Zhao Hongyu (pseudonym) took a day off to take care of his mother in the hospital. Last night, his mother had gastroenteritis and again, and she vomited and had diarrhea. In the end, the person was so weak that he was sent to the hospital for emergency treatment. The doctor said that the patient still needed to stay in the hospital for two or three days before he was discharged!
Zhao Hongyu knew that his wife had a bad relationship with her mother-in-law, but now her mother was sick and stayed in the hospital. He felt it was necessary to tell her that it would be best to let her wife buy some delicious food and send it to the hospital for her to the hospital!
"Wife, I didn't go to work today. I took care of my mother in the hospital for a whole day. My mother had gastroenteritis again. The doctor said she would stay in the hospital for a few days. I want you to go to the hospital with me to see my mother. No matter what, my mother is also your mother-in-law."
"Husband, I don't need to go to the hospital again. Your mother has you taken care of. I feel relieved. If you are too busy, isn't your elder brother still there? By the way, let me tell you that I will take the child back to my parents' home for a few days later. Just take care of yourself."
"Wife, what's wrong with you? My mother is hospitalized, it's fine if you don't say you'll go see her, how could she take the child back to her parents' home at this time? If my mother knew that her daughter-in-law did this, she would feel so uncomfortable"?
"You can't blame me for this. I learned it from your mother. I remember when I gave birth to a baby in the hospital, but later I went home for confinement. Where did my mother-in-law go? When I needed help, she went to hide and relax. Now I think about it, I am a daughter-in-law, which is too late."
"Oh, wife, I know my mother did the wrong thing for you to give birth to a child, but she was my mother after all, so don't be petty with her. My sister-in-law doesn't want to go to the hospital to see my mother, and you don't want to go to the hospital to see my mother. Think about how pitiful my mother is lying alone on the hospital bed, there is not even a person around her who serves her tea and water."
"Husband, you want to take care of your mother, but I didn't stop you, but your mother didn't give birth to me, and she didn't even help me at all. It's a bit too much for you to ask me to be nice to her now, right? Besides, you also know that your mother has two daughters-in-law, but why none of the two daughters-in-law is willing to pay attention to your mother now? Haven't you ever thought about the reason?"
"Oh, forget it, wife, since you don't want to go to the hospital to see my mother, I'm not forced to do anything. I really have no reason to blame you. I will take turns taking care of my mother in the hospital in the past few days."
It turns out that after Chen Lihong and Zhao Hongyu got married, she found that her mother-in-law was not much the same as other people's mother-in-law. She was always unwilling to get close to her two daughters-in-law. She would rather play mahjong or live at her daughter's house for a while than to help her son's house!
Zhao Hongyu's elder brother and sister-in-law gave birth to two children in a row after getting married. The elder sister-in-law originally planned to ask her mother-in-law to help with one child, and she could be more relaxed, but the mother-in-law said, I finally raised my three children to adulthood, and now you still want me to help after giving birth. You are planning to exhaust me, the old woman, right? Since you have the ability to live, you must have the ability to take care of me. I have two sons, and I will not help anyone with the care of my family. I will save you the time when you say that I am not good at treating the water!
When the sister-in-law heard her mother-in-law say this, she turned around and left. Since then, she has never asked her mother-in-law for anything, nor has she called her mother-in-law "Mom". Judging from her attitude, she plans to never interact with her mother-in-law!
Chen Lihong got pregnant quickly after she got married to her husband two years ago. During the entire pregnancy, she had never eaten a meal made by her mother-in-law or a fruit bought by her mother-in-law. But it doesn’t matter. She told her mother-in-law, Mom, I don’t want you to take care of me during pregnancy. When I have a baby, you can take care of me during confinement!
mother-in-law has completely offended the eldest daughter-in-law. She thought about it and could not offend the young daughter-in-law anymore. So she smiled and agreed, "Okay, okay, Lihong, don't worry, when you have a child, I will definitely take care of you. I will still expect you to be filial to me in the future. You can't learn from your sister-in-law."
When Chen Lihong went to the hospital to give birth, she and her husband also notified her mother-in-law in advance. She did go to the hospital without saying a word, but after she arrived at the hospital, her mother-in-law's performance was a bit incomprehensible.
s0She saw that her daughter-in-law had completed the hospitalization procedures and was admitted to the ward. Her mother-in-law sat down on the bed next to her and lay down when she was tired of sitting. In the next time, whether the doctor came to do a checkup for her daughter-in-law or her stomach aches, she cried and called her parents, it could not affect her mother-in-law's mood. It seemed that her mother-in-law was not coming to the hospital to help, but to inspect the work!
