My grandparents are both retired cadres, with a salary of 7,000 yuan, my uncle works in a state-owned enterprise, with a salary of 20,000 yuan, and my aunt is from the countryside and has no job, but she is going to divorce my uncle recently.
Grandpa and grandma gave birth to two sons, my father and my uncle. After graduating from college, my father did not return to his hometown in Hunan, and got into a bank in Hangzhou. He met his colleague, my mother. They settled in Hangzhou and bought two houses and later gave birth to me.
When my dad got married, he gave him 500,000 yuan.
My dad said to my grandfather: Dad, you and mom don’t have to worry about my affairs in the future. We are not short of money, so you should worry more about your brother’s affairs.
My dad never asked my grandfather for his money again. His grandparents' retirement salary was high and they saved money. After my uncle graduated from college, he joined a state-owned enterprise. My grandparents hoped that my uncle would find a wife as soon as possible so that they could take care of their grandson.
Something happened later, which made my grandma beat her breasts until now, and she regretted it. Once, my grandma was going to go to her hometown in the countryside to do something, but she didn't go there at the moment and asked my uncle to go there.
As a result, my uncle met my aunt. My aunt is a flower in the village. She is very beautiful. She is in her forties and is still very beautiful.
My aunt has two siblings. My aunt's younger brother is not doing his job properly and is a gangster in the village. My aunt's parents have a bad reputation in the village. They are not honest people and love to lie.
Grandpa and grandma naturally do not allow uncles to marry such families, but the uncle and aunt insist on being together, so grandpa and grandma agreed.
After my aunt married into the city, she never went to work again. My uncle's salary card is handed over to my aunt. After my aunt gave birth to a cousin, my grandparents also gave her salary card to me.
Because my aunt always makes excuses to quarrel with my uncle, she dislikes her uncle for being rich as the bosses whom the young sisters outside her. Grandpa and grandma hope they don’t quarrel.
From 2002 to 2006, my aunt's monthly consumption was around 12,000 yuan, and later my aunt gave birth to a cousin.
Aunt didn't spend all this money on her two children, both of whom were raised by my grandparents.
Later, my uncle's salary increased, and my grandparents' pension also increased. My aunt's monthly consumption was around 15,000 yuan, but she spent it every month.
My uncle's salary is stuck in my aunt's hands, and the provident fund and performance awards are not given to my aunt. The money is used to buy a house.
My uncle usually lives at work and only goes home on weekends. My aunt never does housework from Monday to Friday, and she doesn’t wash her own clothes and her children. She waits for my uncle to come back to wash.
From Monday to Friday, the two uncle's children had never eaten a meal at home because the aunt never cooked and gave the children some money to let them go out to eat.
Aunt was mingling with her little sisters outside, sometimes she didn't go home at night, leaving two children at home, one at eleven years old and the other at 8 years old.
The relatives were very angry and it was too unsafe to leave the two children at home. But my uncle never scolded my aunt.
Aunt often dislikes that the uncle doesn’t make much money. She takes the money from her uncle and grandparents outside to spend it, competes with the younger sisters, and spends all the money paid by her two children for tuition.
Auntie has played outside and has hooked up with a man and wants to divorce her uncle.
Uncle said: As long as you break up with that man, you will not blame the past.
Aunt replied: I don’t want to live with you anymore.
Uncle saw that his aunt was determined and had a firm attitude and agreed. He gave the house to his aunt, and his cousin followed him.
Uncle moved to his grandparents' house, and his cousin followed him. Because my aunt doesn't care much about her two children, their grades are not good. They had to take the art path. The money spent by my two children on learning art was taken by my uncle, and it cost me more than 200,000 yuan.
After following the man for a while, the man was just playing around and soon dumped his aunt.
Aunt came again to remarry her uncle: I was wrong, can you forgive me?
The two children also want their mother to reconcile with their father, but the relatives disagreed.
Uncle was in a dilemma.
Huanhuan wants to say that
1, the original family has a great influence.
A person's early experience will affect or determine a person's life state.
The impact of an individual's events before a minor is far greater than the impact of the events after he becomes an adult.
Aunt’s parents have no sense of family responsibility, no responsibility, dote on their children, and love to lie. Their daily words, actions and actions are seen by their children. Their children have become their copiers, which is simply their template.
2. Appearance is very important.
Aunt is lazy, greedy and workable, because of her outstanding appearance, my uncle indulged her, and indeed her appearance is everything.
3. Don’t be too kind.
Uncle is so easy to talk to, so my aunt doesn't take my uncle seriously, and is spoiled and unruly, and is out of control.
4. It is important to find a good wife.
If the aunt educates her two children well and puts her mind on them, the two children will not be able to go to a technical secondary school or a junior college, and the level of education will improve and the road ahead will be broader.
Do you think your uncle wants to remarry his aunt? Should uncle forgive my aunt?
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