"Xiaoxiao, I have discussed your plan to buy a house with your father and your brother and sister-in-law. We will lend you the down payment you need, but mom has a condition. You and Qin Ming must borrow money from relatives in your husband's family." "Mom, it's not like you don'

"Xiaoxiao, I have discussed your plan to buy a house with your father and your brother and sister-in-law. We will lend you the down payment you need, but mom has a condition. You and Qin Ming must borrow money from relatives in your husband's family. "Mom, it's not like you don't know that the relatives of Qin Ming's family always talk nice. If they really want to borrow money, they probably won't be able to borrow a penny." We know each other because of work. We are in different companies and have business relationships between companies. Maybe it's because we are similar in age and we get along well with each other.

In a strange city, we were all from the same province, so Qin Ming and I became boyfriend and girlfriend.

After two years of dating, Qin Ming and I got married.

After getting married, I didn’t want to keep working and wanted to have my own career, so I encouraged Qin Ming to return to his hometown and start a business.

Qin Ming’s hometown is in the countryside, with many mountains and a suitable climate, so Qin Ming and I went home to develop agriculture and breeding. My ultimate goal is a circular economy.

thought it would develop smoothly, but he didn’t expect to actually engage in agriculture and breeding, only to realize that it would be very difficult. Without the wages paid on time every month, the little savings we had were quickly used up. Every day is very hard, I get up earlier than when I work, and I work all year round. I finally get some output, but the price is not friendly, and it is really a bit broken.

Qin Ming once thought about giving up and going back to the city to work, but I tried my best to persuade Qin Ming to persist. On the one hand, many companies are unwilling to accept our age. On the other hand, if we give up now, it will be equivalent to starting over from scratch, and all the previous investment will be in vain.

After several years of hard work, although it has not made any money yet, it seems to be developing well, and we also have a lot of experience.

But for my two children, I really feel that I owe something.

My son is one year older than my nephew. After returning from his parents' home for half a month, my son asked me: "Mom, when will I be as good as my brother?"

I said, "Mom thinks you are great." I was confused and could only encourage my son first.

"But I can't even do what my brother can do." The son was very unhappy.

"What does my brother know?" I could only follow my son's words and ask.

"My younger brother can speak English, tell stories, and do Taekwondo. My younger brother also sings very well. My younger brother said that his school is very beautiful. There are many fun things in it and there are many slides. Mom, when can I go and see it?" Looking at my brother’s school?” My son’s words made me feel sad.

Although my son went to kindergarten, kindergartens in rural areas are really not comparable to those in cities. I don’t know if the kindergarten in my mother-in-law’s village has the qualifications to run a school. There are only two teachers in the school, a couple from the village, one graduated from elementary school and the other Graduated from junior high school.

I told Qin Ming what my son said at night, and Qin Ming sighed: "How about we buy a house in the city. It doesn't matter if it's smaller, as long as the children can go to school in the city."

I also have this idea , so I told my mother.

My mother was very happy when she heard that I wanted to buy a house so that my child could go to the city to study. She said that the child should not be delayed.

I also told my mother about my difficulties. Now I am afraid that I won’t even be able to get enough for the down payment.

My mother didn’t answer the call at the time, and called me early the next morning: “Xiaoxiao, I have discussed your plan to buy a house with your father, your brother and your sister-in-law, and we will lend you the down payment you need. , but Mom has a condition. You and Qin Ming must borrow money from your husband's relatives."

"Mom, it's not like you don't know that Qin Ming's relatives all talk nice. If you really want to borrow money, it will probably be a long time." I can't even borrow a penny." Over the years of marriage, I have come to understand the people in my husband's family.

"Then you have to go. Not only do you have to go, but you also have to bring gifts," the mother said.

I didn’t want to go, but since my mother said it, and she didn’t ask us how much money to borrow, let’s go.

Qin Ming has a younger sister who married in the next county. Her family’s economic conditions are pretty good. My sister-in-law's father-in-law contracted the project. On the way, Qin Ming said: "Buying a house is a big deal. My sister will probably lend us some money."

Qin Ming and I also bought two bags of fruit. At first, my sister-in-law was very enthusiastic. When Qin Ming talked about borrowing money, the sister-in-law's expression changed: "I don't care about this family. The money is all taken care of by Cheng Fei's (brother-in-law) father. The project is not easy to do, and there is probably not much money."

one point The money was not borrowed and I lost money for two bags of fruit.

