In a psychology lecture, the psychologist in charge told us a story: once upon a time, there was a small fish who was in a daze against the sky every day and imagined that he would be like one day. The bird flew to the sky like that, soaring between the white clouds and the blue sky. The companions felt unreasonable to its desire, thinking that the fish should have lived in the water, playing in the mountains and water plants, in the clear river water, there was endless food and inexhaustible oxygen. Living leisurely in the water should be the duty of the fish, and the sky is the dream that the fish shouldn't have. There is no other use except to make yourself unhappy.
Xiaoyuer doesn’t think so. It feels that the beauty of the sky lies in its unreachable, in the water, the reality is beyond sight. What is the difference between life and a stone? So it began to leap towards the sky of its dreams, struggling to jump out of the water time and time again, wagging its tail desperately, struggling upward, experiencing short flight after time, its head hitting the water surface and the edge of the mountain stream time and time again. Blood and fish scales scattered all over the rocks...
The psychologist said this, and suddenly paused and said to the friends present: I would like to ask everyone to help me tell the next story and see everyone What kind of ending can be designed for this little fish?
A middle-aged man sitting in the front row said: Maybe after the little fish hit a few times, he found that the sky is really just like what his friends said, except that it brings pain. there is none left. So it stopped flying and jumping, staying in the water with peace of mind,Gradually adapt to the uncomfortable water life in the past, and start to enjoy the life that the fish should have lived with peace of mind...
A young man with glasses said: The little fish hurts when it falls, but it feels every time it hurts. The painful struggle of the fish is closer to its goal. In the high jump, the little fish gradually realized the feeling of flying. Although it was a short moment, it let it see the mountain flowers, the woods and the trees that were not in the water. There are small wooden houses with smoke, and occasional shooting stars and fireflies that occasionally pass through the night sky. These things are invisible to life in the water for a few lifetimes...
An old man said: When the fish jumped out of the water, it didn't know that its surroundings were full of danger. A osprey , who had been observing for a long time on the shore, finally decided to do it, grabbed it in the air, drew a beautiful arc on the water, and flew high in the opposite direction. Under the iron claws of the eagle, the little fish saw that the mountain stream where he lived was getting smaller, and the surrounding mountain villages and fields were under his feet. He finally looked at the world from the perspective of a bird as he wished, and he paid the price of his life for it. Before he died, it was half sad and half happy with a long sigh...
A fifteen or six year old girl said: Why do you think the ending is so tragic? Maybe it’s because the little fish’s tenacity and perseverance touched God. God sent an osprey to realize its dream. Like a mother cat holding a kitten, the eagle carefully carried the fish and let it experience the joy of flying in the sky...
Another tenderer voice said: Then why is the god no longer merciful, and simply turn the little fish into a bird?
There are many different answers,Psychologists say: In fact, each of us is such a fish. In our hearts, there is more or less a dream, which is as far away as the sky in the eyes of a fish. Some people don’t think about it at all because it’s too far away; some people struggle to get close because it’s challenging; some people get hurt or even lose their lives; some people find that it’s too far away and return to their previous lives after a small test. middle. Some people are forced by unattainable dreams and live an anxious and urgent life every day; some people turn themselves into another person in order to realize their dreams...
There is always a contradiction between fish and sky. body. The fish that yearns for the sky is destined to be a fish that struggles with pain, but because of the different ways of struggling, the degree of sorrow and pain is also different. What many people do all their lives is to straighten out the relationship between the two.
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