Today I want to tell a sad story.
Last night, it should have been three o'clock this morning. My husband received the call, his aunt or my father-in-law and sister. He has been busy all day and has not returned home after 10 o'clock in the evening. The story starts more than ten years ago.
The eldest aunt is 82 years old this year, with three daughters and one young son. There is a saying that "the emperor loves his eldest son, and the people love his youngest son." The youngest son who was born in his 40s was particularly doting. This cousin got married at about the same time as ours. His cousin’s wife worked as a nurse in our county People’s Hospital. We had a baby the same time. My son was only a few months younger than his daughter. We called her “Jia Jia” the little girl.
More than ten years ago, my cousin was in a car accident on a motorcycle. He was also a vegetative person after he was rescued, but he still left two or three years later. Jia Jia was only a few years old at that time, and most of the time she spent her grandparents raising her granddaughter. Sometimes she also went to her mother's house. Her mother remarried. Jia Jia was also a very pitiful girl.
Perhaps it is because of the lack of fatherly love, the spoiled grandparents, and the mother's discipline. The girl grew up and took a completely different path from my child. She had long since been studying. I had no contact with her, but the adults said that she was disobedient in all kinds of things. Some time ago, I saw her just a bamboo pole, 160-year-old, and she suffered from diabetes at the age of 20.
Her mother said that she spent more than 300,000 yuan on her two years of studying. I don’t know if it was to get rid of her or other reasons, but she applied to go to Yi to help her aid a few years ago. She went to a hospital in Daliangshan in remote , and almost never came back. She is now the deputy director of the hospital there.
The eldest sister's three daughters, the eldest sister is in Dujiangyan , the second sister is in Longquan , and the third sister is in Chongqing. They are all very promising. The eldest sister lives with her eldest daughter for a long time. The three aunts can't control themselves now and don't want to care about their niece anymore. My uncle died in Dujiangyan last year and came back for burial. Maybe my aunt also wants to return to her roots. This year, she will decorate the empty house of Weiyuan that has been in for nearly ten years to live in. My cousins are all in other places, so this task falls on my husband and I will take care of my aunt's family affairs.
Grandma took her granddaughter into the new house. If you want to say it, just live a peaceful and harmonious life. But my aunt called my husband every few days, and my grandmother often had conflicts and even called the police twice. Jiajia didn't go home the whole night before yesterday. The day before yesterday was my uncle's anniversary, and no one could contact the child. My aunt was very disappointed with this granddaughter.
I received a call this morning and thought it was a conflict between my grandparents again, but I didn’t expect that Jia Jia had a physical problem and needed to be rescued. How can the 80-year-old man handle it? I quickly went to my aunt's house, called 120 and waited for an ambulance to be sent to ICU.
For such a big thing, I must contact her mother. Unexpectedly, her mother's opinion is to give up treatment and eliminate harm for the people (my mother actually used this word) to reduce everyone's pain. She has long since stopped living for this daughter. My aunt meant that she would not be rescued.
is so sad! Faced with a living life, how can you give up just by saying that you give up? Jiajia didn't buy anything from social security, medical insurance, and commercial insurance. Rescue payment, hospitalization procedures after work, my husband is running. During the rescue process, she woke up once and was in a coma again. She entered the ICU again tonight. The doctor was her mother's former colleague and couldn't stand it anymore.
What education has caused today's situation. Just 20 years old should be the age of a girl, but she is seriously ill. Today, even the mother and grandmother who should love her the most said to give up treatment. I feel heartbroken about this, the failure of family education .
Some people say that some children are here to repay their kindness, while some children are here to collect debts. I think the root cause of repaying favors or collecting debts is family education.