Qin Ming and I went to borrow money from Qin Ming's uncle, who is the party secretary of the town. On weekdays, I like to call Qin Ming the most after drinking. No matter when, whether it is day or night, whether Qin Ming has time or whether there is anything important, as long as he calls, Qin Ming must go.

Qin Ming, for his uncle, was more useful than a chauffeur. Not only did he contribute, but he also got the car.

I even had a quarrel with Qin Ming because of this matter. Qin Ming said that I was small-minded. That's because his uncle thought highly of him and could chat with him, so he was willing to call him.

On the way, Qin Ming said: "I have been helping you with money and support these years, so my uncle should borrow some money."

As soon as Qin Ming mentioned borrowing money, his uncle began to complain: "I am not in good health, so I have to pay for the medical expenses." It’s a lot of money. Your cousin bought a house, but he still has a lot of money left to pay. I’ve paid my salary every month, and your cousin’s phone call came before I could get it”

I didn’t borrow the money, but I bought gifts. It cost 200 yuan.

Qin Ming is in a bad mood, but I think this is to be expected.

Qin Ming's uncle is a very shrewd person. The reason why he likes Qin Ming to be his driver is not because Qin Ming can talk about it, but because he doesn't have to spend money, and it's a lot of money to hire a driver.

After two blows, Qin Ming and I didn’t want to continue asking, but my mother insisted that Qin Ming and I continue to borrow money.

Mother suggested: "Isn't your uncle's family in the same village? Go and ask"

Qin Ming and I picked some vegetables from the field and went to Uncle Qin Ming's house to borrow money.

On weekdays, Qin Ming’s uncle often takes advantage of my family: he can take whatever vegetables he likes from the fields and not only eat them himself, but also give them to his son and daughter. Our farm tools can be used freely and will not be used if they are worn out. Let me tell you, we have to pay for the repairs ourselves. When it’s time to apply pesticides, you can get them directly at home without paying. I can’t say yet.

I have to say that I am stingy. My aunt said: "The pesticides I use at home are not from your family." It seems that I took advantage of his family.

Qin Ming didn’t have any hope either. As soon as he heard that we were here to borrow money, his uncle began to change the subject. Auntie also said that she had not finished the work in the fields and urged her uncle to go to the fields. She didn’t even give a reason. Drive us out.

I told my mother about the borrowing situation. I thought that my mother would not let Qin Ming and I borrow money again. Unexpectedly, my mother asked Qin Ming and me to borrow money from my parents-in-law.

My relationship with my mother-in-law is not very good because I was the one who suggested resigning and going home. My mother-in-law always felt that it was me who caused Qin Ming to lose his decent job in the city.

I was not happy, but I had no choice. In order for my son to go to school in the city, Qin Ming and I had no choice but to borrow money from my parents-in-law.

When my mother-in-law heard that I wanted to borrow money to buy a house and send my children to study in the city, she immediately objected: "You yourself want to go back to the countryside, and now you want to live in the city? What can a child learn in school? Not all teachers play with them.Don’t your parents have jobs? Can’t she just scrape together the money? "

The father-in-law said it was even more infuriating: "We have a little money, but if you borrow it, won't you pay it back to me and your mother? "

Qin Ming said: "I can write an IOU"

The father-in-law said: "Can the IOU be used to buy things? If you don't pay me back, even if I go to court to sue you, it will be useless."

Having said that, it is impossible to borrow money.

I blame my mother for making such a strange request. The money was not borrowed. , I spent money on shopping.

Qin Ming and I looked at the house, and my mother helped pay the down payment.

I thought that this would be the end of it. Three months later, my mother asked me how my life was going. .

My mother asked about my sister-in-law, uncle, and uncle. I said, "I forgot about it. I haven't contacted him since I borrowed the money."

"You can't thank me?" "Mother said with a smile.

"Thank you? I feel like I'm at a huge loss. I haven't borrowed a penny and I still have to spend money to buy gifts." I complained.

"Isn't life clean now? Your sister-in-law's family no longer asks Qin Ming for help. In the past, it was convenient to not have to pay for the transportation of soil and stone. Your uncle no longer wants Qin Ming to be a driver, and your uncle no longer comes to your house to borrow things; your father-in-law and mother-in-law no longer come to tease you."

What my mother said reminded me that without those annoying things, I Life with Qin Ming seems to be better than before, and Qin Ming is also nicer to me.

My mother continued: "You think I really intend to let you borrow money, I just listen to you complaining a lot. That’s why I asked you and Qin Ming to borrow money. They don’t want to borrow money, so they can only hide from you.”

I praise my mother for being so smart. She should have told me earlier, which made me angry in vain.

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