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01
A year later, Pan Xiao was standing in the small house where he had lived for six years.
She is dressed appropriately and has long curly chestnut hair that reaches her waist, making her look very feminine.
makes the small house lose its color.
Especially ex-husband Jiang Nanchen, he could not hide the surprise in his eyes.
Pan Xiao glanced at Jiang Nanchen and then at the furnishings in the room. He felt that there was no change, but it looked very unfamiliar.
"Panpan is here, I'll pick her up." Pan Xiao didn't see his daughter Panpan, guessing that she hadn't returned home from school yet.
looked at the time and realized that she was too anxious.
At present, her daughter has not come back from school yet. She and Jiang Nanchen are alone, which is a bit embarrassing.
Jiang Nanchen didn’t feel embarrassed at all.
His eyes looked at Pan Xiao very warmly, with a kind of hope.
Pan Xiao pretended to answer the phone with someone else and walked out of the small house.
Not long after, daughter Panpan was also picked up by her ex-mother-in-law. When
saw Pan Xiao, Panpan was as excited as a little swallow and flew towards her.
Holding Panpan's hand, Pan Xiao said to Jiang Nanchen before leaving: "I want to get back the custody of my daughter."
Pan Xiao is determined to get the custody of her daughter. She has put in a lot of effort for this day. Financial difficulties prevented her from fighting for custody of her daughter. This time, she would never give in.
Jiang Nanchen grabbed Pan Xiao's hand and said hopefully: "Xiaoxiao, let's get remarried."
Pan Xiao stood still, with no expression on his face, neither sad nor happy.
After that, she said calmly: "If I can get 600,000, I will consider whether to remarry you."
Pan Xiao felt a bad feeling in his heart.
She seemed to have been holding in her breath this year, and the moment Jiang Nanchen asked for remarriage, the anger was released.
She has always imagined what would happen if Jiang Nanchen begged her one day?
Should she humiliate him severely to express her anger, or should she reconcile with him for the sake of her daughter's face?
This scene really happened, but it was different from what she thought.
Pan Xiao found that she could only feel relaxed after being released.
At that moment, she felt that she had truly let go.
02
Pan Xiao has been married to Jiang Nanchen for six years, and their daughter Panpan is five years old.
A year ago, when Panpan was four years old, the two divorced.
Pan Xiao wanted to fight for Panpan’s custody rights, but was ridiculed by Jiang Nanchen: “Even if I give you the custody of my daughter, how will you raise her and give her a good life?”
Yes, Pan Xiao doesn’t have that ability.
After marrying Jiang Nanchen, Pan Xiao stayed at home full time.
Because her ex-mother-in-law despised Panpan as a daughter, she would rather dance in the square with others every day than help her take care of her daughter.
also mocked her and said: "I will take care of my own child!"
had no choice but to quit her job and take care of Panpan by herself.
My ex-mother-in-law never helped me, so Pan Xiao took care of her alone.
It’s okay if I don’t help. My ex-mother-in-law is not easy to get along with.
During the day, if Panpan cried and made her ex-mother-in-law take a nap, she would be particularly angry and scold Pan Xiao for not knowing anything.
Pan Xiao felt aggrieved and resented her ex-mother-in-law.
The house is only 60 square meters, but there are so many people living there that you can hear any movement.
As for my ex-mother-in-law, I don’t care if she doesn’t help take care of the children. I don’t understand her at all.
How can a child not cry or make trouble?
Pan Xiao talked back to her ex-mother-in-law, who turned around and complained to Jiang Nanchen.
Jiang Nanchen worked for a day and faced this situation when he came back. He was very upset and ended up blaming Pan Xiao every time.
He didn't want to get involved in the affairs of his mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, but he couldn't bear to see his mother being wronged, so Pan Xiao became cannon fodder every time.
This made Pan Xiao feel even more resentful.
complained that his ex-mother-in-law didn't help but was looking for trouble. Jiang Nanchen didn't care about him at all and didn't understand her. The resentment in
's heart increased little by little.
made Pan Xiao explode at first sight, and the couple often quarreled over little things.