Since Chen Lihong gave birth to her first child, she was almost in pain while waiting to open her fingers. She called her mother while crying. The mother learned that her daughter had been hospitalized and was about to give birth. She left everything in the family and rushed to the hospital. Seeing that her daughter was tortured, the mother hurried forward and held her daughter's hand and kept cheering her daughter. Seeing that her mother was coming, Chen Lihong felt more at ease and her emotions began to stabilize slowly!
At this time, the mother-in-law saw the daughter-in-law and mother whispering on the hospital bed. She quietly walked over and pulled her son aside.
"Son, look, your mother-in-law is here. Your wife is with her mother. I really can't help here. Why don't I go back first. If you need any help from me, call me again"!
"Mom, it's not good for you to do this. My mother-in-law just came and you are going back here. You are not afraid that the mother and daughter will think too much. My wife hasn't given birth yet. If you want to go back, at least you have to meet your grandson after you meet, then you can go back."
"Son, look at me, I have been guarding your wife in the hospital for a long time, and she doesn't want to tell me a word. When her mother comes, you see that she has endless whispers to her mother. I've watched from the side. Can I feel comfortable? Since I can't help, I can't care for her, so why am I still here? You can take good care of your wife, and I'll go back first"!
That's it. Chen Lihong's mother-in-law left the hospital without looking back, leaving her daughter-in-law in the hospital. In fact, the eldest daughter-in-law had already given birth to a grandson and a granddaughter for her. As for whether the youngest daughter-in-law gave birth to a boy or a girl, she didn't care at all!
That night, Chen Lihong gave birth to a daughter in the hospital. Three days later, she and the child were discharged safely!
It is said that the daughter-in-law goes home for confinement after giving birth, so should the mother-in-law appear at this time, right? But in fact, Chen Lihong and her daughter have been discharged from the hospital for three days, and her mother-in-law has never shown up!
"Mom, what are you doing at home every day? Can't you play with mahjong for a while? My wife and children have been discharged from the hospital for several days, and my mother-in-law is taking care of you. You, a mother-in-law, will at least make two meals for your daughter-in-law and help. How can you rely on my mother-in-law alone in everything?"
"Son, you said yourself, your wife is taken care of by your mother-in-law, so why should I join in the fun? Having a mother taking care of her daughter is more thoughtful than me, my mother-in-law, to take care of her, right? Your wife usually has nothing to say to me, and when I go, I can only stare at her big eyes. Besides, isn't that enough with you taking care of her and your mother-in-law taking care of her? She has a baby and wants several people to serve her? I won't go"!
"Mom, why are you so stubborn? When my sister-in-law gave birth to a child, you hid far away. Now my wife gave birth to a child, you hid far away. Don't forget that my mother-in-law still has several vegetable greenhouses at home. Now is the harvest season. You can help take care of my wife for a few days, replace my mother-in-law and let her go home to work."
"Oh, son, you are very distressed and you are very filial to your mother-in-law. I raised you and your elder brother so old, and I have never seen anyone who feels sorry for me so much? When I was looking for someone to help you take care of your children, you were the first to think of me. I think you just want to exhaust me to death. If I had known that having a son would drag down my parents to death, I might as well have given up a daughter at the beginning."
"Okay, okay, mom, I won't force you anymore. If you don't want to take care of my wife during confinement, don't take care of you. Everything is OK. If your two daughters-in-law ignore you in the future, don't say that they are unfilial at that time"!
"Okay, I have two sons and a daughter. Who do I expect? I can't count on my daughter-in-law to be filial to me.Besides, they were not born to me, nor were they raised by me. Why should they be filial to me? It will be enough for you and your elder brother to be filial to me”!
Because there is no mother-in-law’s help, Chen Lihong’s mother stayed at the house of her daughter and son-in-law, took care of her daughter after her confinement. She waited until her granddaughter held the full moon banquet , and she returned to her home. In the following days, her husband was responsible for making money to support the family, and Chen Lihong was alone at home to take care of her children!
Now Chen Lihong’s daughter is almost one year old, and she has survived the most difficult days. As for whether her mother-in-law can help her, it doesn’t matter at all!
But now Chen Lihong has become exactly the same as her sister-in-law. When she sees her mother-in-law, she can no longer call her mother. Originally, there was no relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. If each other didn't want to give their sincerity and practical actions, the final result would only be no different from strangers!
