The pressure on young people is too great. After entering the age of 20, many so-called major events in life will be put on the parents' agenda, and young people will take the initiative or be forced to accept it.
Buying a house, getting married and having children is basically achieved in order. However, now society urgently needs to increase the fertility rate to alleviate aging and a large number of children. There are too many 10 million graduates without jobs, and there are too few newborns that cannot be retired?
Because demographic dividend is needed, it is actually the demographic dividend of capitalists , and they can squeeze our surplus value more conveniently. For example, if a job requires three people to complete easily, everyone will be happy, but capital does not want to see such a situation. They will raise housing prices, force two people to resign and arrange the work to one person to complete. The remaining person has to stay up late to work overtime with their performance-based salary in order to complete the difficult-to-finished KPI in time. The person's physiological and psychological functions will be greatly damaged. After the age of 35, they will be replaced by a new young man, and he may be taken back for the foreclosure because he cannot repay the high mortgage.
A generation has passed like this, and when the next generation faces this problem again, they will think: having children requires marriage, getting married, getting married requires a house, and the house price is too high and you can't afford it, or you can't afford it in the future, so it's better not to buy it. I will consider either living alone, or finding a partner who is willing to buy a house with me to get married, or not having children, because the education of children is also a huge expense. Just give up one of these options and it will be much easier.
Of course, some people will question whether anyone is willing to get married without a house? Who will take care of the elderly when you are old without children? In fact, there is no need to worry. There will be people who understand you and are willing to accompany you for your ordinary life. There are also those kinds of elderly people who have children and no one cares about. Now some countries have plans for euthanasia, so there is no need to worry at all. Who knows what will happen in the future? Living a good present is more important than anything else.