03
Jiang Nanchen was also dissatisfied with Pan Xiao.
thinks that she can just take care of a child at home and turn the family upside down, which is not easy for anyone at all.
Both of them are very resentful and dislike each other.
Jiang Nanchen even said that Pan Xiao could not make a penny, so he took care of a child and made the house a mess.
accused her of being unfeminine, having messy hair all day long, and wearing outdated clothes, which annoyed him when he saw her.
It even developed to the point where when Pan Xiao sucked noodles in front of him, he looked disgusted.
The two of them were speechless for a time.
Pan Xiao finally couldn't help it, filed for divorce when the child was four years old, and wanted to fight for custody of Keke.
Jiang Nanchen was confident, so he simply asked her: "Now that you have no job and no savings, and you want custody of Keke, what are you going to do to support her and give her a good life?"
Pan Xiao only felt sad. , full-time for four years, what did she gain?
Her efforts were not recognized by her family, and her sacrifice was not appreciated by anyone.
She couldn't even fight for custody of her daughter.
Yes, Jiang Nanchen is right, she can endure hardship, but she can't bear her daughter to endure hardship with her. Even if she gets custody of her daughter through divorce, she will just let her daughter endure hardship.
04
After the divorce, Pan Xiao secretly vowed to change himself, strive to change the status quo as soon as possible, and have the confidence to fight for the custody of his daughter!
Pan Xiao wanted to find a job quickly and support himself first, but after searching around, he was not satisfied.
She graduated with a bachelor's degree, but because she has been working full-time at home for four years, she has to start all over again when she enters the workplace, competing for opportunities with young people who have just graduated. Her starting salary is also very low, but being too old does not give her an advantage. Even if she performs well, she will be promoted. There is not much hope for a job because of the age limit.
If this continues, the best we can do is make ends meet.
Not to mention thinking about raising a daughter in the future.
But what can she do if she doesn't go to work?
One day, Pan Xiao was walking on the road and heard a couple complaining that the current breakfast was expensive, unpalatable, and lacked any variety. Pan Xiao's eyes lit up.
She had an idea instantly.
Pan Xiao has been a full-time housewife for four years. In order to provide her daughter with delicious food, Pan Xiao has studied a lot of delicious food and also cooked it, so her cooking skills are very good.
Since others can have such a good business even if they make something so terrible, why can’t she?
So, Pan Xiao got to know the surrounding environment, and after several inspections, she roughly determined the direction.
In the first half of the month, she took her carefully prepared pastries to places with a lot of traffic, and used a half-sale, half-free sales model to attract customers.
quickly attracted more repeat customers because of its clean cooking and good taste.
Half a year later, Pan Xiao asked his parents to borrow some money, and with the money earned from selling pastries, he bought a front room specifically for making pastries. Since
opened the store, business has been very good.
Pan Xiao is busy and happy.
If this continues, it won't be long before she can regain custody of her daughter.
At the same time, in order to vent his anger, Pan Xiao also pays attention to taking care of his personal appearance and maintaining his face when he is free.
On the one hand, she wanted to retaliate against her ex-husband and make him dislike her before, so that she would be out of reach for him. On the other hand, she also knew that although she opened a store, she could still impress others by paying attention to her image. Make a good impression and attract customers.
A year later, Pan Xiao used the money he earned to take out a mortgage and buy a house in the city.
After getting the house, she couldn't wait to ask Jiang Nanchen for custody of Keke.
She knew that Jiang Nanchen had no reason to refuse.
First, the ex-mother-in-law doesn’t like Coco at all and is unlikely to want to help.
Secondly, after a year, Jiang Nanchen must have realized the hardships of raising a child, and with his ex-mother-in-law as the storekeeper, he might also want to get rid of the burden of Coco as soon as possible.
The facts turned out to be what she thought. Jiang Nanchen quickly agreed to hand over the custody of Keke to Pan Xiao.
