our hands. Later, we built a tiled house worth more than 100 square meters. Although we spent all our savings, we finally had a real home.
On the day of moving, we also held a banquet and invited relatives and friends to visit our home. It was very lively. Although the house was not well built, it was also for the sake of auspiciousness, so we invited all relatives and friends.
That day, my cousin came to my house. This cousin is the child of Aunt Dazhu's family. His family lives in the next village. My cousin has a very sweet mouth and is eloquent.
In the 1980s and 1990s, I went to work on the city construction site. Without many years, I led a group of construction teams and became a veritable contractor.
I don’t know how my cousin is doing now. Anyway, when I came to my house for a drink, I was wearing a suit and tie, which was because my cousin was very glorious when he came to my house. At that time, people in the village thought my cousin was very rich.
My cousin’s wife is from the town, named Feng'er. My cousin’s wife is a powerful person. In the past, no one in the village dared to provoke her. Anyway, she has a bad temper and is unreasonable.
Once, because my cousin's wife quarreled with Dazhu's aunt, the aunt came to ask her father-in-law for complaining, saying that her daughter-in-law was unreasonable and very unfilial, and said many ugly words to her cousin's wife.
My father-in-law is also a straightforward person. He thinks that this daughter-in-law is not good, and he still has an old man in his eyes, and whether he knows filial piety. So once, my father-in-law went to my aunt's house.
When I met my cousin's wife, my father-in-law said to me, "Feng'er, this young man! You must know how to respect the elderly. This person is talking about filial piety."
When my cousin heard this, he was unhappy and said, "What do you mean? At best, you are my husband's uncle. At most, you are a distant relative. What right do you have to say to me?"
When my father-in-law heard this, it was too unreasonable. He originally planned to educate his cousin's wife, but he was immediately speechless by his cousin's wife.
This allowed my father-in-law to see what it means to have someone outside of people, there is a heaven outside of heaven. This relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is probably really not allowed. The person who tied the bell must be solved by the person who tied the bell. This contradiction must be solved by Aunt Dazhu himself.
So my father-in-law had to leave in shame. He never stepped onto my cousin's house again. He originally thought that he would not have any interaction with his cousin's wife.
But once, my cousin was short of staff on the construction site, so he told Dazhu that he would ask Dazhu to come up and help, and his salary would not be less. He asked me for my opinion at the time.
Because my husband Dazhu listens to me very much on weekdays, after all, he loves me very much. When I heard that since he is a relative, he should not treat our Dazhu badly, so he said to Dazhu: "If you want to go, just go, don't worry about my attitude!"
Dazhu heard, so he agreed to his cousin and went to his cousin's construction site. Dazhu was also a real person. When he arrived at the construction site, he worked diligently and worked hard.
Sometimes I often work overtime, and I didn’t ask my cousin to calculate overtime pay. I completely regarded my cousin’s life as my own family’s life. However, at the end of the year, my cousin paid the salary, and everyone received the salary, but only Dazhu didn’t get a penny.
My cousin also smiled and said to Dazhu, "Dazhu, don't be angry, we are related, and you are indispensable. Next year, I will give you the principal and interest."
Later, Dazhu called me to tell me about this. I also thought it was a relative. Maybe he really couldn't turn over his capital, so I said to Dazhu: "Dazhu, just wait a little longer! Maybe your cousin really has his difficulties. "
The second year, after half a year, Dazhu still didn't get a penny. There was no way, so I had to urge Dazhu to ask for money from my cousin, and said that the family couldn't make it.
Under Dazhu's urging, my cousin gave Dazhu a few months of salary, but still didn't pay the seven or eight months of salary.
Thinking that he was really in trouble, I didn't ask Dazhu to urge my cousin anymore, but by the end of the year, my cousin still had no intention of giving money.
Thinking that he was really in trouble, I didn't ask Dazhu to urge my cousin anymore, but by the end of the year, my cousin still had no intention of giving money.
Because our Dazhu is honest, I didn't ask. I was worried that Dazhu would not speak, so I went to my cousin's house in person because my cousin was at home and did not go to the construction site with my cousin.
When I first went there, my cousin's wife was playing mahjong at someone. I waited for a long time before I met her. One day she didn't know if she lost money or what happened. She was in a very bad mood and didn't say hello when she met me.
I still took the initiative to talk about Dazhu's wages, but I didn't expect that my cousin said impatiently: "I know I want money every day. Are you like you? He is as honest as your Dazhu, and he is not my husband. He may have the life of farming. "
I first held back my breath and said with a smile: "My cousin, you are right, but after all, we go out to work for money! The family really has no money! "
When my cousin heard this, my cousin changed her face and said, "I don't have money, I want money to find your cousin. "
That's it. I was rejected for the first time. When I got home, my father-in-law saw me with a frustration. I told my father-in-law about this. When my father-in-law heard this, he was very angry.
went to my cousin's house. When my cousin saw my father-in-law, he was so angry that he was about to turn my father-in-law outside the door, but my father-in-law took the lead.
As soon as my father-in-law came, he asked Dazhu about his salary. Unexpectedly, his cousin's wife still looked unhappy and said she had no money. Later, her father-in-law wanted to call her cousin himself. She also cooperated very well and called her cousin directly.
After hearing this, my cousin was very angry and said to her father-in-law, "Dad, I thought my relatives would be different from others. They all thought that it was their family members who owed your wages. If the funds were not incapable of turning over, I really didn't want to ow you. "
After saying that, he reminded his cousin's wife on the phone, asking her to tell her father-in-law that the money would be given to Dazhu, but the relationship between relatives was broken.
cousin's wife expressed her cousin's meaning without missing a word, and added a sentence, saying, "Your family is really not easy. I say you are not in a good heart. "
My father-in-law was also very angry when he heard this, and he was always depressed when he returned home.
My cousin gave Dazhu the money, but he didn't let Dazhu go to the construction site later. From then on, the relationship between our two families became stalemate.
Maybe we shouldn't work for relatives, maybe we should find things to do by ourselves. At first, I thought it was relatives, But he only helped him. Unexpectedly, because of money, relatives became enemies. The novel
ended here.
novel tells us that no matter what, when working with relatives, we should first be villains and then gentlemen, and say what should be said and do what should be done, so as not to lose family affection and cause some unhappiness.
finally encourages everyone in a paragraph.
. 0 People do good, but even though blessings have not arrived, misfortune has been away; people do evil, but even if disasters have not arrived, blessings have been away.
As long as you are dedicated to goodness, there will always be blessings. As the saying goes, sow such causes and harvest such results.
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