Text丨Big Big Monster Editor丨Big Big Monster Preface According to scientific research, young people on nearly nine floors feel that their parents have no sex life, but the truth shocked most people. About half of the elderly have sex every month. So, how old can the elderly live a

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Preface

According to scientific research, there are nearly nine layers of young people who feel that their parents have no sex life, but the truth shocks most people. About half of the elderly have sex every month.

So, how old can the elderly couple live in a couple’s life? What issues should be paid attention to?

1. How old can the elderly live in a couple's life?

"You are really disrespectful to the old!"

Ms. Liu pulled her mother and pushed open the door of a gynecological clinic in a hospital, and found Dr. Chen who was on duty at the time.

After Dr. Chen's careful interrogation, Ms. Liu reluctantly told the truth. Her mother is over 60 years old and has felt a little uncomfortable recently, and her private parts are bleeding frequently.

The reason for this situation is that Ms. Liu's mother and father have sex frequently in recent months. After Ms. Liu learned about this situation, she felt both ashamed and annoyed.

In Ms. Liu's opinion, her parents are already old and usually sleep in separate rooms. Logically speaking, they are already past the age of impulsiveness, so why do they still do such things? So she was very puzzled.

After learning about the specific situation of Ms. Liu's mother, Dr. Chen was not surprised, but patiently explained to Ms. Liu:

"There are many people, especially those young people. They generally believe that once a person gets older, they no longer need sexual adjustment, but in fact this is a wrong concept."

Ms. Liu was confused and asked : "In theory, when a person gets older, shouldn't he lose his desire as his body ages? Why do he still have impulses in this regard?"

Doctor Chen explained: "This idea is a mistake in the concept of most people. Sex is an instinctive desire and will not disappear due to physical aging. At most, it is because of the lack of strength.

The fundamental reason why we have such a wrong concept is because of the limitations of our young people's vision and ignore the needs of the elderly in terms of sexual life."

In fact, as we age, the elderly are limited by physical fitness factors, and the number of times they live in couples will be reduced, but the inner desire will not be erased.

At the same time, as the body functions increase, symptoms such as male endurance decreases and female private parts dry, resulting in a decrease in the pleasure of couples when having sex.

Doctor Chen also gave his own explanation for Ms. Liu's mother's phenomenon. As long as her physical fitness allows, it is very normal for elderly couples to have sex.

There are similar records in a book called "Leave Historical Evidence for "Total Sex"": About half of the elderly aged 55-61 have sex once a month. What's more, as long as your physical fitness allows, nearly 40% of the elderly will have sex nearly 3 times a month.

Foreign survey agencies also concluded similarly that about seven floors of elderly men will maintain regular sex life, and most of them are between 55 and 68 years old.

Some men's sexual age can even last until they are over 70 years old. In a slightly joking tone, that is, "life never stops, exercise never stops."

And the elderly women are also very heavy in this survey. According to the survey, the overall demand ratio of women in the three age groups of 50, 60 and 70 is extremely high, even as high as 76%.

Ms. Liu, who learned this news, seemed a little shocked. She really didn't expect that the couple's life between the elderly could last to such a big age, which was a bit incredible.

Doctor Chen was very calm about this, and he then added: "A moderate couple life is actually beneficial. As long as the physical condition and organ functions can keep up, it doesn't matter even if the frequency is higher.

Generally speaking, when you are aged 20 to 30, you are most energetic. It is common for couples to live three or four times a week, but as you age, the number of times can be reduced accordingly.

For example, when you are 30 to 40 years old, twice a week is the best living range. It can not only enhance the relationship between husband and wife, but also not cause too much burden on the body. It can make up for the physical weakness in time.

When you reach the age of 40, the couple's life should be reduced to once a week; when you reach the age of 50, the best number should be once a month, or twice a month. "

Ms. Liu was a little surprised and thought that there are benefits to elderly couples having sex. Wouldn't it cause serious burden on the body?

Doctor Chen also saw Ms. Liu's confusion and continued to explain the benefits of the elderly's couple's life.

