Everyone has emotions, are they useful or useless? Can you control your emotions? How do you adjust when you are in a bad mood? The book I copied today is still "Reading Children's Hearts" by teacher Fan Deng .
Most people nowadays are a little impatient, and it is inevitable that they will lose their temper when they cannot control it, and losing their temper will cause some harm to the people around them. Usually when you lose your temper with a child, it must be when the child is disobedient and you can't help but teach him a lesson instead of telling him gently. This is indeed effective, and this kind of simple and crude behavior happens more often. Psychologically, how much harm has it caused? When my son was young, he was often disobedient. I took care of the child alone, so the pressure sometimes made me breathless. Sometimes when I criticized him, I would yell at him and teach him a lesson! In fact, I knew very well in my heart that I was just venting my bad emotions. When I got to kindergarten, the teacher told me that he was timid in class, cautious in doing things, extremely introverted, and had no self-confidence. Only then did I realize that maybe there was too much roaring education. In order to change this situation, I talked to He exercises together to release his bad emotions. I also changed my previous education methods, telling him patiently, or using other methods to guide him. The most important thing is that I am no longer anxious, my mind is relaxed, and I feel that it is not that important if I do not do well. After taking a parkour exercise class, the child also built up his self-confidence and became more able to withstand stress. Kindergarten teachers also reported that they have changed a lot this year, becoming more and more confident and cheerful. In the following days, he could be the host or commentator for any activities in the class. The children liked him very much. I have made a lot of efforts in this year's changes. For example, 3-4 times a week, I drive 20 kilometers back and forth in the evening to take him to exercise classes, and usually read him picture books about building self-confidence. If I make a little change, I need all kinds of praise and encouragement. There is a saying that can really express my inner thoughts: the debt owed must be repaid eventually. But sometimes I still can't help but lose my temper. What should I do? I will be silent for a while, and then tell the child that while mom can still talk to you properly, you'd better listen, otherwise I will lose control again. By myself. This still has some effect.
There are many examples around us of children who are timid and cowardly because of quarrels at home. After I told them about my experience, they also realized that it was the parents’ problem. How many mistakes can children make? Are we parents taking advantage of the situation and overcorrecting? It is easy to make a child cowardly, but it takes a lot of energy to cultivate a child's self-confidence. So, parents, do you need to change the roaring education?
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