"Be rich and honorable, but don't forget each other."
When you are well off and rich in your own family, you can also help poor relatives and make some concessions in terms of profit, especially the poor relatives who are relatively close to you.
For example, in some relationships between sisters or brothers, sometimes you don’t have to worry about it so much. It doesn’t matter if you suffer a little, as you can make the other person’s life easier.
Sometimes helping can easily turn into complaining, especially if there is no help, the relationship will often become stalemate in the end, it would be better not to help in the first place.
For example, if my family buys a new house, I wonder which sibling is so bad at getting along that they don’t even get a house. It would be easier to sell the house to them cheaper.
However, the money involved in the house is not a fraction, even if the price is cheaper, it will cost hundreds of thousands.
As long as both parties are honest and trust each other, this is a good thing. If there is not enough trust between each other, the other party may think it is a high price.
Recently, in Guangzhou, Guangdong, a woman complained about her brother-in-law. She felt that her brother-in-law was helping outsiders instead of helping poor relatives, so she hesitated to sell her house to outsiders.
However, netizens thought it was her fault. They thought her brother-in-law wanted to make money from her, but later she complained that her brother-in-law did not sell the house to her.
A woman was cooking in a rental house. Her husband worked in Guangzhou. The couple didn't get along very well and they hadn't bought a house in their hometown yet.
Although she couldn’t blame others for her poor life, she complained about her brother-in-law. Even though he was doing well, he didn’t help her family and even sold his old house to outsiders.
About half a year ago, my brother-in-law was planning to buy a new house with full payment. After buying and decorating it and moving in, my sister called her to talk about the house.
According to my sister, since her family doesn’t have a house in the town yet, this old house is going to be sold to her at a low price. She can just sell it for 380,000 yuan if she suffers a small loss.
However, her family's situation is not good. Her husband is just an ordinary worker, so it is difficult to come up with so much money at once, so her sister asked her to pay her debts first.
When discussing the house with her husband, they both felt that the price was a bit high and wanted to discuss with my sister and brother-in-law to lower the price by another 120,000.
This would put a smaller financial burden on her family, but her brother-in-law did not agree to the price reduction, saying that 380,000 yuan was already a loss, and he wanted to help her family to sell it at a cheaper price.
She and her husband hesitated for a while. Just before they made up their minds, their sister called again and informed them that the house had been sold.
Judging from the total selling price, it is true that it was not sold to her at a high price, and this house was not worth buying.
Her brother-in-law listed the house with a real estate agency. Within a few days, a buyer came to view the house and decided to sell it. The final sale price was 460,000, but she felt that her brother-in-law was very dishonest.
Since they all decided to sell the old house to her at a low price, her brother-in-law should not have done this and sold the house to an outsider before she decided whether to buy it or not.
She was just hesitating whether to buy it or not, but that didn’t mean she wasn’t ready to buy it. Her brother-in-law shouldn’t be in such a hurry to sell the house. He should wait until she made up her mind before selling.
Relatives should help relatives. If something happens to my brother-in-law's family, her family will definitely help without any hesitation.
How on earth should we help our poor relatives? Telling the truth is also a dilemma, as is the case in the article.
Although her brother-in-law planned to sell the old house at a loss, she didn't think so in her heart. Maybe she thought that her brother-in-law wanted to cheat her family and sell her the old house at a high price.
This can be seen from her bargaining. The price was reduced from 380,000 to 260,000. She must have felt that the house was not worth 380,000. She regretted it when her brother-in-law actually sold it.
After hearing that the house was sold for 460,000 yuan, I realized that I was judging a gentleman with a villain's heart. My sister really didn't want to cheat her or sell the house at a high price.
It's just that the deal is done and it's too late to regret it, so she can only complain a few words verbally, but anyone with a discerning eye can see that no matter how much she complains, it's her fault.
Therefore, sometimes you have to think better of others, especially the relationship between brothers or sisters. Don't always think that others are out to trick you.
often have good intentions, but their psychology is too dark.