So, what are the benefits of the elderly's couple's life?

2. Benefits of couples' lives

Dr. Chen is familiar with such topics. Even though Ms. Liu is already a little blushing, Dr. Chen still explained with a calm expression:

"We must correctly understand this issue and correctly view the appropriate couple's life for the elderly. This will be of certain help to the physical and mental development of the elderly.

In fact, there is another most intuitive medical benefit for couples to have sex, that is, it can prevent gynecological inflammation and prostatitis . "

For those older women, the older they are, the weaker their physical functions are. In addition to the more critical organ failure, there is also a decrease in the secretion of estrogens in the vagina. The decrease in the secretion of hormones in the vagina will reduce the resistance of the vagina to bacteria, and ultimately lead to frequent gynecological inflammation in women. The same is true for men in prostatitis.

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0000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000 Long-term high-quality couple life can also promote the secretion of a hormone called endorphin in the body to maintain various defects in the human immune system.

endorphin hormone secretion can not only repair the damaged immune system, but also further improve the ability of the human immune system, improve the body's physical fitness, and enhance the disease resistance of the elderly.

According to Dr. Lauren, who is studying gynecology at a university in the United States, those women who maintain a normal couple's life after menopause have a much younger physical qualities than other women.

Therefore, if high quality can be maintained for a long time A large amount of couple life can not only help women prevent gynecological inflammation and maintain physical health, but also men can benefit from it to prevent prostatitis and other diseases.

Ms. Liu was enlightened after listening to Dr. Chen's explanation. Unexpectedly, the elderly can have such effects in their sex life. Her horizons have been much broader, and she was amazed by it.

Preventing diseases and improving immunity is only one aspect. There are other benefits of couples having sex, that is, they can release stress and delay aging.

According to research by foreign professional institutions, regular and regular sex between the elderly can prevent psychological problems such as depression , autism, etc. , relieve psychological stress. Relevant research on

Swedish has further proved this statement. They compared and studied the state of cohabiting elderly people and living alone, and found that the former's intelligence and memory have always been maintained at a normal level.

In contrast, those elderly people who live alone all year round have different degrees of decline in intelligence and memory, and are accompanied by a certain degree of Alzheimer's symptoms,

At the same time, sex life will also prompt the human body to release more oxytocin . This hormone secretion can improve sleep quality to a certain extent and ensure the mental state of the elderly.

It can be said that maintaining a high-quality couple's life for a long time can help the body secrete the corresponding hormones, and this type of hormone has the effect of delaying aging and is conducive to the health and longevity of the elderly.

In addition, regular husband and wife life can also promote the relationship between husband and wife, which is conducive to maintaining harmony in family life.

But perhaps it is the conservative concept in the bones of Chinese people. Many elderly people themselves do not pay much attention to this needs, thinking that this is "disrespect for the elderly" or "injustice for the elderly".

But in fact, as long as your physical conditions allow you, you can live a husband and wife life no matter how old you are. This is not only beneficial to physical and mental health, but also to your own health and longevity.

However, Dr. Chen also reminded that according to the elderly's own physical fitness, age and other factors, you must take good protection when trying to live a couple, otherwise it is very likely to cause discomfort.

So, what aspects should elderly people pay attention to when couples are having sex?

3. Keep protection in mind and be healthier

After listening to Dr. Chen’s professional explanation, Ms. Liu had a little more understanding of her parents’ approach, but she was still very concerned about her mother’s situation, worried about whether it caused serious gynecological diseases.

Doctor Chen also conducted relevant examinations for Ms. Liu's mother in a timely manner. Fortunately, Ms. Liu's mother's symptoms are not serious, but they are just common inflammatory bleeding. You can recover by patient care.

After listening to Dr. Chen's examination results, Ms. Liu was also relieved. Fortunately, it was not a big problem, otherwise this family would not be able to withstand such troubles from her parents.

Although Ms. Liu's mother was not seriously injured, Dr. Chen patiently advised: "Fortunately it was only caused by inflammation. The overall situation is still controllable, but don't relax your vigilance!"