Now my mother-in-law suddenly got sick and was hospitalized, and my husband asked my wife to visit her mother-in-law in the hospital. Of course, Chen Lihong was unwilling to do so. When I was the most difficult time, when I needed help from the most, where are you, mother-in-law?
Sometimes the relationship between people is so subtle. If you do something heartwarming, others may be grateful to you for the rest of your life, but if you do something sad, others may be hating you for the rest of your life. The heart of others is actually that simple!
"Husband, since you have said that these days, you and your elder brother take turns to take care of your mother in the hospital, then I will take the child back to my parents' home to help My mother and the others work for a few days, and I can't help with your family anyway." !
After saying that, Chen Lihong left her husband alone. She simply cleaned up and took the child back to her parents' home. She had already made plans. Even if her mother-in-law recovered and was discharged from the hospital, she would not go back from her home for a while. Her mother-in-law could hide from her at the beginning, but now she could hide from her mother-in-law. This is what you call the first day of the lunar month, and I will do the fifteenth day of the lunar month. !
Topic in this issue: When the daughter-in-law gave birth to a child, the mother-in-law was unwilling to take care of her. Now the mother-in-law is sick, and the daughter-in-law is unwilling to visit her. Do you support Chen Lihong in doing this?
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text/Mengzi Life Notes
Zhao Hongyu (pseudonym) took a day off to take care of his mother in the hospital. Last night, his mother had gastroenteritis and again, and she vomited and had diarrhea. In the end, the person was so weak that he was sent to the hospital for emergency treatment. The doctor said that the patient still needed to stay in the hospital for two or three days before he was discharged!
Zhao Hongyu knew that his wife had a bad relationship with her mother-in-law, but now her mother was sick and stayed in the hospital. He felt it was necessary to tell her that it would be best to let her wife buy some delicious food and send it to the hospital for her to the hospital!
"Wife, I didn't go to work today. I took care of my mother in the hospital for a whole day. My mother had gastroenteritis again. The doctor said she would stay in the hospital for a few days. I want you to go to the hospital with me to see my mother. No matter what, my mother is also your mother-in-law."
"Husband, I don't need to go to the hospital again. Your mother has you taken care of. I feel relieved. If you are too busy, isn't your elder brother still there? By the way, let me tell you that I will take the child back to my parents' home for a few days later. Just take care of yourself."
"Wife, what's wrong with you? My mother is hospitalized, it's fine if you don't say you'll go see her, how could she take the child back to her parents' home at this time? If my mother knew that her daughter-in-law did this, she would feel so uncomfortable"?
"You can't blame me for this. I learned it from your mother. I remember when I gave birth to a baby in the hospital, but later I went home for confinement. Where did my mother-in-law go? When I needed help, she went to hide and relax. Now I think about it, I am a daughter-in-law, which is too late."
"Oh, wife, I know my mother did the wrong thing for you to give birth to a child, but she was my mother after all, so don't be petty with her. My sister-in-law doesn't want to go to the hospital to see my mother, and you don't want to go to the hospital to see my mother. Think about how pitiful my mother is lying alone on the hospital bed, there is not even a person around her who serves her tea and water."
"Husband, you want to take care of your mother, but I didn't stop you, but your mother didn't give birth to me, and she didn't even help me at all. It's a bit too much for you to ask me to be nice to her now, right? Besides, you also know that your mother has two daughters-in-law, but why none of the two daughters-in-law is willing to pay attention to your mother now? Haven't you ever thought about the reason?"
"Oh, forget it, wife, since you don't want to go to the hospital to see my mother, I'm not forced to do anything. I really have no reason to blame you. I will take turns taking care of my mother in the hospital in the past few days."
It turns out that after Chen Lihong and Zhao Hongyu got married, she found that her mother-in-law was not much the same as other people's mother-in-law. She was always unwilling to get close to her two daughters-in-law. She would rather play mahjong or live at her daughter's house for a while than to help her son's house!
Zhao Hongyu's elder brother and sister-in-law gave birth to two children in a row after getting married. The elder sister-in-law originally planned to ask her mother-in-law to help with one child, and she could be more relaxed, but the mother-in-law said, I finally raised my three children to adulthood, and now you still want me to help after giving birth. You are planning to exhaust me, the old woman, right? Since you have the ability to live, you must have the ability to take care of me. I have two sons, and I will not help anyone with the care of my family. I will save you the time when you say that I am not good at treating the water!
When the sister-in-law heard her mother-in-law say this, she turned around and left. Since then, she has never asked her mother-in-law for anything, nor has she called her mother-in-law "Mom". Judging from her attitude, she plans to never interact with her mother-in-law!
