I swallow my anger not because of my daughter-in-law, but because of my son and my grandson. But this time, I almost beat my wife. If my child hadn't reacted quickly enough and stopped me, I would have slapped him in the face.
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My name is Zhang Juan, I am 54 this year, and I will retire in one year. So far, I haven't found a suitable job. My son has been married for nine years, and his first child is my eldest grandson. Over the years, his grandparents have been taking care of him. I did nothing and just gave him some money, but even so, he didn't like me.
Three days ago, the Mid-Autumn Festival was coming soon, and I went to give some food to my son's house. I can't just do it for reunion. I don't take my children with me and buy some gifts. It's really unkind.
After get off work, I went to my child's house, opened the door, and I greeted him happily, but his wife said, "Come here, come in first." Although the in-laws were very cold to me, the smile on my face did not change at all, and I was thinking in my heart that as long as this matter could be passed, everything would be easy to say!
As soon as I entered the door, I saw my son looking down at me, pursing his lips, and without saying a word, I guessed that they were having a quarrel. The couple fought all day long, and my wife was a stubborn person.
I asked in a low voice, "What happened? Is there a quarrel?"
"She is asking for trouble!" My son was angry again by my words and shouted at the room.
I slapped him in the face, but I forgot to put my voice down and said loudly, "Okay OK! She will definitely be angry!"
Before I finished speaking, my wife pulled her son up and looked at me and said, "Don't pretend to be hypocritical here! I'm provoking trouble all day long!"
I saw my wife get angry, but she didn't get angry like her. I stepped forward and wanted to hug my grandson, but my wife pulled her back for a while. Then I turned to my wife and said to my wife, "Xiaoyu, when I came, you two always quarreled. What's going on? The family is not happy! Can life be better?"
"Why did we fight? It's all your fault!" My wife cursed at me, as if she wanted to swallow me alive. Seeing my wife treating me like this, my good mood suddenly disappeared.
My wife yelled at me, but her in-laws ignored me and just sneaked in the room. My child didn't say anything. I was even more angry. How could she be a wife like this?
I said to my wife, "Because of me? What did I do to you? I paid for the food expenses of your family! You are still angry at me! And, how can you treat a senior like this?" My tone also became angry.
Who knew that, my daughter-in-law was reluctant to give up and said with her waist, "You have given birth to several sons! What have you done in the past five years? It is not appropriate to give some benefits if you don't help take care of the children? You are at this age and are still divorced. Do you look like an elder?"
every word my daughter-in-law said hurt my heart like a needle. I was angry and raised my hand and slapped my daughter-in-law in the face. But my son, who has always been taciturn, became very smart. He grabbed my arm and shouted to me, "My wife is right! You don't do anything, and you don't pay me? What she said is true. Why do you do it?" After all, it was a couple. They were still quarreling the previous second, but they started to curse people the next second.
"You want to do it again? You want to beat me again!" The wife started sobbing as she said. His son shouted when he saw this, "Grandma! Grandma beats mom!"
in-laws and the couple rushed in and scolded, "My daughter was hurt by you! It's your fault that she was unhappy! You have only taken care of them for two years, but you dare to do it!" The in-laws also shouted.
I have come back to my senses. Seeing this scene, I really want to cry. I am very unfair and helpless. I did abandon my family for myself, but I still don’t deserve the forgiveness of others? Is there something wrong with me?
I didn't say anything, carrying my backpack, went down the stairs alone, and didn't even go to find me, like a stranger.
I walked downstairs and saw that there was no one around, and I couldn't help but shed tears.
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Back then, my son had just started a family for less than a year, and my husband, who had lived together for more than half a century, suddenly divorced. This is my ex.
My ex-husband is a fashionable old man who runs around outside every day, and then he meets a girl. She said that the girl is very good at taking care of others, but I leave him aside all day and others are unwilling to let him suffer.
After listening to it, I was heartbroken, but I didn't want to continue to get entangled in this situation. Not long after, we got divorced. I don't want our apartment anymore, I want him to pay off half of my house payment, and the grudges between us are written off.
I was in a bad mood and didn't care about taking care of my children and grandchildren. I went out with my things and left for more than half a week. When I got home, I bought a small house in my hometown.
I quit on a whim. I have been working outside for the past two weeks. My son said he asked me to take care of them several times, but I had no plans to go there.
One is that I want to work, and secondly, I have become accustomed to being free and unwilling to take care of my son.
Then the child was taken care of by the in-laws, so I felt at ease. In the past, I often went there once a month, sometimes I bought eggs, sometimes a box of milk, and didn’t care about anything else.
Five years later, my sister from afar called and she said, "Sister, I've told you many times. You're old and don't want to be with your daughter-in-law? You are free now, what should you do in the future? How could they have a good impression of you if you do this?"
She saw me silent and said, "Sister, don't be angry. Over the years, they are in need of help. If you don't help, will they be willing to help you when you get old? You have to help them for yourself, do you know?"
hung up the communication, and I also began to think about myself seriously. I heard what my sister said, yes, if I continue like this, wouldn't I become a person? From that time on, I realized that family members should help each other rather than support themselves alone.
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, but for three years, I will go there every week to buy them something, why did she treat me like this?
That day I was in the living room at home. Looking back on the years, I am indeed very selfish, but I still cherish these children in my heart. Now my life has changed, and I also know how to take care of them, but I am just not sure whether my children will accept me again.
At this moment, my phone suddenly rang. Seeing that it was my wife, I quickly picked it up, "Mom, I'm not talking about you, I'm just angry, I feel very unfair. My mother is very tired every day. Your child is playing games at home, and my mother has to deliver food to him! So, mom, let it go back then, as you said, family harmony is the most important."My wife's words made me overjoyed and nodded repeatedly: "It's all the past, our family is just like before!" "
I understand. She did not deliberately make things difficult for me, but just felt wronged. In-laws worked so hard, both of us were reaping benefits. After I went back, I would like to tell my children well and let them take care of this family well. I will also help them live a happy life like my own daughter!
Between mother-in-law, ten years of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, at most ten years of daughter-in-law. At this time, if the mother-in-law is willing to help you, if there are any difficulties in the future, the daughter-in-law will definitely return you. Is there any big conflict between the family? More selfishness and more sacrifices can make the family happy!