But what surprised her was that Jiang Nanchen would propose remarriage.
It is impossible to remarry.The reason why
asked for a gift of 600,000 yuan before considering it again was just to mock Jiang Nanchen.
When Pan Xiao and Jiang Nanchen got married, the Jiang family could not afford a penny as a bride price.
Pan’s father and Pan’s mother were very dissatisfied and did not agree with Jiang Nanchen’s marriage, fearing that she would suffer and be wronged.
But Pan Xiao was fascinated by the sand, and he thought Jiang Nanchen was good with all his heart, and he didn't mind at all even if there was no betrothal gift.
In her heart, what she values is Jiang Nanchen, and she doesn't care whether there is a betrothal gift or not.
Pan’s parents and Pan’s mother tried hard to persuade her, but they still couldn’t stop Pan Xiao from getting married happily.
It was only after marriage that Pan Xiao truly understood his parents' good intentions.
Because she didn't spend a penny to marry her, Pan Xiao often suffered from the cold eyes of her ex-mother-in-law, who thought she was just a cheap wife.
There is no such thing as if you are sincerely good to others, others will sincerely repay you.
On the contrary, because Jiang Nanchen owned a small house, her ex-mother-in-law felt that Pan Xiao had made money and took advantage of it.
So Pan Xiao felt that the reason why she was looked down upon by her ex-in-laws was that on the one hand Jiang Nanchen had no sense of responsibility and could not take on the trouble, and on the other hand she was too "stupid".
thought that taking the initiative to relieve the pressure on her ex-in-law's family would move others, but in the end, she only moved herself.
So Jiang Nanchen deliberately asked for a 600,000 gift.
After hearing such colorful gifts, Jiang Nanchen drooped his head and remained silent.
Looking at his frustrated look, Pan Xiao finally calmed down.
Now she has become the person Jiang Nanchen cannot reach.
is because he doesn’t know how to cherish it!
When she loved her purely, Jiang Nanchen insisted on mixing worldly thoughts with her, was indifferent to her, and didn't cherish her at all. Now that he wants to cherish her, she won't give him a chance!
So people, when you love, love well and know how to cherish. Since you love, don’t despise the other person. If you love her, you must tolerate all her advantages and disadvantages.
05
The former mother-in-law also inquired about Pan Xiao's current situation and learned that more than a year after her divorce, she had owned a storefront and a house through her own efforts, and she was extremely flattering.
's attitude towards Pan Xiao is completely different.
"Xiaoxiao, we are an old couple now. What kind of gift do we need for remarrying? Our daughter is already so old, isn't it a joke to let others know?"
Pan Xiao was dismissive in his heart. Remarrying Jiang Nanchen was a joke. , remarrying him without asking for a bride price is the biggest joke!
It's enough to be stupid once, there is no need to be stupid twice!
"You don't have 600,000 yuan, so you have the nerve to propose remarriage to me?"
Pan Xiao's contemptuous tone deeply hurt the self-esteem of her ex-mother-in-law. She could not hold her breath and cursed at Pan Xiao.
"I'll give you face, but it doesn't matter if I have money. I can't get married after more than a year. Who would want you as a divorced woman except my son!"
"Mom, please stop saying a few words! "Seeing Pan Xiao's face getting darker and darker, Jiang Nanchen quickly stopped his ex-mother-in-law.
My ex-mother-in-law was stunned for a while.
Pan Xiao sneered in his heart, Jiang Nanchen's attitude towards her now is really completely different!
When this happened before, when would he stand on her side and say a word to her?
It’s really thirty years in Hedong and thirty years in Hexi!
People, when you have no money, no one will look down on you. When you have money, the people who once looked down upon you the most will lower their profile and treat you.
It seems that in this world, if you want to gain respect from others, in addition to self-respect and self-love, you must be able to make money and have the ability to make money!
Pan Xiao didn't want to watch the "performance" of their mother and son anymore, so he pulled Coco and left without looking back.
This family, she never wants to have anything to do with them in her life.
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