Chen Lihong got pregnant quickly after she got married to her husband two years ago. During the entire pregnancy, she had never eaten a meal made by her mother-in-law or a fruit bought by her mother-in-law. But it doesn’t matter. She told her mother-in-law, Mom, I don’t want you to take care of me during pregnancy. When I have a baby, you can take care of me during confinement!
mother-in-law has completely offended the eldest daughter-in-law. She thought about it and could not offend the young daughter-in-law anymore. So she smiled and agreed, "Okay, okay, Lihong, don't worry, when you have a child, I will definitely take care of you. I will still expect you to be filial to me in the future. You can't learn from your sister-in-law."
When Chen Lihong went to the hospital to give birth, she and her husband also notified her mother-in-law in advance. She did go to the hospital without saying a word, but after she arrived at the hospital, her mother-in-law's performance was a bit incomprehensible.
s0She saw that her daughter-in-law had completed the hospitalization procedures and was admitted to the ward. Her mother-in-law sat down on the bed next to her and lay down when she was tired of sitting. In the next time, whether the doctor came to do a checkup for her daughter-in-law or her stomach aches, she cried and called her parents, it could not affect her mother-in-law's mood. It seemed that her mother-in-law was not coming to the hospital to help, but to inspect the work!
Since Chen Lihong gave birth to her first child, she was almost in pain while waiting to open her fingers. She called her mother while crying. The mother learned that her daughter had been hospitalized and was about to give birth. She left everything in the family and rushed to the hospital. Seeing that her daughter was tortured, the mother hurried forward and held her daughter's hand and kept cheering her daughter. Seeing that her mother was coming, Chen Lihong felt more at ease and her emotions began to stabilize slowly!
At this time, the mother-in-law saw the daughter-in-law and mother whispering on the hospital bed. She quietly walked over and pulled her son aside.
"Son, look, your mother-in-law is here. Your wife is with her mother. I really can't help here. Why don't I go back first. If you need any help from me, call me again"!
"Mom, it's not good for you to do this. My mother-in-law just came and you are going back here. You are not afraid that the mother and daughter will think too much. My wife hasn't given birth yet. If you want to go back, at least you have to meet your grandson after you meet, then you can go back."
"Son, look at me, I have been guarding your wife in the hospital for a long time, and she doesn't want to tell me a word. When her mother comes, you see that she has endless whispers to her mother. I've watched from the side. Can I feel comfortable? Since I can't help, I can't care for her, so why am I still here? You can take good care of your wife, and I'll go back first"!
That's it. Chen Lihong's mother-in-law left the hospital without looking back, leaving her daughter-in-law in the hospital. In fact, the eldest daughter-in-law had already given birth to a grandson and a granddaughter for her. As for whether the youngest daughter-in-law gave birth to a boy or a girl, she didn't care at all!
That night, Chen Lihong gave birth to a daughter in the hospital. Three days later, she and the child were discharged safely!
It is said that the daughter-in-law goes home for confinement after giving birth, so should the mother-in-law appear at this time, right? But in fact, Chen Lihong and her daughter have been discharged from the hospital for three days, and her mother-in-law has never shown up!
"Mom, what are you doing at home every day? Can't you play with mahjong for a while? My wife and children have been discharged from the hospital for several days, and my mother-in-law is taking care of you. You, a mother-in-law, will at least make two meals for your daughter-in-law and help. How can you rely on my mother-in-law alone in everything?"
"Son, you said yourself, your wife is taken care of by your mother-in-law, so why should I join in the fun? Having a mother taking care of her daughter is more thoughtful than me, my mother-in-law, to take care of her, right? Your wife usually has nothing to say to me, and when I go, I can only stare at her big eyes. Besides, isn't that enough with you taking care of her and your mother-in-law taking care of her? She has a baby and wants several people to serve her? I won't go"!
"Mom, why are you so stubborn? When my sister-in-law gave birth to a child, you hid far away. Now my wife gave birth to a child, you hid far away. Don't forget that my mother-in-law still has several vegetable greenhouses at home. Now is the harvest season. You can help take care of my wife for a few days, replace my mother-in-law and let her go home to work."
"Oh, son, you are very distressed and you are very filial to your mother-in-law. I raised you and your elder brother so old, and I have never seen anyone who feels sorry for me so much? When I was looking for someone to help you take care of your children, you were the first to think of me. I think you just want to exhaust me to death. If I had known that having a son would drag down my parents to death, I might as well have given up a daughter at the beginning."
