The road of life is not smooth.
Those who seem glamorous on the surface also have unknown hardships behind them.
It’s just that some people are optimistic by nature and take it to heart when encountering difficulties and don’t say it easily.
A blogger went shopping and saw a beautiful woman busy in front of the barbecue stall. The small barbecue stall business was very good, and the store was full of people.
The blogger was curious and went up to ask for a few skewers to try. While waiting, chatting with the beauty and learning a sad story.
The beauty is Liu Yun. She is a post-90s generation. She originally opened more than a dozen barbecue restaurants with assets of tens of millions. The monthly income of each store is stable at five digits. The income of more than a dozen stores is six digits. Her life is very comfortable. She goes shopping every day and gets whatever she likes, without looking at the price.
The friends around her are all businessmen. Their favorite topics to talk about during the party are where to go. As long as you have a destination, you can take a trip that you can go without saying a walk.
When Liu Yun's business went smoothly, she became the backer of her parents. Her parents asked her to help her brother, so she gave her brother three stable stores. After the principal, the profit belonged to her brother.
When my younger brother got married, Liu Yun bought a wedding house and took more than 100,000 yuan to decorate. She was also responsible for the cost of more than 100,000 yuan for the wedding.
My sister-in-law said she didn't want to live with the elderly. Liu Yun specially bought a villa for her parents. In her opinion, money is for spending. As long as her parents live happily, it is worth spending some money on her own.
What she didn't expect was that her husband had a bad habit of gambling and owed millions outside for several months. The more he lost, the more he wanted to make a profit. He went further and further on the wrong road and still owed a lot of online loans.
At first, Liu Yun was not aware of it. It was not until someone called her to ask for money that Liu Yun realized that it was not good. She forced her husband to ask how much money he owed. Her husband just refused to say it, and then he went missing directly and couldn't contact him even if he called.
The remaining mess can only be borne by Liu Yun. Her phone was blown up, and someone found her house and blocked her door to ask for money. Even her parents were intimidated. At that time, Liu Yun was pregnant and had to give birth in another month. She had no choice but to transfer the store and sell the house in her hand.
Although she felt wronged, she didn't want her parents to suffer, nor did she want her children to live in fear. She cleared the assets in her hands, and after she lost the debt, she only had more than 200,000 yuan left in her hands.
Just as she was thinking about how to start over, her father found her and hoped that she would take out some money to help her brother. It turned out that her brother was also owed a debt because of gambling. Liu Yun hesitated and said to her father: " I don't have the ability to help my brother anymore. I have children to raise. You should also understand me."
The father was very angry and said, "You sell it." Isn’t there any money in the room? Let me give it to my brother first, and I will give it back to you when my brother recovers. ”
Liu Yun knew in her heart that My brother was lazy and could not help the mud. If the money was lent out, he would not pay it back. She had already helped her brother a lot. When she encountered difficulties, she still refused.
The father came to beg her again, saying all the good things, saying that if she didn't help her parents' home, he and his wife would have a hard time. Seeing her father showing weakness, Liu Yun felt uncomfortable. Her parents were used to relying on her, but she ignored her education for her younger brother. Her younger brother was spoiled. Isn't there any responsibility for her parents?
Women become mothers, so they can only focus more on their children. Liu Yun is reluctant to let the children suffer. She wants to give the children a good living environment, but she still grits her teeth and refuses the father's request. As a result, the father got angry and said to her: "If you don't use money to help your younger brother, don't go back to your parents' home in the future. We will also cut off the relationship between father and daughter. I will pretend that you don't have a daughter."
Liu Yun cried: "Dad, this is what you said. Since that's the case, let's do what you said.”
Since then, Liu Yun really no longer takes the initiative to call her parents’ home, and her parents never care about her life. In order to make a comeback, Liu Yun hired an aunt to take care of the children and set up a stall by herself.
She knows that reputation is important, and the materials she has added also pays attention to quality. In order to keep the taste consistent, She needs to prepare various ingredients in the morning, and the barbecue lasts until one or two in the morning. She doesn’t dare to rest when she gets home, and also needs cleaning tools.
Liu Yun tastes good, and there are more and more old customers. Her business is gradually stabilizing, and she has opened 3 stores. There are fewer people eating barbecue in winter. She is unwilling to be idle, so she learns the skills of making mutton soup and can also have a certain income.
In a few years, Liu Yun came out of the trough, and she bought 3 more houses and several cars. In fact, she doesn't need to set up a stall by herself at all, but She feels that people cannot be idle, and they are idle, so she is still busy and enriching . Do more, you can spend a less salary.
Because she did not help her parents' family, her younger brother divorced, and her family life became difficult. Liu Yun said that she had no hatred in her heart, but she still couldn't forgive her. She hadn't been home for several years.
An autumn rain and a cold, and the streets in the middle of the night were already cold. A gust of wind blew, and Liu Yun shivered. She did not stop her work, but just quietly wiped away the tears from the corners of her eyes, and greeted the guests with a smile.
in Liu Yun On, we see a spirit of not admitting defeat. As long as you don’t admit defeat, you won’t lose.
Liu Yun’s experience also reminds me of autumn mother?
Autumn mother also fell into the same dilemma. She married a girl from afar. When the child was just born, her husband went in because of a mistake. She hesitated with tears: "The child is so young and she has no income. Should she continue to wait? ”
If she doesn’t wait for her husband, she can take her child back to her parents’ home. Maybe life is a little harder, but she can stand up slowly with the help of her mother. If she stays in her in-laws’ home, it is easy to imagine how difficult it is to live.
Many people around her advised her to leave. The mistake her husband made has nothing to do with her. She can have a better life. But looking at her in-laws’ elderly grandmother, she decided to stay.
Life doesn’t believe in tears. If you want to get out of the predicament, you can only change through hard work. Autumn mother takes care of her children. , while learning to shoot and record life, I finally became a well-known blogger and had a stable income.
These two women have one thing in common , that is, when experiencing difficulties, they put in all their efforts to protect their children.
We appreciate their courage and want to summarize some experience in their experiences.
Such a turning point is not an isolated case in life. To get out of difficulties, it takes a lot of courage and perseverance. Not every woman can do it. Before getting married, we must keep our eyes open, recognize each other's character, and avoid similar things.
People in the world are panicked just for a few taels of silver, but this few taels of silver can relieve the melancholy.
Many times, we have money in our hands, don't panic, learn to save when things are good, and have more confidence when encountering difficulties.
3. Communicate more with our partners and discover the other party's problems in time . Some people are good at hiding. They look good on the surface and will also buy you gifts to care for you, but through some details, they can see the other party's life state clearly.
If your partner goes astray, be sure to wake up the other party in time. Even if you have a dispute, don’t let it go.
The key path in life is just a few steps. Sometimes, if you make a mistake, you will make a mistake step by step. It is too late to regret it.
Summary:
Many people will encounter difficulties in their lives. Some difficulties are caused by the overall environment, and some difficulties are artificial.
We cannot change the environment, so we can control our own life, be down-to-earth and steady in doing things, learn to be prepared for danger in times of peace, and the whole family will work together, and we will have more strength to resist risks.
Life needs to be managed. We may live an ordinary life, but if we can avoid some predictable problems, it is a blessing.
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