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The days before the wedding are the busiest days for the bride-to-be's family. They have banquets with matchmakers, discuss terms, give big gifts, and make various preparations. Ask relatives and neighbors for help. Go door to door to borrow round tables, chairs, stools, plates, teapots, bowls, serving dishes and other furniture. As for chopsticks, you generally donβt need to borrow them. Just buy a few more bundles.
After everything is ready, wait until the official day and arrive at the festive home early. All the busy people must follow the arrangements of the big guest (qie) and stay in the predicted rooms. The tables and chairs are set up, the bowls and chopsticks are placed, a small amount of tea is brewed in the teapot, and the meal is ready.
When the big carriage picking up the new wife appears at Yingzitou, the owner of the carriage will whip the big whip with a red tassel on it, and the children watching the excitement will run and shout: "The new wife is here, the new wife is here."
When the new daughter-in-law came to the front door, the door that had been wide open just now was instantly closed tightly, and the first hurdle of "liking" appeared.
At this time, it's time for the big supporter (qie) to appear. On the left, talk about the conditions of a "lovable" person, and on the right, talk about the owner hurrying to get things.
At that time, people "pleased" purely for fun. It was definitely not like some "pleasant" people at weddings nowadays who ask for "red envelopes", and they must be "666", "888", " The "big red envelope" of "nine, nine, nine", and even the "super big red envelope" of "everything goes well" and "everything goes well" have changed the folk custom of "pleasant".
After the main entrance, there are also the entrance to the house and the entrance to the wedding room. After at least three passes of "pleasing", the new daughter-in-law can sit on the wedding kang and stay on it honestly, which is commonly known as " sitting on the bed." ".
The way to "please" is much more civilized than now. In addition to taking off the bride's wedding shoes , at most a few half-grown young men put their arms on each other's shoulders to block the bride's front. There was no physical contact with the bride at all.
Itβs not like some young people nowadays who look at sanctimonious and dog-like people and take advantage of the bride by trying to βpleaseβ them.
Nowadays, all kinds of "marriage troubles" that are against morality or even the law are often exposed on the Internet. They are not only unethical, but also lead to injuries, even death, harming others and themselves, which makes people miss the people's hearts at that time. The simplicity and kindness of people.
Men and women under the age of 40 or 50 in the camp all came over to help. In addition to doing whatever they could, the men also had an important task: to accompany guests (qie).
Those who are well-known in the immediate family of a happy family, those who are well-known in the camp, or those who eat "public meals" in government departments are the best candidates to accompany guests (qie). Their task is to drink with the natal family of the man who comes to see off his bride.
Those who accompany the newlyweds at the wedding table can not only speak, but also drink. After three cups of blessing wine, they will toast each other, which is also called the wedding wine.
After two rounds of drinking, the heavy-drinking main force arranged by the host began to show off his power and "break the pot", rolling up his arms and sleeves and punching one by one. There was a few glasses of wine at the door, and whoever lost drank could get by; The bigger one will force him to "pass the pot" until he has had enough drinks, and the other party will not care how much he drinks.
People who drink and punch, if their voice is not loud, will first lose in terms of momentum. Therefore, the person who punches, no matter he wins or loses, the sound is so loud that it can collapse the roof.
Those who won the fist fight felt arrogant and continued to challenge: "Do you accept or not?" The losing party often drinks up the wine in one gulp for the sake of face, and then fights.
If there is an invincible "cow" at any table, the militants at the surrounding tables will also come to watch the fun, or even directly participate in the battle. At this time, there is no distinction between newlyweds or not.
After the banquet started, the young men carried skewers and briskly delivered plates of dishes to each table. After eating, the young daughters-in-law, who are quick and agile, are responsible for clearing the dishes, wiping the table, washing the dishes and plates, and starting the next round of dining. The children were in groups, laughing and playing.
Young men and young wives who have been busy all day during the wedding process have to work tirelessly to " make a wedding " in the evening.
After all kinds of weird and colorful "bridal chamber" games are completed, the naughty young men and children will hide under the windows of the bridal chamber to "listen to the sounds". Of course, this is also one of the folk customs that has been passed down for many years.
There are many jokes that come from "listening to the sound". For example, the father of my friend Laishun is named Xiaodong. People in the camp usually call him Dongzi. But not long after he got married, the name "Dongzi" that accompanied him until he was seventeen years old changed. People no longer called him Dongzi, but changed their name to "Dongdong". Although
is similar to the original Dongzi, its meaning is completely different. The main difference is that this new name contains a vague and uncivilized meaning.
It turns out that Dongzi was in the bridal chamber during the night of flowers and candles. He was a young and inexperienced boy who was stupid and handsome and didn't know what to do on the wedding night. After finally entering the theme under the guidance and demonstration of the smart newlywed wife, he leaned nervously on his wife's body and made no further movements.
The anxious wife didn't care about being shy, and urged Dongzi: "What are you doing, move, move." These words not only made Dongzi suddenly enlightened, but also started a mysterious and crazy life journey. , which made the people who were secretly hiding under the window sill outside the wedding room excited to hear the sound.
The waiter who had the best relationship with Dongzi couldn't help but laugh out loud. He pinched his nose and kept saying: "Move it, move it."
Don't say it, Er Zhuzhu imitated the voice. It was very much like a female voice, lifelike enough to be fake, even more delicate and tingling than the new wife in the house, which made the few men and women around who were listening together no longer able to hold back, hahaha. He laughed, causing the sound in the room to stop abruptly.
The next day, Dongzi, who was refreshed after the baptism of life, was teased here and there by the laughing people "move, move". From then on, Dongzi changed from a boy to a man after a major turning point in his life. The name suddenly changed from Dongzi to Dongdong.
Over time, after he got used to people calling him "Dong Dong", "Dong Dong" became his only name from now on.
Time flies, the sun and the moon fly by. When all kinds of colorful and lifelike window grilles are plastered on the windows of every house, the New Year's Eve is here, which makes us look one year older.
After busying with what should be done, New Yearβs Eve passed by in a hurry. On the morning of the first day of the Lunar New Year, people eat dumplings with vegetarian fillings left over from the fifth night of the New Year, and people begin to pay New Year greetings to each other.
(to be continued)
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