Ms. Liu was a little worried when he heard this, so he asked: "What is the cause of abnormal bleeding after having sex? I heard that there is a tumor, so I was so worried in advance."

Dr. Chen nodded and said patiently: "Only speaking of the bleeding, the tumor is only one aspect, but it is also the worst result, but the amount of bleeding in this situation is generally not much."

Ms. Liu hurriedly asked: "If the tumor is only one aspect, plus my mother's What other situations can cause abnormal bleeding in private parts? "

Dr. Chen lowered his head and pondered for a while, and then patiently explained:

"Tumors and inflammation are two common types. In addition, abnormal bleeding after sex may also be caused by damage.

There are two types of damage in general. One is what people often call "fallen redness", that is, hymen damage, and the other is vaginal damage, with a larger amount of bleeding and longer time."

In addition, women who fall off from the birth control ring , have abortion or have sex too early, have a certain probability of abnormal bleeding after sex, and the situation will also vary according to their physical condition.

Ms. Liu looked at her mother, and thought of her mother and father's future life, and asked Dr. Chen again: "What should elderly people pay attention to when having sex?"

Doctor Chen also gave his own answer to this, and the reply was also concise and clear:

The first point is not to drink alcohol, Because Alcohol will numb the brain perception of the elderly, causing the elderly to make incorrect estimates of their own situation. This move is also to avoid excessive excitement and causing physical damage.

The second point is to control the frequency and its intensity . The frequency has been mentioned before. For example, in the case of Ms. Liu’s mother, it is enough to be once or twice a month, and you cannot ignore the physical deficit.

At the same time, you should also pay attention to the strength of your sex. The physical fitness of the elderly is not as good as when they were young. Therefore, you must pay attention to the slow pace and never rush.

If you feel physically discomfort during the sex process, you must stop having sex immediately, and don’t take medicine at will for the sake of the "man’s heroic spirit", which will lead to physical deficits and harm others and yourself.

The third point is to take protective measures to wear condoms , which is also the most important point, because the function of condoms is not only contraceptive, but also prevents the spread of STDs.

After getting familiar with these situations, Ms. Liu patiently warned her mother: "Did you hear it? The doctor said so. You and Dad must pay attention in the future!"

Ms. Liu's mother was also blushed with shame, and nodded quickly to agree, saying that she would pay attention to this protection in the future.

Doctor Chen felt a lot of relief when he saw this scene. The road to popularizing corresponding protection knowledge is still a long way to go in the future.

ending

In fact, when we young people look at this problem, we must face up to the physiological needs of the elderly, because this is inevitable and we should not one-sidedly distinguish between the elderly and the middle age stage.

. The elderly should have a correct understanding of the needs of sexual intercourse. Do not think that the sex and love of the elderly are difficult to talk about, and do not go astray because of temporary desires.

In an interview called "The Elderly People Talk about Elderly", there are the following strange cases:

1) There is a square dance uncle in his sixties who met several dance partners and had sex during the dance process. However, because he was neglected to protect himself, he was infected with AIDS , which directly led to his insecurity in his later years.

2) Coincidentally, an aunt in her 70s in Shenzhen spent spring nights with two younger dance partners, which eventually led to overwhelming physical burden and induced a series of gynecological diseases.

3) A 70-year-old man in Guangzhou felt lonely because he lived alone all year round, so he treated an inflatable doll as his wife to vent his depression. What's more, some people who were unable to suppress the elderly who were in their hearts were in trouble and finally chose the wrong path of "sucking prostitution". They were later arrested by the police for criticism and education.

has physiological needs. This is actually a normal thing. After all, everyone has the right to pursue happiness, and the elderly also enjoy the same rights as young people in this regard.

Therefore, we must look at this demand of the elderly rationally and not express our opinions too one-sidedly or extremely.

At the same time, the elderly should also pay attention to protecting themselves and pursue happiness within a reasonable and legal scope. Remember not to seek temporary pleasure and do things that will make them regret for life!