I am a post-90s, and I made a mistake in the college entrance examination and missed the undergraduate line. My family asked me to repeat my studies. I didn't want to, so I chose a college in the province.
But when I walked into this school, I deeply felt that it was not the school I wanted to go to, and the gap between it and the second school of my friend next door was not so big.
Regardless of the quality of the students, the campus environment, the accommodation conditions, etc., all this made me not want to stay here. I dropped out of school without discussing with my family.
I cut first and then played. I told my family when I got home. Of course, I was scolded. The family saw me not pleasing to my eyes during those days. I was also very frustrated. I went online every day, thinking about what I should do next.
I met my husband on the Internet. He is three years older than me. He is in the same county as me. He said that I did not study after graduating from high school.
He told me not to be depressed, there are elites in every line, since I have dropped out of school, don't think about unhappy things.
He became the object of my confession. Whenever there was something unhappy, I would find him, and he would reply to my news in seconds.
Time is a good thing. It can heal wounds, it can diminish grief, and it can make two strangers become friends and lovers.
We met in the county town. When we met, I didn't feel a bit nervous because I regarded him as a good netizen.
Unexpectedly, when I met, I actually fell in love with him at first sight.
After meeting, he had a good impression of me. After we talked for a long time on the Internet, he confessed to me, I agreed, and asked me to marry me and I agreed.
Of course, no one in the family supported us, so I almost fell out with them. My mother said, you will regret it. How can you be so impulsive about a lifetime event.
No matter what in life, there are regrets. I regret marrying the wrong person, and regret it if I missed it.
So, I decided to marry him. My parents had no choice but to agree.
After dropping out of school for a year and getting married, I naturally became the subject of jokes in the village.
But, I don't care.
After getting married, my husband worked at a construction site, and I worked as a cashier in a supermarket in the county seat.
After my daughter was born, I quit my job, and my husband went home and told me, "My wife, let's stop working and learn a craft, so that it is not too tiring to earn money."
My husband wants to learn decoration, of course I fully support it. After the child is one year old, I ask my mother-in-law to help with it. My husband and I will learn decoration together with my cousin.
Not to mention, it’s absolutely okay for people who don’t learn well to do handicrafts. My husband learns very quickly, and he has been a teacher in almost two years.
At the recommendation of our cousin, we did a lot of work. My husband and I were very busy, and we enjoyed it.
When the child was five years old, we bought a house in the county with a down payment of 200,000 yuan. I was the first person among my brothers and sisters to buy a house in the county. My parents, relatives and friends looked at me and my husband differently.
My husband is very kind to me. He knows the reasons why my parents opposed our marriage before, so he worked very hard. He said that he would not let his parents down, let alone make you worse than others. We have no education, but we His life cannot fall behind others.
My daughter is in the first grade. I gave birth to a son. People around me envy my children. My parents finally told me that you have a good vision and Xiao Li is a good child.
This is the first time my parents praised me since I dropped out of school.
I thank my parents, my husband, and my two children, who made me have such a happy life for those who did not even go to college.
Since the son was born without milk, he has been taking milk powder, so he has been letting his mother-in-law take care of him. My husband has done a lot of work, so I help him.
When our son was two years old, we bought the first car in our life for 300,000 yuan.
My husband and I took our children back to our natal home. The neighbors in the village gave us envious eyes. An old grandmother said that my grandson graduated from college and worked in a big city.
I wanted to frustrate my grandmother, but it’s better to think about it. The good and bad things we have lived are all in the eyes of others. Besides, we don’t live for others and do our best.It’s not everyone’s wish to let parents, children, and let us all lead a good life.
I may be the one that God favors. I have better luck. I married a good man with my stubbornness and strength.
Now my daughter is in the fifth grade. My husband and I have never quarreled. He is very tolerant of me and respects me. He asked me to manage the family money, but I refused.
I said that when I was in school, I was very poor in math, and I had a headache when I saw numbers. You are the shopkeeper in our family, and the money is managed by you. I can rest assured, I also believe in you.
During the holidays, my husband would give my parents red envelopes. My parents were naturally very happy. They praised my husband for being filial and sensible when they met people, and I thanked my husband in my heart when I watched my husband and were happy.
After many years of marriage, my mother-in-law and I really got along and became mother and daughter. We have always lived together without separation. The mother-in-law never mixes with my husband and me. Even if there are conflicts between us, the mother-in-law always stands by me. side.
My mother-in-law gave birth to three sons. Two of them bought houses in other places. Only my husband is in my hometown. She loves me like my mother.
Once I caught a cold and fever. I was drowsy during the day. My husband went to work. I was afraid that my mother-in-law was worried and didn’t tell her. Look at me on the edge of the bed.
I went home and told my mother about this. She said, how lucky you are to meet such a good mother-in-law, a good family, we were afraid that you would regret it, but now it seems that we are worrying too much.
The most correct decision I made in my life was to marry my husband. My relatives and friends care about me. I understand their original objections and opinions.
Now my husband has tried to prove it to everyone, just like his promise to me at the beginning. He said, Xiaoying, I will not let you suffer too much, and I will definitely give you what others have.
To be honest, I didn't care much when I heard him say this, because we were the same, there was nothing at the time, and there was a poor jingle. I insisted on marrying him because I love him, even if I endure hardships.
He didn't expect that later he proved it with actions and proved all the promises he said.
There are many unfortunate marriages around me,At the beginning, we loved each other to die and live, but after we got married, we didn't persist in the feathers of the same place, and finally each walked in the opposite direction. It was a pity that I wanted to say to them: meeting is not easy, take it and cherish it.
The way of getting along in marriage is actually very simple, sincere, trust, don't be selfish, don't be selfish. Understand and tolerate each other. Everyone will be happy, and everyone will have a happy home.
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