She ranks third among the brothers and sisters at home, with two sisters above and one younger brother and one younger sister below. As the saying goes: If you are accustomed to the head, you will be a delicate person in the end. Never give birth to the middle waist.
She happens to be the middle waist.
She was born in the early 1970s. At that time, in rural areas, there was no family contract responsibility system , and they all adopted the form of a production team. In the morning, the bells of the production team yard ring, and the adults should go to work; at noon, the bells will ring again, which is a signal of finishing work. In the afternoon and evening, the bells still remind people to finishing work. Day after day, year after year, the days continue in the sound of the bells four times a day.
heard from the elderly that when she was just born, because her family lacked labor, her mother wanted to work in the production team, so she put her on the kang. In order to prevent the child from falling out of bed, the mother put the baby around with a pillow. This was her original "crib". The production team worked and rested every half day. The mother used her rest time to rush home to feed her children. After feeding, she was in a hurry to go to work. The child seemed very sensible and cooperated with her mother. She only ate but also slept, and never cried or made a fuss. The elderly once thought that the child was a little stupid.
Time flies, time passes, and in a flash, the child grows to seven years old, and reaches the age of school. Because there are many children at home, the parents want her to postpone her schooling for one or two years, but the child is very stubborn and goes to school with his friends without his parents' consent.
At that time, the primary schools were complete primary schools, with a five-year system (later changed to a six-year system). Children in each village went to school in the village, with one to five grades, one grade and one teaching class, and each class had twenty or thirty students. At that time, there were twenty-six students in their class, and the seats in the middle of the fourth row were now called C position. This child is very outstanding. He scored perfectly in the first grade final exam and ranked first, and the teachers all liked her very much.
However, with the birth of her younger brother, her fate took another turn and her studies were temporarily interrupted.
It was one day in August 1979. As soon as I entered the house after school at noon, my sister happily greeted her. "Sister, mom gave birth to a little brother." The arrival of my younger brother adds special excitement and joy to the family. Her grandparents, uncles and aunts are all celebrating my younger brother’s arrival!
Time is in everyone's joy, the full moon of your younger brother. Rural women have to go to the fields to work after giving birth to children after they are full month old. So a new question arises, that is, after the mother goes to work, who will come to see the child? At that time, two of her two sisters were in the fourth grade and the other was in the third grade. If she dropped out of school and went home, she would delay her studies. The final result of the parents' discussion was that she, who had just finished the first grade, would stop school first and go home to see her children. She was very reluctant at that time, but she had no choice. After all, her father had to go to work and her mother had to go to work, otherwise there would be no food at home. Helplessly, she had to follow her parents' arrangements and go home to see the children. (Written on: November 1, 2022)
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