"Okay, okay, mom, I won't force you anymore. If you don't want to take care of my wife during confinement, don't take care of you. Everything is OK. If your two daughters-in-law ignore you in the future, don't say that they are unfilial at that time"!
"Okay, I have two sons and a daughter. Who do I expect? I can't count on my daughter-in-law to be filial to me.Besides, they were not born to me, nor were they raised by me. Why should they be filial to me? It will be enough for you and your elder brother to be filial to me”!
Because there is no mother-in-law’s help, Chen Lihong’s mother stayed at the house of her daughter and son-in-law, took care of her daughter after her confinement. She waited until her granddaughter held the full moon banquet , and she returned to her home. In the following days, her husband was responsible for making money to support the family, and Chen Lihong was alone at home to take care of her children!
Now Chen Lihong’s daughter is almost one year old, and she has survived the most difficult days. As for whether her mother-in-law can help her, it doesn’t matter at all!
But now Chen Lihong has become exactly the same as her sister-in-law. When she sees her mother-in-law, she can no longer call her mother. Originally, there was no relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. If each other didn't want to give their sincerity and practical actions, the final result would only be no different from strangers!
Now my mother-in-law suddenly got sick and was hospitalized, and my husband asked my wife to visit her mother-in-law in the hospital. Of course, Chen Lihong was unwilling to do so. When I was the most difficult time, when I needed help from the most, where are you, mother-in-law?
Sometimes the relationship between people is so subtle. If you do something heartwarming, others may be grateful to you for the rest of your life, but if you do something sad, others may be hating you for the rest of your life. The heart of others is actually that simple!
"Husband, since you have said that these days, you and your elder brother take turns to take care of your mother in the hospital, then I will take the child back to my parents' home to help My mother and the others work for a few days, and I can't help with your family anyway." !
After saying that, Chen Lihong left her husband alone. She simply cleaned up and took the child back to her parents' home. She had already made plans. Even if her mother-in-law recovered and was discharged from the hospital, she would not go back from her home for a while. Her mother-in-law could hide from her at the beginning, but now she could hide from her mother-in-law. This is what you call the first day of the lunar month, and I will do the fifteenth day of the lunar month. !
Topic in this issue: When the daughter-in-law gave birth to a child, the mother-in-law was unwilling to take care of her. Now the mother-in-law is sick, and the daughter-in-law is unwilling to visit her. Do you support Chen Lihong in doing this?
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text/Mengzi Life Notes
Besides, they were not born to me, nor were they raised by me. Why should they be filial to me? It will be enough for you and your elder brother to be filial to me”!
Because there is no mother-in-law’s help, Chen Lihong’s mother stayed at the house of her daughter and son-in-law, took care of her daughter after her confinement. She waited until her granddaughter held the full moon banquet , and she returned to her home. In the following days, her husband was responsible for making money to support the family, and Chen Lihong was alone at home to take care of her children!
Now Chen Lihong’s daughter is almost one year old, and she has survived the most difficult days. As for whether her mother-in-law can help her, it doesn’t matter at all!
But now Chen Lihong has become exactly the same as her sister-in-law. When she sees her mother-in-law, she can no longer call her mother. Originally, there was no relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. If each other didn't want to give their sincerity and practical actions, the final result would only be no different from strangers!
Now my mother-in-law suddenly got sick and was hospitalized, and my husband asked my wife to visit her mother-in-law in the hospital. Of course, Chen Lihong was unwilling to do so. When I was the most difficult time, when I needed help from the most, where are you, mother-in-law?
Sometimes the relationship between people is so subtle. If you do something heartwarming, others may be grateful to you for the rest of your life, but if you do something sad, others may be hating you for the rest of your life. The heart of others is actually that simple!
"Husband, since you have said that these days, you and your elder brother take turns to take care of your mother in the hospital, then I will take the child back to my parents' home to help My mother and the others work for a few days, and I can't help with your family anyway." !
After saying that, Chen Lihong left her husband alone. She simply cleaned up and took the child back to her parents' home. She had already made plans. Even if her mother-in-law recovered and was discharged from the hospital, she would not go back from her home for a while. Her mother-in-law could hide from her at the beginning, but now she could hide from her mother-in-law. This is what you call the first day of the lunar month, and I will do the fifteenth day of the lunar month. !
Topic in this issue: When the daughter-in-law gave birth to a child, the mother-in-law was unwilling to take care of her. Now the mother-in-law is sick, and the daughter-in-law is unwilling to visit her. Do you support Chen Lihong in doing this?
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