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Hospital is performing different birth, old age, sickness and death every day. In the hospital, you can see the most realistic and cruel appearance of human nature.
Some time ago, my father was hospitalized and I saw an old man while I was with the bed.
In him, I saw the most realistic appearance of family affection.
This old man was hospitalized just to prescribe gallstone , but after examination, he found that advanced cancer . After discussion, the children at home weighed the family's financial situation and decided to give up treatment and go through the discharge procedures for the elderly to take him home.
The old man has a strong desire to survive and wants to continue treatment, but in the end he was taken back by his children. When
was discharged from the hospital, the old man burst into tears. When his children went to go through the procedures, his eyes were red and he said to the patients in the same ward:
"I don't blame them. They also have their own difficulties, but I feel unwilling! I only now know that family affection is so realistic."
Yes, some people are old and suddenly realize that family affection is also realistic when they reach the end of their lives.
1: Relatives will also have the will but not the strength
The most expensive bed in the world is the hospital bed. In the face of a serious illness, the family may have a lifelong savings of just a drop in the bucket.
Many elderly people will face such problems. They may have no worries about food and clothing in their daily lives, but once they get sick, they will find that they have no ability to resist risks at all.
At this time, they just hope for their children, but their children also have their own difficulties. Many times, they don’t want to treat the elderly, but their abilities are really not enough, and in the end they can only choose to give up.
Family affection can be very warm to say, but in fact family affection is also very cold and realistic. Because if you want to express family affection and want to contribute to the elderly, you must have the corresponding ability.
This is actually a reminder to every elderly person that the elderly are wholeheartedly dedicated to their children’s efforts, but they must also leave a way out for themselves. After all, at the end of life, the only person you are the one you are the one you are the one you are the one you are.
2: People's hearts are always selfish
The most selfless thing in the world is always the only parents to children.
Parents can give their children wholeheartedly. They are willing to sacrifice everything for their children, but their love for their parents is rarely done.
This is actually a kind of human nature. Parents will feel responsible for their children. Many parents regard their children as their sustenance and hope for the rest of their lives.
But for children, their lives have just begun, and they still have infinite possibilities. We often hear that parents collapse because of sudden accidents in their children, but rarely hear that children are desperate because of their parents' departure.
The love between parents and children has never been equal, this is the reality of human nature.
People's selfishness is not only reflected in parents and children. Everyone will have different feelings when dealing with their relatives. They all seem to be the same family affection, but in fact they are very different. But no matter what kind of family affection it is, it will not be more important in his heart than himself.
After all, that was his life.
3: Children have other responsibilities
Everyone is in multiple social relationships. He may be a father, a son, and a husband. In many social relationships, the people around him are his relatives and he has different responsibilities to them.
But he is just an ordinary person after all, and it is difficult to understand everyone, so among his relatives, there must be some people who are going to be ignored.
In the reality of China, parents are often ignored.
Just like a parent who loves his children wholeheartedly, he is also the parent of other children. His love has been given to his children, so the love and care he can leave to his parents is already very limited. This is the reality of family affection.
We cannot ask everyone to treat every relative equally. This is a hard work because no one can do it. What we can do is to recognize reality and not have too much expectations for family affection.
care less, and you will feel less disappointed in the future.
Life is a train, your relatives can accompany you for a long time, but they cannot always be your support, because they also have their own way to go. Therefore, it is better to rely on yourself than rely on others, and family affection is not always as stable.
Make yourself stronger is the best guarantee for yourself.
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